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Play Nice: Some Notes on Scene Etiquette and Leather Protocol (Part 7 of 7) – In Closing

The last part of Ambrosio’s series on Leather and Etiquette. This article contains further reading, links, and resources you can use to improve your own knowledge!

Leave a comment Posted by Guest Author | Posted in: Rituals and Routines
Ask lunaKM – Forced to Lose Weight, Snarky Submissives and Looking for Community

Ask lunaKM – Forced to Lose Weight, Snarky Submissives and Looking for Community

Dear lunaKM, I have been with my Master for a number of months. Most of the time our relationship is great and we have a very strong bond. My only problem is that he seems to have a fixation with my weight. When I first met him he asked me to lose a few pounds. [...]

Leave a comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything
Expressing Your Submission (with hair!)

Expressing Your Submission (with hair!)

I’ve read a half-dozen articles on scattered around the scene that talk about all sorts of methods for keeping your body clean, for dressing to inspire confidence—or tactics to boost confidence without wearing anything at all; I’ve seen articles detailing in methods of hair removal, of after-hair-removal-care, but somehow in the jumble of cyberspace, I [...]

6 comments Posted by kallista | Posted in: Beginner Basics

Find a Munch at FindaMunch.com!

Are you looking for kink friends and fun close to you? Have you heard about munches, but don’t know what they are, much less where to look? Are you traveling or relocating and not sure about the community at your destination? Or, are you already involved, and you want your local organization to grow? FindaMunch.com [...]

6 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Views & More...

After the Scene is Over – Clean-up, Aftercare, and Check-Ins

You scene has just ended and you both feel spent, exhausted and buzzing with good feelings. And then you look around the room, move your aching limbs and start to come out of your or play-induced fog. The room is a mess, there are toys everywhere. Both of you need aftercare. Who does what? How [...]

Leave a comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Play and Sex, Safety

#domsubchat – Transcript of Twitter Chat – Dating and Finding a Partner in BDSM

If you missed ourTwitter Chat on 6/19/13 you can catch up on all the wonderful conversation, links and questions we covered in the transcript! I hope you enjoy it and please pass it around. Share it with everyone you think will gain knowledge from it. View the story “#domsubchat Finding a BDSM Partner and Dating [...]

1 comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Views & More...

#domsubchat Transcript of Twitter Chat – Introducing BDSM to a Partner

If you missed our first Twitter Chat on 5/22/13 you can catch up on all the wonderful conversation, links and questions we covered in the transcript! I hope you enjoy it and please pass it around. Share it with everyone you think will gain knowledge from it. Introducing BDSM to a Partner Twitter Chat Transcript [...]

Leave a comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Views & More...
The Most Popular and Favorite Books on BDSM – According to Our Readers

The Most Popular and Favorite Books on BDSM – According to Our Readers

The following is a compilation of the most purchased BDSM-related books on Amazon – by our community. They are organized by the number purchased through affiliate links in the past year. Conquer Me: girl-to-girl wisdom about fulfilling your submissive desires by Kacie Cunningham Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns: The Romance and Sexual Sorcery [...]

Leave a comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Beginner Basics

Research Page: 24/7 Slavery

When I research a topic I tend to come up with a lot of links to places that have valuable information. These research pages are a storehouse of those resources that crossed my path. I hope they help you in your own study. Web Links Living the Lifestyle 24/7 10 Principles for Healthy 24/7 D/s [...]

3 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Research Pages
A Fond Farewell to InformedConsent.co.uk

A Fond Farewell to InformedConsent.co.uk

Some of you may have come across the British website – Informed Consent. It’s a sort of British Fetlife with blog posts, message boards and personals to search. News came out recently to say due to various reasons the person who is behind the site is closing it at the end of February. I thought I’d [...]

5 comments Posted by thisgirl | Posted in: Beginner Basics, Views & More...

