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Learning To Be a 24/7 Submissive Is Like…

Learning To Be a 24/7 Submissive Is Like…

You practice, adapt and learn what works for you and discard the things that don’t. If you apply it to your everyday life, make it a part of you and don’t consider it an on/off switch, then you too can be 24/7.

1 comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Relationships
Nobody’s Perfect-Including Your Dominant!

Nobody’s Perfect-Including Your Dominant!

It’s really easy for those of us who are S-types to think that our D-types are perfect. And that is the furthest thing from the truth.

3 comments Posted by tequilarose | Posted in: Beginner Basics, Community
Ask lunaKM – Weakness and Triggers, 24/7 Start and Incompatibility

Ask lunaKM – Weakness and Triggers, 24/7 Start and Incompatibility

Dear lunaKM, I am new to the Submissive role and BDSM in general. To make a long story short I am finally with my best friend from high school 10 years later, after being through a hellish marriage for 5 years and a physically abusive relationship before that…I love my now boyfriend and he is [...]

3 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything
Single in the Scene Part IV: Petitioning

Single in the Scene Part IV: Petitioning

Petitioning is an acknowledgment of structure and formality; it is definitely a humbling experience for a slave. It is also a way for a slave to solidly express their desires – no hemming and hawing, no beating around the bush, just a determined statement of the desire.

Single in the Scene Part III: The Slave Resume

Single in the Scene Part III: The Slave Resume

The slave resume is a snapshot of you – the services you thrive in, something you’d like to learn, S&M experiences/desires, interests, hobbies, in other words, you’re sharing the highlights of yourself that you desire to find a compatible match for.

3 comments Posted by charmed blyss | Posted in: Beginner Basics, Personal Growth, Training Resume

Living M/s Book Club Wrap-Up Participation Showcase

Today I wanted to take some time and showcase all of the favorite quotes, some of the key thoughts and comments on the book from this event. Thank you, everyone, for participating!

2 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Roundtable Discussions
Living M/s Book Club – Week 4

Living M/s Book Club – Week 4

Today we’ll be talking about pages 120 to the end of the book. If you’ve read along, please participate.

4 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Roundtable Discussions
Book Review: Master/slave Relations: Handbook of Theory and Practice

Book Review: Master/slave Relations: Handbook of Theory and Practice

I’ll definitely recommend this book to anyone who says they want a Master in their life or are thinking they are a Master. It’s easy to read with a lot of personal introspection expected. You’ll finish this book a better Master or slave – that I really believe.

1 comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Reviews
Is It Possible to Live as a Slave 24/7?

Is It Possible to Live as a Slave 24/7?

The best I can hope for each day, every day is to serve Him faithfully and to the best of my abilities and to love Him unconditionally. I don’t lose sight of my place with Him, and we manage a 24/7 lifestyle just fine.

19 comments Posted by Guest Author | Posted in: Beginner Basics, Relationships
Who Has the Greatest Responsibility in a D/s Relationship?

Who Has the Greatest Responsibility in a D/s Relationship?

Every adult has some personal responsibilities that don’t go away just because you may be submissive in a D/s or M/s relationship.

1 comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Relationships
The Wife vs The Slave: Similarities and Differences in the Relationship Roles

The Wife vs The Slave: Similarities and Differences in the Relationship Roles

This is a guest post by Jim’s {Beth}. Alternative lifestyles make some people nervous. Others believe that anyone who lives such a lifestyle must be sick, crazy, unbalanced, twisted, perverted, or even masochistic. Living a lifestyle choice such as Dominance/submission (D/s), Master/slave (M/s)—both can be considered as All or Total Power Exchange relationships (APE/TPE)— is [...]

17 comments Posted by Guest Author | Posted in: Beginner Basics

Ask lunaKM – Universal Safe Words and the Different Relationship Types

This month I have questions about safe words and relationship types. I have heard that there are universal safe words, but the only one I’ve ever been told of is red(as far as I know it is a call for help). I just want to know if there are sets of words known as a [...]

Comments Off Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything

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