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Why Safety is Preached to Novices and Why It’s Important to Know Anyway

By lunaKM on June 4, 2010

From the Submissive Guide Newsletter 3/3/10 Being in the BDSM community for any length of time you are likely to come across the common sermons of SSC, Safe Calls and First Meeting Safety. When you are novice in BDSM I’d encourage you to listen to these sermons and listen hard; they could protect you as [...]

Posted in Newsletter Archive, Safety | Tagged advice, basics, community, lifestyle, mantra, newsletter, novices, red flags, rules, safe call, Safety, SSC, submissive guide newsletter | 1 Response

Service With Grace

By lunaKM on October 5, 2009

If you’ve been following Submissive Guide on twitter for any length of time you will notice an interesting blog that I have updates sent to twitter. This blog is one of distinction because it is written to aid the domestic and service oriented submissive with tasks around the house and within themselves. The blog I’m [...]

Posted in Service, Views & More... | Tagged blog review, blogs, book, clean, cleaning, dates, Dom, energy, favorite, focus, grace, health, help, internet, m/s, mantra, namaste, organization, preference, preferences, questions, rt, series, Service, service savoir faire, share, slave, submissive, submissive blogs, tasks, twitter, websites | 1 Response

When You Can’t Get Away: Follow Up to Submissive PMS

By lunaKM on June 15, 2009

In a recent video post about Submissive PMS I had someone email me with some questions that I thought deserved a new post. If you haven’t seen the video or attached post, please go to the article and read it first! Now on to his questions: 1. What’s a subbie to do when, for whatever [...]

Posted in Submission | Tagged bad mood, changing behavior, corrective action, discipline, Dom, dominant, dominants, email, event, focus, help, love, mantra, masculine, meditation, PMS, punishment, questions, rt, separation, submissive, submissive pms | Leave a response

7 Things You Can Do Today to Impove Your Submission

By lunaKM on April 17, 2009

A question I see asked all the time is “how can I be a better submissive?” Here are a few things you can do to make your submission and service better without a lot of work. 1. Move with purpose. If you have been asked to fetch something or approach your Dominant, be precise in [...]

Posted in Submission | Tagged 7 things, advice, ceremony, comfort, Dom, dominant, fidgeting, grace, growth, help, improvements, improvisation, information, learning, love, mantra, meditation, movement, natural, play, preparedness, pride, purpose, rt, self-awareness, Service, serving, sex, share, skills, speech, submission, submissive, support, tasks | 15 Responses

A Great Example of a Slave’s Rosary

By lunaKM on March 21, 2009

On FetLife quite awhile back now, a slave posted her version of a rosary with her Master as the focus. As with any rosary or prayer beads, it is used in mediation and presents a spirituality in service that can be adopted and adapted to fit your relationship. I’ve always had a curiosity with religious [...]

Posted in Mindset, Spirituality, Submission | Tagged comfort, community, cons, desires, Dom, fetlife, focus, Gor, grace, gratitude, love, mantra, mediation, melly, prayer, punishment, punishments, recitation, relationship, ritual, rosary, rt, Service, share, single, slave, slavery, spirit, spiritual, submission, submissive, trust | 13 Responses

Finding Your Spirituality In Service

By lunaKM on March 20, 2009

A recent journal prompt I came across really inspired me to write about it. It is spirituality. A lot of what I hear about spirituality is related to religion, but BDSM can be spiritual too and I’d like to explore that with you. What is the relationship between spirituality and religion? Is BDSM spiritual? –Submissive [...]

Posted in Mindset, Service, Spirituality | Tagged acceptance, bath, bathing, BDSM, connection, Dom, dominant, energy, experience, focus, grace, happiness, help, how-to, inner peace, journey, kinky, learning, lifestyle, m/s, mantra, mediation, orgasms, play, purpose, relationship, religion, ritual, rt, sensuous, Service, serving, sex, share, skills, spirit, spiritual, structure, submission, submissive, tips, trust, twitter, worship | 5 Responses

RACK: An Alternative to SSC

By lunaKM on February 23, 2009

In a previous post I talked about Safe, Sane and Consensual or SSC, a safety mantra that quite a bit of the BDSM community has picked up as a way to explain ourselves to non-lifestyle people. It’s an easy way to explain what can’t really be explained. I don’t intend to make this a primer [...]

Posted in BDSM Basics, Safety | Tagged activities, BDSM, bdsm play, BDSM practitioner, blogs, community, cons, consensual, danae, danger, dangers, Dom, dominant, edge play, essays, familiarity, Justin Medlin, lifestyle, mantra, negotiation, play, purpose, RACK, risk, risk aware, rt, safe, Safety, sane, scene, shift, spanking, spirit, SSC, stress, submissive, switch, viewpoints | Leave a response

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When You Can’t Get Away: Follow Up to Submissive PMS

RACK: An Alternative to SSC

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