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Sample Master/slave Contract with Ethical Non-Monogamy Section

Sample Master/slave Contract with Ethical Non-Monogamy Section

A sample D/s contract that also includes a non-monogamy section. Feel free to copy, edit and use this one for creating your own relationship contact.

Leave a comment Posted by Mrs. Darling | Posted in: Relationships
What Do I Do When He Says “Have A Threesome or I’m Leaving”?

What Do I Do When He Says “Have A Threesome or I’m Leaving”?

Master and i have been together about a year (known each other for many more). He recently began expressing a desire for a threesome. Because of past experiences, i have very serious issues with this. i have, of course, shared these issues with Master. Unfortunately, this is something He very much wants. i told Him [...]

21 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything, Sex and Sexuality
Adding The Second Submissive – Branching Out Into Poly Relationships For The First Time

Adding The Second Submissive – Branching Out Into Poly Relationships For The First Time

From the Submissive Guide Newsletter 5/19/12 If you had asked me six months ago if I was into poly relationships I’d probably say no. KnyghtMare and I are happily monogamous and have been so for 8 years.  He’s had play partners, but never with any sex so I still considered us monogamous even if the [...]

11 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Newsletter Archive, Relationships
Book Review: The Ethical Slut

Book Review: The Ethical Slut

You have figured out by now if you read my personal blog or the Weekend Reflections here that KnyghtMare and I have recently begun the process of opening our relationship to include froggy. KnyghtMare and froggy are now Dominant and submissive and are taking it on my lead as to sexual contact. It’s not easy [...]

10 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Reviews

Research Page: Poly in BDSM

Polyamory in BDSM is a complex and challenging living arrangement no matter who you are. Poly and BDSM separately are entire worlds themselves so to put them together can only mean that there is going to be a lot of negotiation, communication and openness. No matter where you go there is bound to be discussion [...]

1 comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Research Pages
Ask Anything | Open Relationship Struggles

Ask Anything | Open Relationship Struggles

hello. I am a fairly new female submissive, my dom being another female who has been a major part of most of my life, this is just how our relationship has evolved. I understand how an open relationship works, but my last one instilled some major jealousy issues within me. I know to whom i [...]

Leave a comment Posted by SehAnru | Posted in: Ask Anything
When Your Dominant Plays With Others: How I Negotiated an Open Relationship Style That Works for Me

When Your Dominant Plays With Others: How I Negotiated an Open Relationship Style That Works for Me

From the Submissive Guide Newsletter 5/14/11 Disclaimer: This essay is not about when you encounter or find out your Dominant is cheating, but rather an agreement in place that your Dominant can play with others. About three years ago KnyghtMare and I had a discussion about opening the relationship up for SM play with others. [...]

6 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Newsletter Archive, Relationships
But My Partner is Vanilla…: Three Options Available To You When Your Partner Isn’t Kinky

But My Partner is Vanilla…: Three Options Available To You When Your Partner Isn’t Kinky

So you’ve discovered kink and want to try some things out. You talk to your partner about it.  Unfortunately, no matter how you suggest things to your partner they aren’t interested. They are really vanilla. It may be obvious that I’m not talking about the ice cream flavor here, but if you are really novice, [...]

6 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Relationships

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