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Long Distance: Playtime

Long Distance: Playtime

I think that many of us would agree that while playtime is not the most important aspect of our relationships, it plays a fairly vital role in our happiness in those relationships. It is, after all, one of the things that drive us to realize that mainstream relationships just don’t fit right for us, the [...]

6 comments Posted by kallista | Posted in: Beginner Basics, Online Submission
Male submission – Financial Domination

Male submission – Financial Domination

Financial Domination is an area of BDSM which often elicits strong opinions. With other BDSM activities such as spanking and bondage, at some point after the Safe, Sane, and Consensual scene is over there is no damage done and things are typically physically back to the way they were. However, if a sub’s money is [...]

22 comments Posted by ted_subby | Posted in: Male Submission, Relationships
This is Not a Game – BDSM is My Life

This is Not a Game – BDSM is My Life

I am a tumblr whore. There’s no other way to describe it. I spend way too much time on there looking for pictures. Most of the pictures I re-blog and most of those who I follow post lifestyle related pictures. I am very particular about the pictures that I re-blog. The pictures that I post [...]

1 comment Posted by tequilarose | Posted in: Beginner Basics, Community
A Fond Farewell to InformedConsent.co.uk

A Fond Farewell to InformedConsent.co.uk

Some of you may have come across the British website – Informed Consent. It’s a sort of British Fetlife with blog posts, message boards and personals to search. News came out recently to say due to various reasons the person who is behind the site is closing it at the end of February. I thought I’d [...]

5 comments Posted by thisgirl | Posted in: Beginner Basics, Views & More...
Submissive Advent – Day 15: Our Needs Reclaimed

Submissive Advent – Day 15: Our Needs Reclaimed

Today is day 15 of the Submissive Advent Calendar. If you missed yesterday’s post you can go back to that now, or rewind all the way to the beginning. You can also read the introduction post. Being submissive, we often forget that our needs are important and may even push them aside so that we can focus only [...]

2 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Advent Calendar
How To Tell A Dominant That You Are Not Interested In Them

How To Tell A Dominant That You Are Not Interested In Them

Imagine this. You are bombarded with private messages from every Dominant in a 500 mile radius offering their control for your submission, usually only of the sexual kind. They send you penis pictures and say they are a true Master with two-times the years experience than they are old. Not hard to imagine? You mean [...]

5 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Community, Play and Sex
24/7 Slavery

24/7 Slavery

This post is written by Rick’s Fucktoy. It was first posted on Sensual Service, which I closed when I opened Submissive Guide. 24/7. All day, every day. Is it possible to live any lifestyle to that degree? More to the point, is it possible to live *this* lifestyle that I’ve chosen for myself on a 24/7 [...]

19 comments Posted by Guest Author | Posted in: Beginner Basics, Relationships
How to Use FetLife to Broaden Your Learning

How to Use FetLife to Broaden Your Learning

Since late 2008 FetLife has proven itself to be a valuable resource for those persons looking for kink advice and learning all about fetishes they may not have ever considered. It’s also a good place to make friends with local people and organize events. But since the search capacity is limited it can be very difficult [...]

12 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Beginner Basics, Personal Growth, Play and Sex
Showing Face: Internet Photos and Privacy Protection

Showing Face: Internet Photos and Privacy Protection

How many of you post pictures on the Internet of your BDSM? On maybe FetLife, Flickr, or your own blog? It has been something I have done from the very beginning. For a long time though I really was not comfortable with showing my face in any fetish pictures since i was partly worried about [...]

9 comments Posted by thisgirl | Posted in: Beginner Basics, Safety