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Simply Service eZine: May 2008

Simply Service eZine: May 2008

D/s e-Zine focused on Service, written by bootpig. This is the archive from May 2008. Topics include Productivity Tools, Is Slavery Real?, Rules of Bedding and more! Available in PDF format for free download.

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Simply Service eZine: November 2006

Simply Service eZine: November 2006

D/s e-Zine focused on Service, written by bootpig. This is the archive from November 2006. Topics include Personal Responsibility in BDSM, The Role of Slavery in Modern Society, a Dominant’s View of Service and more! Available in PDF format for free download.

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Simply Service eZine: February 2006

Simply Service eZine: February 2006

D/s e-Zine focused on Service, written by bootpig. This is the archive from February 2006. Topics include nonverbal communication, smoking pipe service, traveling and tipping guide and more! Available in PDF format for free download.

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Simply Service e-Zine: November 2005

Simply Service e-Zine: November 2005

D/s e-Zine focused on Service, written by bootpig. This is the archive from November 2005. Topics include time management, decluttering, domestic violence in BDSM relationships and more! Available in PDF format for free download.

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Simply Service e-Zine from November 2005

Simply Service e-Zine from November 2005

D/s e-Zine focused on Service, written by bootpig. This is the archive from November 2005. Topics include community unity, declutter tips, polyamory and more! Available in PDF format for free download.

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Simply Service e-Zine: September 2005

Simply Service e-Zine: September 2005

D/s e-Zine focused on Service, written by bootpig. This is the archive from September 2005. Topics include Time Management, Encouraging departure, Ledgerbook Service and more! Available in PDF format for free download.

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Simply Service e-Zine: August 2005

Simply Service e-Zine: August 2005

D/s e-Zine focused on Service, written by bootpig. This is the archive from August 2005. Topics include Aromatherapy Uses in Service, Speech Protocols, Grace in Service and more! Available in PDF format for free download.

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Simply Service e-Zine: July 2005

Simply Service e-Zine: July 2005

D/s e-Zine focused on Service, written by bootpig. This is the archive from June 2005. Topics include Luxury in the Bath, Aftercare, The Pitfalls of Excellence and more! Available in PDF format for free download.

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Simply Service e-Zine: January 2005

Simply Service e-Zine: January 2005

D/s e-Zine focused on Service, written by bootpig. This is the archive from January 2005. Topics include Obedience, Resistance Management, serving tea and more! Available in PDF format for free download.

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8 Ways You Might Be a “Doormat” Submissive and How to Stop

8 Ways You Might Be a “Doormat” Submissive and How to Stop

Let’s not confuse the traits of a loving, unselfish and sacrificing submissive with a doormat. Here are some questions you must ask yourself.

Comments Off Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Beginner Basics, Newsletter Archive
The Myth of the 24/7 Submissive Mindset (and Why So Many of Us Struggle)

The Myth of the 24/7 Submissive Mindset (and Why So Many of Us Struggle)

The submissive or slave mindset often sought after by novice submissives or those changing the form of their dynamic to 24/7 relationships, doesn’t exist.

Struggling in Submission: Introspection on the Fight to Improve Yourself

Struggling in Submission: Introspection on the Fight to Improve Yourself

Recently I’ve experienced my own internal struggle that caused some tension in my relationship with KnyghtMare.

How to Turn Your Submissive Experience Into Education for Your Dominant

Ways that a submissive can teach without worrying about “being Dominant” in order for the education to happen and also ways that a submissive could take on education and share that knowledge with their Dominant as a part of their service.

5 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Newsletter Archive, Relationships, Service

How To Manage, Increase and Explore Pain Tolerances in SM Play

from the Submissive Guide Newsletter 5/18/13 Whether you are a hard-core masochist or just a light explorer of sadomasochistic pain play there are always opportunies to experience more, push yourself harder and enhance your pain management techniques. How you learn to do this, and the techniques you employ are unique from submissive to submissive (masochist [...]

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Learning Better Pain Processing Through Visualization

Learning Better Pain Processing Through Visualization

As a masochist I enjoy pain for the sake of pain. I don’t always want to escape from it; rarely do I enjoy sub space because it separates me from the pain. I want to feel it, embrace it and hold it close. I’ve learned a few important skills that push those pain boundaries and bring me further into a sadist’s grasp. The most valuable of those skills is visualization.

2 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Play and Sex
5 Simple Steps to Creating a Personal Submissive Mantra

5 Simple Steps to Creating a Personal Submissive Mantra

For a personal mantra to work, it has to be positive. It has to reaffirm your choices in life and establish a realistic goal you can accomplish or a life dream fulfilled.

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You Could Be in Danger While in Top/Sub Space – Learn How to Protect Yourself

You Could Be in Danger While in Top/Sub Space – Learn How to Protect Yourself

What if I told you the impaired judgment, the slow verbal responses, the sweats or shakes and the sluggish behavior can be dangerous to your health and others if you don’t know how to deal with it? Those warning labels aren’t just for alcohol and prescription drugs.

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Brimming with Confidence – Learning to Love Your Submissive Potential

Brimming with Confidence – Learning to Love Your Submissive Potential

You are worth it. No matter what sort of submissive you are, you have potential to excel in everything you put your mind to. All it requires is three simple steps and you will be well on your way to realizing your potential.

2 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Newsletter Archive, Personal Growth
Your Responsibilities in Play – In and Out of a Relationship

Your Responsibilities in Play – In and Out of a Relationship

The responsibility of a submissive doesn’t disappear at any time. You need to look out for yourself and learn to communicate effectively with those you wish to play with, whether it’s the first or 500th time you’ve done so.

1 comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Newsletter Archive, Play and Sex
Why Would Any Submissive Want to be Micromanaged?

Why Would Any Submissive Want to be Micromanaged?

Micromanagement is a training style where the Dominant has the deciding enforce on a lot of the minute details of a submissive’s routine.

4 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Beginner Basics, Newsletter Archive
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