Research Page: Poly in BDSM

Polyamory in BDSM is a complex and challenging living arrangement no matter who you are. Poly and BDSM separately are entire worlds themselves so to put them together can only mean that there is going to be a lot of negotiation, communication and openness. No matter where you go there is bound to be discussion [...]

1 comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Research Pages
Initiating a Discussion About BDSM Interest with a Vanilla Partner: Part 3- My Partner is Interested!

Initiating a Discussion About BDSM Interest with a Vanilla Partner: Part 3- My Partner is Interested!

In part 1 of this series of articles we examined the initial approach for discussing your submissive desires with your vanilla partner. In  part 2 we examined how to address the issue if your partner does not respond positively to the initial approach. In this final part 3 we examine how to proceed if your vanilla [...]

3 comments Posted by ted_subby | Posted in: Relationships
Like Submissive Guide Products? Please Review Them on Amazon.com for Me!

Like Submissive Guide Products? Please Review Them on Amazon.com for Me!

Submissive Guide is on Amazon.com! I have my blog listed in the direct to kindle area and the ebooks in the ebooks section. Have you seen them? Have you purchased them from there if you didn’t buy them from the site? This post is asking for your help. All of my ebooks are listed on [...]

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Initiating a Discussion About BDSM Interest with a Vanilla Partner: Part 2- My Partner is Not Interested

Initiating a Discussion About BDSM Interest with a Vanilla Partner: Part 2- My Partner is Not Interested

“What do I do if my significant other is vanilla?” This is part 2 and deals with a situation in which your vanilla partner is not receptive to what has been discussed in part 1 . As mentioned in part 1, if after the first conversation in which you have expressed a mild version of your [...]

6 comments Posted by ted_subby | Posted in: Relationships
Book Review: Tickle My Tush: Mild-to-Wild Analplay Adventures for Everybooty

Book Review: Tickle My Tush: Mild-to-Wild Analplay Adventures for Everybooty

I talk about all sorts of things on this blog, sex being one of them that needs more coverage I think  - I am also all about sharing new books with you. But you may know that already seeing as I’ve reviewed over 20 books so far.  So when the folks at Tickle Kitty contacted me to [...]

Leave a comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Reviews
Book Review: Living M/s

Book Review: Living M/s

It’s been awhile since I’ve reviewed a book here on Submissive Guide and this one has come recommended from readers. You want to know if this one is worth buying! Let’s get down to it. Living M/s: A Book for Masters, slaves and Their Relationships* is written by Dan and Dawn Williams of The Erotic Awakening [...]

8 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Reviews
You Are What You Read: What Got You Into BDSM and D/s?

You Are What You Read: What Got You Into BDSM and D/s?

It’s one of those questions people always ask isn’t it. What got you into BDSM? Or into D/s? Some people think it is to do with their nature from birth, others think it is how they are nurtured and what they experience in life. I think perhaps I am somewhere between the middle in my [...]

7 comments Posted by thisgirl | Posted in: Beginner Basics

The Best-selling Items on Amazon According to What Our Readers Are Buying

Every few months I take a look at what BDSM related books readers of the Submissive Guide community are buying at Amazon (according to the reports Amazon give us from our affiliate program*). Today I spent some time digging into the purchases of BDSM books and have compiled the following breakdown of best selling books [...]

2 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Views & More...

Research Page: Male Submission

Today I’m bringing together the resources I’ve collected about male submission and Female-led relationships. Much of what I found was porn, so it is needless to say that there is very little of substance about this topic. I appreciate that fuzzyP writes about it for Submissive Guide and look to any other male submissives who [...]

8 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Male Submission, Research Pages

Research Page: Subspace

I collect a lot of resources in the way of links when I’m looking for information to write articles on. My research pages are a dumping ground of sorts of all the things I look at and that you may find interesting on a topic. This page is about Sub Space. I hope you enjoy [...]

Leave a comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Play and Sex, Research Pages
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