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Daddy’s Little Girl – Exploring the Ageplay Dynamic

Daddy’s Little Girl – Exploring the Ageplay Dynamic

Since I have had a few articles published and have received such a warm and kind welcome from everyone, I have decided to tell you all a little secret that I’ve been hiding for some time now. The relationship that I have with my Master is more than just a Master/slave relationship. We also have [...]

28 comments Posted by tequilarose | Posted in: Beginner Basics, Community, Relationships
Fictional Stories of Male Submission

Fictional Stories of Male Submission

Fictional BDSM stories or erotica are often not only enjoyable but also may be a good way to learn what might be enjoyable to the reader in real life.  Those who are new to BDSM often do not know what activities and mindsets they might enjoy and while non-fiction articles, blogs, and communities are a [...]

6 comments Posted by ted_subby | Posted in: Male Submission
Service: There’s an App for that!

Service: There’s an App for that!

Well, there’s not really an App for service. Wouldn’t it be nice if there were? However, there are a lot of Apps out there that can make running your household (and your Master!) a lot easier! I just recently discovered the world of Apps. My Master has been a Mac guy for a while now, [...]

5 comments Posted by nan {SL} | Posted in: Service

Chat Night Transcript from “Recovering from a Breakup” Talk

from chat night 10-4-11 (8:05:07 PM) lunaKM: Let’s start out with a little introduction period. Everyone please let us know the general area you are located, if you are sub, slave, property, other and anythign else you’d like to share with us. (8:05:07 PM) hachiko: I <3 blue (8:05:35 PM) pepper_di: i will start if [...]

Leave a comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Relationships

Where Do I Start in BDSM?

This is a video post about how to get started once you decide you want to explore submission. I’d have to say that the most common question I get from people who contact me via email is “where do I start?” and I’d have to agree that it’s an overwhelming feeling when you are facing [...]

6 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: BDSM Fundamentals, Beginner Basics, Video Posts

What Do Others Have to Say About SubGuide Reviewed Books (2009)?

Instead of a new book review this month I’d like to help those of you who are on the fence about certain books that I’ve reviewed get more information about them before you consider a purchase.  I’ve browsed the internet for related reviews and commentary on some of the books I’ve reviewed myself here at [...]

Leave a comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Reviews

Add Your Favorite BDSM Books Reading List to Your Submissive Training Resume

Since the beginning of Submissive Guide I have been writing essays to help you build your service/submissive/slave resume. This is the living document of your experience and training on different tasks and a variety of relationships. If you are interested in reading the previous posts about the Training Resume I suggest you start at the [...]

Leave a comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Training Resume
Learn a New Skill to Enhance Your Service with Free Online Courses

Learn a New Skill to Enhance Your Service with Free Online Courses

There are many ways that submissives can learn new skills and training that will enhance what you can provide your Dominant. Just imagine being able to speak another language, or have secretarial skills. Perhaps learning gardening, technology or sewing? Your skills can be expanded endlessly and a lot of it for free. Is there something [...]

Leave a comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Service, Training Resume
Two Weeks to Better Submissive Positions Introduction

Two Weeks to Better Submissive Positions Introduction

Submissive Positions are talked about all over like everyone is supposed to be doing them or something. Not every relationship is set up to provide that level of protocol and you should never expect a relationship to automatically have that. If you are interested in positions, ask your partner or perspective partner if they’d be [...]

2 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Rituals and Routines, Submissive Positions
Book Review: Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns

Book Review: Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns

If you’ve been around the BDSM and D/s scene at all there is one of many books that always comes up in conversation as a good book to read when you are new to the whole lifestyle. This book is Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns: The Romance and Sexual Sorcery of Sadomasochism by [...]

6 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Reviews
Start Here: Don’t Begin Exploring BDSM Until You’ve Read the Basics

Start Here: Don’t Begin Exploring BDSM Until You’ve Read the Basics

There are so many primers out there about BDSM I’m not sure if another one is really needed. Then again with all the basic questions asked on forums and chat rooms about BDSM it’s unlikely that my words will not be read by someone and that they will take something new from them. BDSM is [...]

9 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: BDSM Fundamentals

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