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The Role Sex Plays in a D/s Relationship

The Role Sex Plays in a D/s Relationship

Sex and how we’ve learned about sex can form our own opinions about how sexual D/s forms in our lives and how we respond to it. The emphasis of sex in a D/s relationship comes about in a variety of forms and is only limited by your imagination. What role does it play in your relationship?

1 comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Newsletter Archive, Sex and Sexuality
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Reciprocity: Expectations of Transparency of the Dominant

Is it okay for the D-type to withhold information from their s-type?

3 comments Posted by tequilarose | Posted in: Relationships, Views & More...
What Do You Mean When You Say Communicate? I am Communicating!

What Do You Mean When You Say Communicate? I am Communicating!

You will learn that communicating is a whole new world when you enter into a BDSM relationship.

1 comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Beginner Basics
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Are There Basic Expectations in a Dominant That I Should Look For?

Here are some basic things you should probably look for in a Dominant.

1 comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Beginner Basics, Relationships
Single in the Scene Part III: The Slave Resume

Single in the Scene Part III: The Slave Resume

The slave resume is a snapshot of you – the services you thrive in, something you’d like to learn, S&M experiences/desires, interests, hobbies, in other words, you’re sharing the highlights of yourself that you desire to find a compatible match for.

3 comments Posted by charmed blyss | Posted in: Beginner Basics, Personal Growth, Training Resume
Orgasm on Command Training – Ultimate Goals and Variations

Orgasm on Command Training – Ultimate Goals and Variations

It can be quite obvious what the goal of orgasm on command training is but there are so many things you can do with that goal to make it interesting and exciting for everyone involved.

7 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Play and Sex
Initiating a Discussion About BDSM Interest with a Vanilla Partner: Part 3- My Partner is Interested!

Initiating a Discussion About BDSM Interest with a Vanilla Partner: Part 3- My Partner is Interested!

Your partner has reacted to the revelation of your BDSM desires in a positive way or at least is willing to participate. Congratulations! This is a huge first step.

3 comments Posted by ted_subby | Posted in: Relationships
Serving and Submission after an Abusive History

Serving and Submission after an Abusive History

Having been in the lifestyle for almost two years now, one of the things that I have noticed is that I am facing a lot of issues due to abuse from my past. Not from any Dominant in the lifestyle, just from others in my past. I’ve learned enough that if you have similar past experiences, I’d like to share some of it with you.

3 comments Posted by SehAnru | Posted in: Beginner Basics

Just Wait Till Your Father Gets Home: Telling Your Family

This post is from Norische. She allows anyone to post her articles anywhere they will do some good. I could not come up with a better way to say what she does in this article. Please enjoy and comment! I’d love to hear if you have told your family and how it went. “So what [...]

12 comments Posted by Guest Author | Posted in: BDSM Fundamentals
What Everybody Ought To Know About Basic Needs and Need Deficits

What Everybody Ought To Know About Basic Needs and Need Deficits

In the previous post about wants and needs you made a list of your wants and a list of your needs so that you had them defined for your training resume. In this essay I will share why needs are so important to your overall health and happiness in a relationship and why settling for [...]

1 comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Beginner Basics, Training Resume
Finding a Compatible Partner in the Lifestyle

Finding a Compatible Partner in the Lifestyle

“It’s so hard to find someone in the Lifestyle that I’m compatible with. You are so lucky to have found someone.” I don’t know how many times I hear this on a daily basis when conversing. It always brings up my view on the whole dating atmosphere within the Lifestyle. Yes, it is hard to [...]

1 comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Relationships

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