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The Role Sex Plays in a D/s Relationship

The Role Sex Plays in a D/s Relationship

Sex and how we’ve learned about sex can form our own opinions about how sexual D/s forms in our lives and how we respond to it. The emphasis of sex in a D/s relationship comes about in a variety of forms and is only limited by your imagination. What role does it play in your relationship?

Leave a comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Newsletter Archive, Sex and Sexuality
What Should I Try Next: Like Orgasm Control? Try Forced Orgasms!

What Should I Try Next: Like Orgasm Control? Try Forced Orgasms!

Once you start perfecting the art of giving up control of your orgasm to another person, you can start exploring it in other ways. Forced orgasm is not forcing it upon somebody unwilling (consent always of course!) but instead creating a situation where the bottom is orgasming in a way that is surprising, unconventional, or even in a way that makes them uncomfortable.

Leave a comment Posted by Mrs. Darling | Posted in: Beginner Basics
Advanced Orgasm Control Techniques

Advanced Orgasm Control Techniques

Once you have control over the orgasm by needing that trigger from the Dominant you can start to move the sensation from being derived in the genitals to the genitals and something else.

Leave a comment Posted by Mrs. Darling | Posted in: Play and Sex
The Benefits of Orgasm Control and How to Get Started

The Benefits of Orgasm Control and How to Get Started

Learn about orgasm control and how to get started adding it to your own sexual exchanges!

3 comments Posted by Mrs. Darling | Posted in: Play and Sex
Connecting With Your Dominant While They Are Away

Connecting With Your Dominant While They Are Away

Continuing from my previous article on preparing for your Dominant’s absence, today I want to talk about things you can do to help feel connected when you are not able to be together. In the last article you learned a few good coping mechanisms for times when you feel alone. Working on hobbies, hanging out [...]

3 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Beginner Basics, Relationships
Orgasm Control: The Master’s Gift of Orgasm

Orgasm Control: The Master’s Gift of Orgasm

As a submissive or slave, there are a lot of things our owners give to us. To me, two important things that owners can give to their property is a collar of ownership and an orgasm and I was reminded about the second gift while reading. This is the next in my series of passages [...]

9 comments Posted by tequilarose | Posted in: Sex and Sexuality, Views & More...
Initial Steps Into Orgasm on Command Training

Initial Steps Into Orgasm on Command Training

I have to start out this post by saying that I am not an expert and can only write about what I understand and have learned. KnyghtMare and I have been embarking on making orgasm on command work for our relationship and ultimately I know it will happen. It’s an exciting journey in itself and [...]

10 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Play and Sex
Orgasm Control: Learning How to Ask for an Orgasm

Orgasm Control: Learning How to Ask for an Orgasm

In D/s sexuality one of the more common rules is that the Dominant controls the orgasms and sexual release of the submissive. Some require that the submissive not even touch themselves without the say so of the Dominant. In this style of power exchange it is familiar territory that the submissive will learn how to [...]

10 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Beginner Basics, Sex and Sexuality
With the Stroke of a Cane: Enjoying Caning

With the Stroke of a Cane: Enjoying Caning

This is a guest post by Nadia West for the BDSM activities series. I’m fairly new to caning, but I’ve discovered that I like it a lot (even if I can’t take as much as some people can). I was afraid of canes for a long time because I had heard they’re rough pain-wise. While [...]

17 comments Posted by Guest Author | Posted in: BDSM Fundamentals
The Roundtable: Chastity

The Roundtable: Chastity

Gather around the table everyone, I’d like to learn about something I don’t know a lot about. I welcome you to add your thoughts and comments to this post and if you feel an inclination, send me a guest post letting me know what you think. This month I’d like to talk about chastity. If [...]

5 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Roundtable Discussions
One month into my first real time D/S relationship: A Training Review

One month into my first real time D/S relationship: A Training Review

This is a Guest Post by A. She is a new submissive in her first 24/7 dynamic. I received this wonderfully written review of her first 30 days and she offered to share it with everyone here. Enjoy! It has come to my attention after reading submissiveguide.com that my training with Sir has already begun, [...]

26 comments Posted by Guest Author | Posted in: Beginner Basics
The Truth About Orgasm Control and Denial

The Truth About Orgasm Control and Denial

The idea of orgasm control or denial strikes fear in novice submissives. “What do you mean give over my ability to orgasm whenever I want?” Sure you could think of it that way, but in terms of your submission it could mean so much more. Let me start with the basic definitions. Orgasm Control: When [...]

21 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Play and Sex

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