By lunaKM on November 6, 2009
When you get married, you have to legally sign a document attesting to your decision to be married. The legal document can come in many forms but most have a brief section about what each party declares for the union, how they will treat each other and how commitment will be displayed (change of names [...]
Posted in Relationships, Rituals and Routines | Tagged Aria, BDSM, book, commitment, connection, cons, consensual, contracts, control, D/s, D/s contracts, Dom, Domme, dress, experience, IRC, learning, lifestyle, links, m/s, play, protocol, purpose, relationship, renewable contracts, ritual, rt, rules, short, slave, slavery, spirit, spiritual, structure, submission, switch |
By lunaKM on August 5, 2009
I’m personally not a very domestic person. When I do find the desire to clean it’s normally to relieve stress (believe it or not). It can help calm my nerves and give my mind something else to do while working on the house. Since I’ve become Master’s stay at home submissive I find I need [...]
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By lunaKM on July 3, 2009
If you haven’t joined the craze in new information delivery that is twitter, you are missing out. Thought to be the internet’s next big social media outlet, Submissive Guide decided to join from the onset. It’s been an amazing few months so far, and I’m still trying to figure out what my followers want as [...]
Posted in Webmaster Notes | Tagged BDSM, book, contest, discussion, essays, fetlife, giveaway, household tips and tricks, information, information delivery, internet, links, m/s, questions, quotes, rt, short, slave, submission, submissive, tips, tricks, tweets, twitter |
By lunaKM on June 18, 2009
When you discover that you might be kinky there are a lot of questions surrounding how to accept that. One of those may be trying to explore that kink with your existing partner. But how do you bring up the subject and how do you handle what they may say about the ideas you are [...]
Posted in BDSM Basics, Relationships | Tagged activities, amazon.com, Bondage, book, choice, decisions, desires, discussion, Dom, dominant, Dossie Easton, dynamic, emotions, help, intimacy, Introducing Partners to BDSM, kinky, learning, leather, links, love, marriage, online, partners, play, questions, relationship, Resources, role play, rt, sex, spanking, sub frenzy, submissive, suggestions, websites |
By lunaKM on May 2, 2009
Just 2 days left in the Submissive Positions project here at Submissive Guide. If you need a review, please take a look at the primary post; it has links to all of the posts in the project. Today I’d like to talk about the bane of many a submissive; fidgeting. Sitting still is really hard [...]
Posted in Submissive Positions | Tagged 2WBSP, Bondage, comfort, fidgeting, focus, help, learning, links, mediation, meditation, movement, munch, play, positions, progress, relaxation, review, rt, slave positions, submissive, Submissive Positions |
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By lunaKM on April 24, 2009
The next part of this two week series is about getting up from the floor. You’ve already learned about kneeling, standing at attention and lowering yourself with grace. Stick around, we have a lot to learn. If you’ve ever watched Memoirs of a Geisha you have seen how graceful it can be to rise from [...]
Posted in Submissive Positions | Tagged 2WBSP, Dom, dominant, getting up off the floor, grace, hands, help, kneeling, learned, links, movement, positions, progress, review, rising from the floor, rt, series, standing, submissive |
By lunaKM on April 3, 2009
This week’s video tip is on the BDSM Checklist. If you’ve just started out in BDSM and have asked a few questions, it is very likely that you have been directed to use a checklist to become familiar with what you may or may not like in play and roles and fetishes. If you haven’t [...]
Posted in BDSM Basics, Training Resume, Video Posts | Tagged abuse, activities, BDSM, bdsm checklist, bdsm play, checklist, email, event, fetishes, help, limits, links, paraphilias, play, play activites, questions, relationship, resume, roles, rt, Safety, share, training, Training Resume, value |
By lunaKM on March 26, 2009
Romance gets lost in the rush of work, family, kids and obligations but a romantic bath is not only relaxing, it can create intimacy between you and your partner. In Ancient Rome and Egypt, bathing in scented oils was a prelude to lovemaking. Giving a bath to someone else is not only romantic, but a [...]
Posted in Health and Beauty, Mindset, Service | Tagged amazon.com, bath, bathing, clean, cleaning, commitment, family, help, how-to, intimacy, links, love, m/s, marriage, play, Resources, ritual, rituals, romance, rt, rubber, scene, sensuous, Service, shower, tips |
By lunaKM on March 18, 2009
Continuing the work on your training resume, I’d like to talk about mapping out how you dream of your submission being. This is a discussion of ideals and dreams. You can be as fanciful as you want right now, we will narrow things down as we go along. There are 3 things I’d like to [...]
Posted in Relationships, Submission, Training Resume | Tagged activities, D/s, desires, discipline, discussion, dreams, dynamic, dynamics, focus, Gor, help, ideals, information, kinky, learning, links, mind maps, needs, online, play, poly, protocol, punishment, relationship, Relationships, resume, ritual, rituals, routine, rt, rules, Service, skills, slave, slavery, structure, submission, submissive, training, Training Resume, wants |
By lunaKM on February 27, 2009
The most frequent question I get asked is what is about rituals; what are they, how do I start one, are they hard, do they help with your submission, etc. They really aren’t that difficult once you understand what they are. There’s no sacred rites or incantations or anything, unless that is what you want. [...]
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This area has submissive resources that will help you with your developing submission and the growth and enhancement of your relationship with yourself. Links There are links to other interesting sites all over the internet with information important to different facets of your submissive life. Explore them and learn something about your submission. View the [...]
By lunaKM on February 15, 2009
How Do I Figure Out What I Need? Figuring out your wants and needs is a fundamental task in your relationship decision making. Knowing the difference and being able to shift and change your lists around is valuable to your continued development. The following list of links are my suggestions on key posts on the [...]
Posted in BDSM Basics | Tagged development, importance of needs, learning, links, needs, relationship, rt, series, shift, submissive, suggestions, wants |
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