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How to Move On When The D/s Relationship Ends

How to Move On When The D/s Relationship Ends

Just how does one know how to move on after a relationship has come to an end, regardless of the reasons behind it? That is sometimes a confusing question for submissives to answer for themselves. Often a submissive will feel lost and all alone, as if they feel that no one will understand what they are going through

3 comments Posted by LadySneak | Posted in: Relationships
Do You Make These Mistakes? Avoid Outing a Fellow BDSM Lifestyler

Do You Make These Mistakes? Avoid Outing a Fellow BDSM Lifestyler

There is one rule that breaking it is considered a cardinal sin in the world of BDSM-outing a fellow lifestyler. Doing such can have life changing effects on their vanilla life and the kinky life of the person who does the outing.

1 comment Posted by LaneyDoll | Posted in: Community
Rules for the Working Sub

Rules for the Working Sub

It was difficult to find any information about balancing my professional life with my submissive desires, so this article is dedicated to the people who, like me, wish to explore the D/s relationship dynamic and continue to work in the professional world.

3 comments Posted by kallista | Posted in: Beginner Basics
Submissive Advent – Day 7: Random Acts of Kindness

Submissive Advent – Day 7: Random Acts of Kindness

As submissives we often forget that helping others also feeds our need to submit.

6 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Advent Calendar
What’s In a Name? Selecting a Scene Name You Can Live With

What’s In a Name? Selecting a Scene Name You Can Live With

Choosing a scene name is one thing if it is only ever going to be used online, but it takes a bit more thinking about if you are going to refer to yourself as it in real life as well or use it as an introduction point at a munch or something like ‘I’m ********* on FetLife’

12 comments Posted by thisgirl | Posted in: Community, Play and Sex
Discretion in the BDSM Community – Anonymity and Personal Privacy Concerns

Discretion in the BDSM Community – Anonymity and Personal Privacy Concerns

How safe are BDSM groups for people in high profile careers and the risk of being exposed? It’s a valid concern for anyone that seeks outside support and knowledge so I thought I’d share with you what I had to say to this person.

Comments Off Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Community
Altered Submissive Speech – Thoughts and Ideas on How to Implement Third Person Speech and other Protocols

Altered Submissive Speech – Thoughts and Ideas on How to Implement Third Person Speech and other Protocols

In all situations, altering speech and writing is to do an important task of reminding the person that they are not in control of themselves, which includes their speech. They are asked to use deference in situations that call for it and even to learn a new way to talk to keep them in the role.

10 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Beginner Basics, Community
How Do You Live the Dream: 24/7 D/s Relationships

How Do You Live the Dream: 24/7 D/s Relationships

How do you maintain a 24/7 D/s relationship and still live in the real world? This is my new challenge as my Master moved in with me late this summer.

5 comments Posted by nan {SL} | Posted in: Beginner Basics, Relationships

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