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Broken Vows: When Vanilla Marriage Falls Apart Because of Kink

Broken Vows: When Vanilla Marriage Falls Apart Because of Kink

I was married before my relationship with my Master, KnyghtMare. We fell in love when dating online was still an unusual thing. We courted and dated for years before we got married. Marriage seemed to be the inevitable next step, so we did that too. Our sex life was very much kink-lite. For the most [...]

41 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Relationships
5 Simple Steps to Creating a Personal Submissive Mantra

5 Simple Steps to Creating a Personal Submissive Mantra

from the Submissive Guide Newsletter 4/20/13 Developing your own personal mantra is a path to peace and achievement. You can then use your mantra whenever you feel stressed or out of focus with your submission. I use my mantra on a daily basis to keep my mindset on my Dominant and the behavior he has [...]

Leave a comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Newsletter Archive, Personal Growth
Solo Coaching – Re-write Negative Thinking

Solo Coaching – Re-write Negative Thinking

Last month I told you about a model I’ll be using to help you coach yourself into a better submissive space called the CREATE Model. It has worked for me to begin the internal work on the parts of me I’d like to change. Today we’ll talk about one of the steps of the CREATE [...]

2 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Personal Growth
Initiating a Discussion About BDSM Interest with a Vanilla Partner: Part 3- My Partner is Interested!

Initiating a Discussion About BDSM Interest with a Vanilla Partner: Part 3- My Partner is Interested!

In part 1 of this series of articles we examined the initial approach for discussing your submissive desires with your vanilla partner. In  part 2 we examined how to address the issue if your partner does not respond positively to the initial approach. In this final part 3 we examine how to proceed if your vanilla [...]

3 comments Posted by ted_subby | Posted in: Relationships
Enjoy Being a Single Submissive – Look Forward to a Relationship Later

Enjoy Being a Single Submissive – Look Forward to a Relationship Later

Inspired by the song “I Will Get There” by Boys II Men This post is for all the single submissives that read this site. I know there are a large percentage of you so there is no reason to be silent any longer. I know the pain and loneliness you are going through. I know [...]

2 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Beginner Basics

The Impact of Velcro Collars on the Symbolism and Value of Collars in D/s Relationships

This week’s video post is about velcro collars. To submissives, a collar is one of the most important things they have. It is a symbol of their commitment, their service and their adoration of a special someone. In most situations, the offering or begging of a collar is not taken lightly. The weight of the [...]

9 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Video Posts

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