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What Should I Try Next: Like Orgasm Control? Try Forced Orgasms!

What Should I Try Next: Like Orgasm Control? Try Forced Orgasms!

Once you start perfecting the art of giving up control of your orgasm to another person, you can start exploring it in other ways. Forced orgasm is not forcing it upon somebody unwilling (consent always of course!) but instead creating a situation where the bottom is orgasming in a way that is surprising, unconventional, or even in a way that makes them uncomfortable.

Leave a comment Posted by Mrs. Darling | Posted in: Beginner Basics
Simply Service e-Zine: May 2005

Simply Service e-Zine: May 2005

D/s e-Zine focused on Service, written by bootpig. This is the archive from May 2005. Topics include Rituals, Leather Care, Hand Signals and more! Available in PDF format for free download.

Leave a comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Service
Orgasm Control: The Master’s Gift of Orgasm

Orgasm Control: The Master’s Gift of Orgasm

As a submissive or slave, there are a lot of things our owners give to us. To me, two important things that owners can give to their property is a collar of ownership and an orgasm and I was reminded about the second gift while reading. This is the next in my series of passages [...]

9 comments Posted by tequilarose | Posted in: Sex and Sexuality, Views & More...
Male Submission – Foot Fetish

Male Submission – Foot Fetish

In this part 3 of my series of articles about Male Submission on The Submissive Guide, I discuss the role of a foot fetish. There are a whole lot of guys who have a fetish for feet, and while there are women who also have a foot fetish it is by far more prevalent with [...]

11 comments Posted by ted_subby | Posted in: Male Submission, Play and Sex
How Do You Beg For Mercy?

How Do You Beg For Mercy?

My Master sometimes wants me to beg for mercy while he’s punishing me.  I don’t really mind it, but I just don’t know how to beg for mercy.  It’s not the same as begging for an orgasm.  I’m not sure how I’m supposed to beg for him to have mercy on me during whippings or [...]

2 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything, Play and Sex

What is Non-sexual Play?

This post is part of an effort to provide a glossary for novice submissives of words commonly seen across this site and in the BDSM community. If somebody said to you that they only wanted to have non-sexual play, how would you interpret this? Does it mean no intercourse but oral is ok? Does it [...]

Leave a comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: BDSM Glossary
Orgasm on Command Training – Ultimate Goals and Variations

Orgasm on Command Training – Ultimate Goals and Variations

It can be quite obvious what the goal of orgasm on command training is but there are so many things you can do with that goal to make it interesting and exciting for everyone involved. I’m going to talk about a few things that I learned about while doing the research for my own training, [...]

6 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Play and Sex
Orgasm on Command Training – The Process for the Submissive

Orgasm on Command Training – The Process for the Submissive

When you enter a training program as intensive as orgasm training you can get overwhelmed easily. There is a lot of weight on the submissive to perform and succeed. Much of the detailed accounts I’ve read talk about what goes on as far as the training but never how the submissive internalizes it and makes [...]

1 comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Play and Sex
Initial Steps Into Orgasm on Command Training

Initial Steps Into Orgasm on Command Training

I have to start out this post by saying that I am not an expert and can only write about what I understand and have learned. KnyghtMare and I have been embarking on making orgasm on command work for our relationship and ultimately I know it will happen. It’s an exciting journey in itself and [...]

10 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Play and Sex
Intense Orgasms Need Extreme Toys from Extreme Restraints

Intense Orgasms Need Extreme Toys from Extreme Restraints

This post features Submissive Guide affiliates, meaning that if you buy something featured, you’ll be financially supporting this site’s mission of bringing awesomeness to readers everywhere. I have a love/hate relationship with my Hitachi Magic Wand. It took about 6 months for me to even adjust to the sensation and thought it was absolutely not [...]

1 comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Sponsors
Chat Night Transcript from BDSM with Kids at Home Chat

Chat Night Transcript from BDSM with Kids at Home Chat

Not every chat is logged, however when a topic really gets interesting I ask for permission to post our conversation on the website. Even if you missed the chat, take a look at what was said in your absence. (8:14:10 PM) lunaKM: Welcome to tonight’s topic: BDSM with kids at home. Tonight we will be [...]

3 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Views & More...
Processing Pain in Play: What is the Benefit of Pain, Anyway?

Processing Pain in Play: What is the Benefit of Pain, Anyway?

Continuing on the topic of processing pain we come to a very basic question, “What’s the benefit of this pain, anyway?” If you aren’t a masochist this can be a question with no clear answer. Some say, “it is part of submission,” others “to please their Sadistic Top,” and still others can say, “the benefits [...]

2 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Play and Sex
When Masturbation Is No Longer Private – Playing With Yourself For Your Dominant

When Masturbation Is No Longer Private – Playing With Yourself For Your Dominant

Introducing a new contributor here at Submissive Guide: BGtreasure! The views in this article are mine and mine alone unless otherwise stated. So lets start out with the definition of masturbation from the Dictionary.com: the stimulation or manipulation of one’s own genitals, especially to orgasm; sexual self-gratification. the stimulation, by manual or other means exclusive [...]

4 comments Posted by bgtreasure | Posted in: Play and Sex, Sex and Sexuality

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