Mentoring, self-help and submissive exploration

Articles for tag 'male submission'

Articles

Male submission – Financial Domination

Male submission – Financial Domination

Financial Domination is an area of BDSM which often elicits strong opinions. With other BDSM activities such as spanking and bondage, at some point after the Safe, Sane, and Consensual scene is over there is no damage done and things are typically physically back to the way they were. However, if a sub’s money is [...]

9 comments Posted by ted_subby | Posted in: Male Submission, Relationships
Male Submission – Selfishness

Male Submission – Selfishness

The title of this article may seem self-contradictory but submission means different things to different people and also almost all human beings are selfish to at least some degree at some point in our lives. Many submissives gain pleasure directly from the pleasure of their dominant and they are clearly not the target of this [...]

11 comments Posted by ted_subby | Posted in: Male Submission
Male Submission – Foot Fetish

Male Submission – Foot Fetish

In this part 3 of my series of articles about Male Submission on The Submissive Guide, I discuss the role of a foot fetish. There are a whole lot of guys who have a fetish for feet, and while there are women who also have a foot fetish it is by far more prevalent with [...]

11 comments Posted by ted_subby | Posted in: Male Submission, Play and Sex
Male Submission – Fantasy vs Reality

Male Submission – Fantasy vs Reality

In part 1 of my series of articles on male submission I wrote about one archetype of male submission “The Worm.”  For clarification, a large majority of male submissives do not fit that mindset as there are plenty of other dynamics. However, one topic which is common to many male submissives is that the fantasy [...]

8 comments Posted by ted_subby | Posted in: Male Submission
Male Submission – The Worm

Male Submission – The Worm

As the first in a series of articles focusing on male submission, this article presents thoughts about one of the archetypes of male submission, the “worm.” Men and women are different, of course, and in some cases that goes beyond the obvious physical characteristics. Almost all of the articles on The Submissive Guide are valid [...]

13 comments Posted by ted_subby | Posted in: Male Submission
lunaKM’s Weekend Reflections

lunaKM’s Weekend Reflections

Not a whole lot has gone on in the KnyghtMare household this week. I’ve been busy with homemaking tasks (breadmaking, food preservation, cleaning, organizing) so this week has been little about the D/s and more about the everyday. Which is a good thing, since D/s is always an undercurrent here it doesn’t have to be [...]

Leave a comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Weekend Reflections
lunaKM’s Weekend Reflections

lunaKM’s Weekend Reflections

I spent all of this week still in recovery, but I’m almost 100% now so chores that were getting backed up will get done and work that I was putting off will be put off no longer.  Master has been fantastic this week and even helped me out by doing a couple loads of laundry! [...]

Leave a comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Weekend Reflections
Fictional Stories of Male Submission

Fictional Stories of Male Submission

Fictional BDSM stories or erotica are often not only enjoyable but also may be a good way to learn what might be enjoyable to the reader in real life.  Those who are new to BDSM often do not know what activities and mindsets they might enjoy and while non-fiction articles, blogs, and communities are a [...]

4 comments Posted by ted_subby | Posted in: Male Submission
A Day in the Life: fuzzyP

A Day in the Life: fuzzyP

This is a guest post by fuzzyP for the Day in the Life Series. I was asked by luna to write about one of my typical days in service to my Dominant. While that task is straight-forward enough, the challenge lies in making one of my typical days entertaining and illuminating for you, the reader. [...]

3 comments Posted by Guest Author | Posted in: Male Submission

Research Page: Male Submission

Today I’m bringing together the resources I’ve collected about male submission and Female-led relationships. Much of what I found was porn, so it is needless to say that there is very little of substance about this topic. I appreciate that fuzzyP writes about it for Submissive Guide and look to any other male submissives who [...]

6 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Male Submission, Research Pages
Is Male Submission a Form of Weakness?

Is Male Submission a Form of Weakness?

This is a guest post by fuzzyP. I’ve put this question off long enough. It’s one of those questions that can cause a person to take a long, uncomfortable look at oneself, and I don’t know too many people who like doing that. My answer may not be quite what you expect. Men are strong, [...]

10 comments Posted by Guest Author | Posted in: Male Submission
Are Female Dominants More About Mental Dominance Than Physical Dominance

Are Female Dominants More About Mental Dominance Than Physical Dominance

This is a guest post by fuzzyP, a male submissive in a relationship with his Goddess and a regular participant of the Submissive Guide chatroom. “Is It True That Female Dominants Are More About Mental Than Physical Dominance?” This question intrigued me. It’s one of several Luna passed along to me, but I don’t know [...]

6 comments Posted by Guest Author | Posted in: Learn to Submit, Male Submission
What Do Female Dominants Desire in a Male Submissive?

What Do Female Dominants Desire in a Male Submissive?

This is a guest post by fuzzyP, a male submissive in a relationship with his Goddess and a regular participant of the Submissive Guide chatroom. Since this is my first time writing in this venue, allow me to take just a second to introduce myself.  I go by fuzzyP both here at the Submissive Guide [...]

17 comments Posted by Guest Author | Posted in: Male Submission