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5 Ways Rituals Enhance Your Relationship with Yourself and Your Dynamic

5 Ways Rituals Enhance Your Relationship with Yourself and Your Dynamic

Every relationship can be enhanced by ritual and also every person in the exchange can get something from ritual. It’s not hard to get started either.

1 comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Newsletter Archive, Rituals and Routines
Sexual Compromise: When You’re Only A Little Horny

Sexual Compromise: When You’re Only A Little Horny

Sometimes I want to be horny, or I am physically horny but my mind isn’t into it. In these situations, I have to find a workaround to get myself where I personally want to be.

Leave a comment Posted by andyiccee | Posted in: Play and Sex
Book Review: Slave-ography by Slave Patrick

Book Review: Slave-ography by Slave Patrick

I consider this book one that any s-type should pick up. It’s great to see a male’s perspective on what it means to be a slave.

Leave a comment Posted by tequilarose | Posted in: Male Submission, Reviews
Patience – Submissive Meditation Monday

Patience – Submissive Meditation Monday

Patience plays an important role in the life of a submissive. Spend some time with me today to reflect on patience.

2 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Personal Growth
The 5 Levels of Sub Space In and Out of Playtime

The 5 Levels of Sub Space In and Out of Playtime

Every single submissive who has experienced sub space describes it differently and you too can expect to feel something different if you ever reach that sensory high.

11 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Newsletter Archive, Play and Sex
How Do I Get My Submissive Focus Back After a D/s Break?

How Do I Get My Submissive Focus Back After a D/s Break?

Because of family problems the D/s part was missing a bit recently. Now that all problems are gone I find it extremely difficult to get back in that headspace I had before.

Leave a comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything
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The Things I Carry That Help My Submission

This is just a small list of the things I carry with me(whether physically, mentally, and emotionally)that help me with my submission and help me be the slave that I want to be.

6 comments Posted by tequilarose | Posted in: Mindset
Stop Comparing Yourself With Others – My Submission Isn’t Better Than Yours

Stop Comparing Yourself With Others – My Submission Isn’t Better Than Yours

I know being competitive is a part of human nature, but the constant comparison of yourself to others doesn’t do anyone, especially you any good.

Leave a comment Posted by tequilarose | Posted in: Beginner Basics, Relationships
Reconnecting When I Feel A Disconnect with My Submission

Reconnecting When I Feel A Disconnect with My Submission

No matter where I am in my submissive journey I find times where it’s harder to submit than others.

Leave a comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything, Beginner Basics
The Myth of the 24/7 Submissive Mindset (and Why So Many of Us Struggle)

The Myth of the 24/7 Submissive Mindset (and Why So Many of Us Struggle)

The submissive or slave mindset often sought after by novice submissives or those changing the form of their dynamic to 24/7 relationships, doesn’t exist.

Ask lunaKM – Too Shy for Events, Shifting from Work to Home, Finding a Partner

Ask lunaKM – Too Shy for Events, Shifting from Work to Home, Finding a Partner

Dear lunaKM, I really would like to go to some kink events. The problem is that I’m very shy. I also have an unreasonable fear of the unknown. Can you give a brief description of some different kinds of events? What happens there? What kinds of people do you meet? What kind of interaction is [...]

Leave a comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything
Everyone Needs a Break, Right – Do you Break from Submission?

Everyone Needs a Break, Right – Do you Break from Submission?

While I can’t say that everyone takes a break it’s good to know that we can without it being the end of our submission altogether. I hope you will forever remain happy, on whatever phase of submission you are currently in.

Leave a comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Beginner Basics, Newsletter Archive

30 Days of Submission: Day 25 – Rituals of Submission

Read the entire series – go back to the Introduction of the 30 Days of Submission! Are there items, objects or rituals that represent or help you express submission? If not, have you ever thought of adding or being gifted one? Is there a special significance to these objects or rituals? My relationship is full [...]

Leave a comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Beginner Basics
Orgasm Control: The Master’s Gift of Orgasm

Orgasm Control: The Master’s Gift of Orgasm

As a submissive or slave, there are a lot of things our owners give to us. To me, two important things that owners can give to their property is a collar of ownership and an orgasm and I was reminded about the second gift while reading. This is the next in my series of passages [...]

9 comments Posted by tequilarose | Posted in: Sex and Sexuality, Views & More...
Capturing That Elusive Submissive Mindset

Capturing That Elusive Submissive Mindset

From the Submissive Guide Newsletter 7/6/13 We reach far and deep within to touch the submissive mindset. The moment is fleeting or short lived and we have a need to reach it again and again. Often the goal is to live in the submissive mindset all the time. For others it is being able to [...]

1 comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Beginner Basics, Newsletter Archive
Working to Develop Personal Rituals

Working to Develop Personal Rituals

Every single day I perform rituals that I’ve created to help me feel connected to my submission even if I’m not in the mood or feeling in the right mindset. They are especially helpful during times of stress and busy life when the D/s may seem pushed back so that other pressing matters can be [...]

3 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Rituals and Routines
5 Simple Steps to Creating a Personal Submissive Mantra

5 Simple Steps to Creating a Personal Submissive Mantra

from the Submissive Guide Newsletter 4/20/13 Developing your own personal mantra is a path to peace and achievement. You can then use your mantra whenever you feel stressed or out of focus with your submission. I use my mantra on a daily basis to keep my mindset on my Dominant and the behavior he has [...]

Leave a comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Newsletter Archive, Personal Growth
Coming to an Understanding – I am a Slave

Coming to an Understanding – I am a Slave

Like anyone else who’s walking the submissive path, I struggle from time to time. Maybe more times than I really care to admit. There are times where Daddy asks things of me, that I don’t quite want to do or I feel like I don’t have a submissive bone in my body and that makes [...]

12 comments Posted by tequilarose | Posted in: Beginner Basics
Male Submission – Foot Fetish

Male Submission – Foot Fetish

In this part 3 of my series of articles about Male Submission on The Submissive Guide, I discuss the role of a foot fetish. There are a whole lot of guys who have a fetish for feet, and while there are women who also have a foot fetish it is by far more prevalent with [...]

11 comments Posted by ted_subby | Posted in: Male Submission, Play and Sex
Learn How to Nourish Yourself, Your Relationship and Your Submission

Learn How to Nourish Yourself, Your Relationship and Your Submission

Several years ago, I was reading a book. In the book, one of the characters had a tattoo that read “quod nutrit me destruit me”. After reading a bit further, the translation of the quote was given, “that which nourishes me also destroys me”. Long after finishing the book, I was unable to forget that [...]

4 comments Posted by tequilarose | Posted in: Beginner Basics
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