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Simple Steps to Creating a Personal Mantra

Simple Steps to Creating a Personal Mantra

from the Submissive Guide Newsletter 4/20/13 Developing your own personal mantra is a path to peace and achievement. You can then use your mantra whenever you feel stressed or out of focus with your submission. I use my mantra on a daily basis to keep my mindset on my Dominant and the behavior he has [...]

Leave a comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Improve Yourself, Newsletter Archive
What Influences You?

What Influences You?

The other day, I found myself wondering who and what influences me with the decisions I make. The reason why I found myself pondering this is because I had begun to doubt myself and everything I believed and how I lived my life because of something someone had said about me. This person who had [...]

3 comments Posted by tequilarose | Posted in: Improve Yourself, Social Norms
Little Known Ways We Experience Sub Space

Little Known Ways We Experience Sub Space

I admit that I used to whisper tales of sub space and the other blissful states that I’ve been in as if they were magical golden hours of submission.  I actually believed long ago that sub space is what made me a “real” submissive. Trust me, that bubble didn’t last long. Once it was popped [...]

5 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Play and Sex
The Role of a Collar in a Long Distance Relationship

The Role of a Collar in a Long Distance Relationship

Welcome kallista to Submissive Guide contributors! It’s no secret that having a working long distance relationship is a challenge, even under the most traditional circumstances, but when the dynamics of your relationship are dependent upon the delicate balance of give and take between Dominant and submissive, the potential challenges that you face increase tenfold. When [...]

Leave a comment Posted by kallista | Posted in: Learn to Submit, Online Submission
Coming to an Understanding – I am a Slave

Coming to an Understanding – I am a Slave

Like anyone else who’s walking the submissive path, I struggle from time to time. Maybe more times than I really care to admit. There are times where Daddy asks things of me, that I don’t quite want to do or I feel like I don’t have a submissive bone in my body and that makes [...]

12 comments Posted by tequilarose | Posted in: Learn to Submit
Finding My Focus

Finding My Focus

Several years ago, before I met Daddy, I had a mantra that I used to write everyday in my journal. It was one of those moments of inspiration for me. I needed something that was going to pull my self esteem out of the toilet and help me feel better about myself. It went something [...]

2 comments Posted by tequilarose | Posted in: Learn to Submit
Submissive Advent – Day 2: Create a Submissive Token

Submissive Advent – Day 2: Create a Submissive Token

Today is day 2 of the Submissive Advent Calendar. If you missed yesterday’s post you can go back to that now, or rewind all the way to the beginning. You can also read the introduction post. There are moments in our life where we can lose sight of why we are submitting, or we can’t [...]

9 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Advent Calendar
Submissive Advent – Day 1: In Wait

Submissive Advent – Day 1: In Wait

Welcome to the first day of Submissive Advent. Every day we’ll learn more about ourselves, our relationship or perspective relationships and our submission. Shakespeare has a couple of sonnets that are often used as poems of submission and service. Today, I’d like to share Sonnet 57: Being your slave what should I do but tend [...]

25 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Advent Calendar
lunaKM’s Weekend Reflections

lunaKM’s Weekend Reflections

I had a beautiful birthday this week and was so spoiled by the end of it that I’m still feeling the happy love bubbles around me. :) The past few years, turning older has been a downer, but KM constantly reminds me that it doesn’t matter in the long run – it’s just a number. [...]

Leave a comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Weekend Reflections

Why Safety is Preached to Novices and Why It’s Important to Know Anyway

From the Submissive Guide Newsletter 3/3/10 Being in the BDSM community for any length of time you are likely to come across the common sermons of SSC, Safe Calls and First Meeting Safety. When you are novice in BDSM I’d encourage you to listen to these sermons and listen hard; they could protect you as [...]

1 comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Newsletter Archive, Stay Safe
Service With Grace

Service With Grace

If you’ve been following Submissive Guide on twitter for any length of time you will notice an interesting blog that I have updates sent to twitter. This blog is one of distinction because it is written to aid the domestic and service oriented submissive with tasks around the house and within themselves. The blog I’m [...]

1 comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Service, Views & More...

When You Can’t Get Away: Follow Up to Submissive PMS

In a recent video post about Submissive PMS I had someone email me with some questions that I thought deserved a new post. If you haven’t seen the video or attached post, please go to the article and read it first! Now on to his questions: 1. What’s a subbie to do when, for whatever [...]

Leave a comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Learn to Submit
7 Things You Can Do Today to Impove Your Submission

7 Things You Can Do Today to Impove Your Submission

A question I see asked all the time is “how can I be a better submissive?” Here are a few things you can do to make your submission and service better without a lot of work. 1. Move with purpose. If you have been asked to fetch something or approach your Dominant, be precise in [...]

15 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Learn to Submit
A Great Example of a Slave’s Rosary

A Great Example of a Slave’s Rosary

On FetLife quite awhile back now, a slave posted her version of a rosary with her Master as the focus. As with any rosary or prayer beads, it is used in mediation and presents a spirituality in service that can be adopted and adapted to fit your relationship. I’ve always had a curiosity with religious [...]

19 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Learn to Submit, Mindset, Spirituality
Finding Your Spirituality In Service

Finding Your Spirituality In Service

A recent journal prompt I came across really inspired me to write about it.  It is spirituality. A lot of what I hear about spirituality is related to religion, but BDSM can be spiritual too and I’d like to explore that with you. What is the relationship between spirituality and religion? Is BDSM spiritual? –Submissive [...]

8 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Mindset, Service, Spirituality
RACK: An Alternative to SSC

RACK: An Alternative to SSC

In a previous post I talked about Safe, Sane and Consensual or SSC, a safety mantra that quite a bit of the BDSM community has picked up as a way to explain ourselves to non-lifestyle people. It’s an easy way to explain what can’t really be explained. I don’t intend to make this a primer [...]

Leave a comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: BDSM Basics, Stay Safe

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