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lunaKM’s Weekend Reflections

lunaKM’s Weekend Reflections

Even after 9 years of being together, KnyghtMare and I can find ways to add spice to our lives. This week we’ve started working on a slave uniform for me to wear while at home. It consists of lingerie, collar, cuffs and butt plug. It should be interesting to get adjusted to it. The exploration [...]

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How to Move On When The Relationship Ends

How to Move On When The Relationship Ends

Just how does one know how to move on after a relationship has come to an end, regardless of the reasons behind it? That is sometimes a confusing question for submissives to answer for themselves. Often a submissive will feel lost and all alone, as if they feel that no one will understand what they [...]

3 comments Posted by LadySneak | Posted in: Relationships
Do You Make These Mistakes? Avoid Outing a Fellow BDSM Lifestyler

Do You Make These Mistakes? Avoid Outing a Fellow BDSM Lifestyler

There are a few “sins” in the world of BDSM; ignoring a safe word and touching that which does not belong to you are a few examples.  But, while both of these are bad, one might be able to look at a different point of view.  Someone may ignore a safe word because their scene [...]

1 comment Posted by LaneyDoll | Posted in: Social Norms
Rules for the Working Sub

Rules for the Working Sub

When you’re working full time in a professional field, the desire to submit can be impeded by a good number of obstacles. As a submissive who balances my full-time employment with my submissive role, one of my chief concerns will always be finding a way to please my dominant while maintaining a strong professional image [...]

2 comments Posted by kallista | Posted in: Submission
lunaKM’s Weekend Reflections

lunaKM’s Weekend Reflections

Relaxing and enjoying a three day weekend for Memorial Day here in the KnyghtMare house. We don’t really do anything for holidays around here. What do you do for the unofficial start of summer at your house? Now for the week in review: This Week on Submissive Guide This section highlights the articles posted this [...]

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lunaKM’s Weekend Reflections

lunaKM’s Weekend Reflections

Mischief in May in Iowa was pretty good! KnyghtMare, froggyKM and I had a good time at the classes, socializing and playing. I even got a few new toys including a play collar. I’ve wanted a real leather collar with D-rings for ages! Of course, with any convention you can drop pretty hard and while [...]

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Submissive Advent – Day 7: Random Acts of Kindness

Submissive Advent – Day 7: Random Acts of Kindness

Today is day 7 of the Submissive Advent Calendar. If you missed yesterday’s post you can go back to that now, or rewind all the way to the beginning. You can also read the introduction post. As submissives we often forget that helping others also feeds our need to submit. One of the most frequent suggestions I hear [...]

6 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Advent Calendar
lunaKM’s Weekend Reflections

lunaKM’s Weekend Reflections

There really isn’t a whole lot of news coming out of our house recently so I’ll spare you a boring update and get right into the summary. Now for the week in review: This Week on Submissive Guide This section highlights the articles posted this week on Submissive Guide and other updates to the blog, [...]

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What’s In a Name?

What’s In a Name?

Over the years I have had quite a few online names and aliases. Some have stayed with me, some haven’t. Some should never have existed in the first place because they were just *bad* Choosing a scene name is one thing if it is only ever going to be used online, but it takes a [...]

12 comments Posted by thisgirl | Posted in: Play/Scene, Social Norms
Discretion in the BDSM Community – Anonymity and Personal Privacy Concerns

Discretion in the BDSM Community – Anonymity and Personal Privacy Concerns

I was asked in email a while ago about how safe BDSM groups are for people in high profile careers and the risk of being exposed. It’s a valid concern for anyone that seeks outside support and knowledge so I thought I’d share with you what I had to say to this person. Here’s their [...]

Leave a comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Social Norms
Altered Submissive Speech – Thoughts and Ideas

Altered Submissive Speech – Thoughts and Ideas

I was once an online submissive. I know a bit about the language and grammar rules that reside there. They are creative and interesting and serve their purpose online. When you bring them into real life they get more annoying, but in some relationships and dynamics they still serve their purpose. What language adjustments am [...]

9 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Social Norms, Submission
lunaKM’s Weekend Reflections

lunaKM’s Weekend Reflections

My birthday on Monday was really nice. We tried out a new fiberglass cane from BDSM-Gear and I had my first experience of leather butt. I’ve never taken a caning that intense before. I’d have to say that the new cane is a win-win. I also had cake for breakfast, and birthday cake ice cream [...]

1 comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Weekend Reflections
Living the Dream 24/7

Living the Dream 24/7

How do you maintain a 24/7 D/s relationship and still live in the real world? This is my new challenge as my Master moved in with me late this summer. Rituals: My original thought was to maintain rituals. When I came home, I wanted to go up to my Master in the house and kneel. [...]

4 comments Posted by nan {SL} | Posted in: Relationships, Submission