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Explain It To Me: The Draw of Being Spanked

Explain It To Me: The Draw of Being Spanked

Despite being commonplace in kinky relationships, explaining the appeal of being spanked to someone who is new to the scene or curious about it can be difficult.

17 comments Posted by kallista | Posted in: Beginner Basics
The Curse of Masochism

The Curse of Masochism

I very very often HATE that I’m a masochist.

4 comments Posted by Guest Author | Posted in: Beginner Basics, Play and Sex

Pain Play Discussed Online – Explore The Variety of Views

Some of the best online reading on the topic. Browse the list, watch the videos and learn more about pain play.

Leave a comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Play and Sex
Take the Bite Out of Submitting to Pain – Sadomasochism Is Not a Part of Submission

Take the Bite Out of Submitting to Pain – Sadomasochism Is Not a Part of Submission

You do not have to like pain or be a masochist to be submissive. That’s it. That piece of news right there leads to one of the largest reasons so many of you are confused.

5 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Beginner Basics
Conquer Me Book Club – Week 2

Conquer Me Book Club – Week 2

This week’s reading was intense and meaty, trust me I know! I had to read it twice in order to get everything out of it that I wanted to. What are you thinking about the book so far?

10 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Roundtable Discussions
Adding The Second Submissive – Branching Out Into Poly Relationships For The First Time

Adding The Second Submissive – Branching Out Into Poly Relationships For The First Time

Adding another to a once closed relationship has been a learning experience and one that I’m sure I have more to explore and understand. For now I think we are on a path to even more happiness than I could have imagined.

11 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Newsletter Archive, Relationships
Processing Pain in Play: What is the Natural Process?

Processing Pain in Play: What is the Natural Process?

Sadomasochism is the giving and receiving of sensations. In a lot of cases this also includes pain. Many of the sadomasochistic tendencies bleed into our relationships in some form or other so what better discussion than to talk about processing pain. Over the next week we’ll cover what the natural pain process is, pain management techniques, how [...]

8 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Play and Sex

Chat Night Transcript from Masochism Talk

This chat was held April 20, 2010. <lunaKM> Alright, so are we all ready to talk about Masochism? <Soleil25> Yes <Justin> yes <Myst> yes <sephani> of corse <FuzzyP> yes <sephani> course* stupid “U” key is acting a fool <lunaKM> Great, so, what was your first exposure to the term masochism? <sephani> I think I was [...]

1 comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Views & More...
Submissive Skills: Service Topping For Your Dominant’s Pleasure

Submissive Skills: Service Topping For Your Dominant’s Pleasure

Every relationship dynamic is different. If you’ve been following this blog for any length of time you have been exposed to some very unique relationships and the submissives in those relationships. There are submissives who are pets, some who are slaves, others who, like you’ve read recently, are hunt sluts for their owners. Today I’m [...]

16 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Talents and Skills
Processing Pain and Being a Masochist

Processing Pain and Being a Masochist

Being that I’m a masochist, I love pain. I’ve never really thought about it or analyzed what that means really, but reading other people’s blogs has always helped me see that saying I’m masochist is just another huge personal term in BDSM as a whole. So, to think it though, this is what being a [...]

8 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Play and Sex
Why BDSM is Not D/s

Why BDSM is Not D/s

This post is by Skylerpet. She’s written several other posts here for Submissive Guide. You can read more of her work on online submission and pet play here. BDSM and D/s. Some see it as the same, I seem them as two very different things. Here, I plan on explaining the how’s and why’s of [...]

7 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: BDSM Fundamentals
Recommended Reading for New Submissives

Recommended Reading for New Submissives

The following is a list of books that I recommend for every novice submissive. The links lead you to Amazon if you are interested in buying the books. Part of your purchase goes towards supporting this site and my efforts at continuing to bring you content on this site. Books Conquer Me: girl-to-girl wisdom about [...]

7 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: BDSM Fundamentals

Do I have to Like Pain to be Submissive?

  This week’s video post is about masochism and submission. I mentioned this in the post about myths that submissive’s aren’t always masochist. I thought this topic deserved a more in depth discussion. I’m a masochist. I get sexual pleasure from pain. That’s wired into me. I’m also submissive. It’s who I am. For me, [...]

2 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Online Submission, Video Posts

All Female Submissives are Bisexual and Other BDSM Myths

The world is full of false truths. These false truths tend to be the assumptions of the uninformed or the beliefs of those who want to scare novices out of their wits. Many of these are because of a narrow view of the world or an inability to accept varying viewpoints. In this post I’m [...]

4 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: BDSM Fundamentals
Book Review: Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns

Book Review: Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns

If you’ve been around the BDSM and D/s scene at all there is one of many books that always comes up in conversation as a good book to read when you are new to the whole lifestyle. This book is Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns: The Romance and Sexual Sorcery of Sadomasochism by [...]

6 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Reviews
Start Here: Don’t Begin Exploring BDSM Until You’ve Read the Basics

Start Here: Don’t Begin Exploring BDSM Until You’ve Read the Basics

There are so many primers out there about BDSM I’m not sure if another one is really needed. Then again with all the basic questions asked on forums and chat rooms about BDSM it’s unlikely that my words will not be read by someone and that they will take something new from them. BDSM is [...]

9 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: BDSM Fundamentals

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