By nan {SL} on June 11, 2010
I have spent much time pondering the seemingly conflicting views of feminism and submission. In the first part of my article, I would like to discuss feminism and how it fits in with my view of both the BDSM community and submission. In the second part, I will explore how I practice feminism in my [...]
Posted in Social Norms, Submission | Tagged acceptance, bdsm community, conflicting views, equality of the sexes, feminism, gender, movement, personal growth, self-improvement |
By lunaKM on December 21, 2009
This month I dived into a book full of controversy with its approach to living intimately with your husband (or partner). I read The Surrendered Wife by Laura Doyle. I didn’t read it to find the reason for the argument between feminists and the author of the book’s ideas. I read it to see what [...]
Posted in Reviews | Tagged amazon.com, book, book review, books, comfort, control, controversy, D/s, feminine, feminist movement, gender, gratitude, help, husband and wife, intimacy, intimate marriage, Laura Doyle, marriage, movement, receiving graciously, relationship, Relationships, review, roles, rt, self help book, self-care, sex, shift, submission, submissive, suggestions, surrender, Surrendered Wife, surrendering, tasks, traditions |
By lunaKM on May 2, 2009
Just 2 days left in the Submissive Positions project here at Submissive Guide. If you need a review, please take a look at the primary post; it has links to all of the posts in the project. Today I’d like to talk about the bane of many a submissive; fidgeting. Sitting still is really hard [...]
Posted in Submissive Positions | Tagged 2WBSP, Bondage, comfort, fidgeting, focus, help, learning, links, mediation, meditation, movement, munch, play, positions, progress, relaxation, review, rt, slave positions, submissive, Submissive Positions |
![Worship and Obedience [Day 10 - 2WBSP]](http://www.submissiveguide.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/04/01a_supplication_photo-150x150.jpg)
By lunaKM on April 30, 2009
Nearing the end of our 2 Weeks to Better Submissive Positions here at Submissive Guide. Today we are going to learn positions of worship. There will be moments in your submission that a feeling wells up inside of you to show your devotion and respect to your Dominant. You may also be asked to show [...]
Posted in Submissive Positions | Tagged 2WBSP, bow, comfort, Dom, dominant, hands, kneeling, learning, movement, obedience, online, poses, positions, relationship, rt, Service, share, slave positions, submission, submissive, Submissive Positions, worship |
![Attending Your Dominant [Day 6 - 2WBSP]](http://www.submissiveguide.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/04/offering-apple-lepiaf-geo-150x150.jpg)
By lunaKM on April 26, 2009
In the previous posts we covered basic positions that should now be familiar and perhaps you have worked out in your relationship that you want to employ them. If you need to review you can do that by going to the initial post. Today we will be learning an active position and one that can [...]
Posted in Submissive Positions | Tagged 2WBSP, active positions, assistance, attentiveness, calendar, comfort, cons, Dom, dominant, event, grace, hands, information, learned, learning, movement, needs, organization, positions, preparedness, relationship, review, rt, safe, Service, serving, shopping, slave positions, standing, submissive, Submissive Positions |
![Rise From The Floor With Finesse [Day 4 - 2WBSP]](http://www.submissiveguide.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/04/nude-statue-david_boyle-150x150.jpg)
By lunaKM on April 24, 2009
The next part of this two week series is about getting up from the floor. You’ve already learned about kneeling, standing at attention and lowering yourself with grace. Stick around, we have a lot to learn. If you’ve ever watched Memoirs of a Geisha you have seen how graceful it can be to rise from [...]
Posted in Submissive Positions | Tagged 2WBSP, Dom, dominant, getting up off the floor, grace, hands, help, kneeling, learned, links, movement, positions, progress, review, rising from the floor, rt, series, standing, submissive |
![Gracefully Lowering Yourself [Day 3 - 2WBSP]](http://www.submissiveguide.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/04/kneeling-quinnanya-150x150.jpg)
By lunaKM on April 23, 2009
We have covered standing and kneeling so far in the positions project here at Submissive Guide. Today we will cover going from standing to kneeling in a graceful way. It’s not as easy as you think. First you have to pick out one kneeling posture and one standing posture from the previous posts. This way [...]
Posted in Submissive Positions | Tagged 2WBSP, comfort, control, grace, graceful movement, hands, help, kneeling, learning, movement, perfection, positions, rt, slave positions, stand at attention, standing, submissive, Submissive Positions |
By lunaKM on April 17, 2009
A question I see asked all the time is “how can I be a better submissive?” Here are a few things you can do to make your submission and service better without a lot of work. 1. Move with purpose. If you have been asked to fetch something or approach your Dominant, be precise in [...]
Posted in Submission | Tagged 7 things, advice, ceremony, comfort, Dom, dominant, fidgeting, grace, growth, help, improvements, improvisation, information, learning, love, mantra, meditation, movement, natural, play, preparedness, pride, purpose, rt, self-awareness, Service, serving, sex, share, skills, speech, submission, submissive, support, tasks |
By lunaKM on April 15, 2009
Today’s post comes from Skylerpet, a submissive pet in a D/s relationship who volunteered to write an essay for me after seeing the Weekly Tips on YouTube. Thank you Skylerpet! Pet play is one of the most unique, one of the least known and in my opinion one of the most fun and entertaining sub-cultures [...]
Posted in Playtime, Relationships | Tagged 24/7, BDSM, begging, Bondage, bow, chat, collars, communication, cons, D/s, Dom, dominant, email, experience, female, focus, Gor, hands, help, human animals, human pet, learning, lifestyle, movement, needs, opinion, owned, pet play, pets, play, protocol, punishment, questions, relationship, role play, rt, rules, safe, Safety, scene, sex, short, skylerpet, slave, stress, submission, submissive, switch, tall, tips, toy, toys, training, tricks, writing |
By lunaKM on March 10, 2009
This week’s video tip is about mentors. A mentor is a person more experienced in certain aspects of life than you are. They are also more open to varying viewpoints, have a desire to teach and aide others. A mentor is a role model and a very special counselor to those they council. In business [...]
Posted in BDSM Basics, Video Posts | Tagged advice, BDSM, communication, development, Dom, dominant, experience, get advice, help, learning, mentor, movement, novice, novices, questions, rt, skills, submission, submissive, training, value, viewpoints |
By lunaKM on March 6, 2009
Recently there has been a lot of talk about Feminism and it’s role in society where it’s related (or not related) to submission in a D/s context. I read kaya’s post from Under His Hand, that while being a rant, was a well thought out discussion on how narrow minded a lot of feminists are [...]
Posted in Social Norms, Submission | Tagged choice, choices, D/s, danger, discussion, Dom, dominant, family, female, feminism, feminist movement, movement, norms, opinion, opposing views, poll, relationship, rt, single, societal views, submission, winner |
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