By Guest Author on November 16, 2009
This is a Guest Post by A. She is a new submissive in her first 24/7 dynamic. I received this wonderfully written review of her first 30 days and she offered to share it with everyone here. Enjoy! It has come to my attention after reading submissiveguide.com that my training with Sir has already begun, [...]
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By lunaKM on November 13, 2009
With Thanksgiving (USA) just around the corner I thought it would be fitting to write about gratitude, and how to express your gratitude to the one you serve. Sure you can say thank you. That’s standard. I really hope you take every opportunity to say thank you, but what if you want a few more [...]
Posted in Relationships, Rituals and Routines | Tagged bath, being thankful, development, Dom, Dominance, dominant, dynamic, focus, gratitude, happiness, help, kneeling, love, normal, online, play, relationship, Relationships, requests, ritual, rituals, rt, rules, Service, setting the table, sex, share, showing appreciation, skills, stress, submission, thanksgiving |
By lunaKM on October 15, 2009
lunaKM> So, first I’d like to get some impression about how new you are to submission. Could you please tell me how long you have been exploring submission and if you are in a relationship right now? lunaKM> hello aquamuse aquamuse> Hello, I’m new of course. eagerslut> I am in a relationship and just recently [...]
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By lunaKM on August 31, 2009
A few months ago I started a list of things you can do to improve your submission immediately. If you want to see what’s in that list, you can find that post in the archives. I’d like to continue to add to that list because there are always things you can do but may not [...]
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![Show Off Your Positions! [Day 14 - 2WBSP]](http://www.submissiveguide.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/04/share_ryancr-150x150.jpg)
By lunaKM on May 4, 2009
You have followed the whole series of Submissive Positions posts here at Submissive Guide. If not, start back at the beginning, I’ll wait for you here. Are you back? Ready to show them off? Today’s post is all about you! I want to see what you came up with for positions that worked best for [...]
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![Altering Positions [Day 13 - 2WBSP]](http://www.submissiveguide.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/04/disability_panshipanshi-150x150.jpg)
By lunaKM on May 3, 2009
Reading the past posts on the Submissive positions project may bring some of you to the realization that you can’t perform these poses for health or body size reasons. This is to be expected. I can’t kneel back on my heels at all. So what is a good submissive to do? You alter the positions [...]
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By lunaKM on May 1, 2009
Today’s task is to learn an appropriate pose to take when apologizing for wrong-doing. If you need to review the past posts in this series, please take a look at the leading post. This position is hopefully something you don’t have to do often but since we are all human, it is going to happen. [...]
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![Worship and Obedience [Day 10 - 2WBSP]](http://www.submissiveguide.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/04/01a_supplication_photo-150x150.jpg)
By lunaKM on April 30, 2009
Nearing the end of our 2 Weeks to Better Submissive Positions here at Submissive Guide. Today we are going to learn positions of worship. There will be moments in your submission that a feeling wells up inside of you to show your devotion and respect to your Dominant. You may also be asked to show [...]
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![Rise From The Floor With Finesse [Day 4 - 2WBSP]](http://www.submissiveguide.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/04/nude-statue-david_boyle-150x150.jpg)
By lunaKM on April 24, 2009
The next part of this two week series is about getting up from the floor. You’ve already learned about kneeling, standing at attention and lowering yourself with grace. Stick around, we have a lot to learn. If you’ve ever watched Memoirs of a Geisha you have seen how graceful it can be to rise from [...]
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![Gracefully Lowering Yourself [Day 3 - 2WBSP]](http://www.submissiveguide.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/04/kneeling-quinnanya-150x150.jpg)
By lunaKM on April 23, 2009
We have covered standing and kneeling so far in the positions project here at Submissive Guide. Today we will cover going from standing to kneeling in a graceful way. It’s not as easy as you think. First you have to pick out one kneeling posture and one standing posture from the previous posts. This way [...]
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![Learning to Kneel [Day 1 - 2WBSP]](http://www.submissiveguide.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/04/kneeling-notquitetrish-150x150.jpg)
By lunaKM on April 21, 2009
Today’s post in the two week project here at Submissive Guide is focused on kneeling. Do you kneel in front of your Dominant partner at any point of your service? Is there a specific way to do that? For someone new to BDSM, it is common to think you must kneel a lot of the [...]
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By lunaKM on April 20, 2009
Submissive Positions are talked about all over like everyone is supposed to be doing them or something. Not every relationship is set up to provide that level of protocol and you should never expect a relationship to automatically have that. If you are interested in positions, ask your partner or perspective partner if they’d be [...]
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By lunaKM on March 9, 2009
My first question for March Question Month is about making the mental switch from work to home life. I know from experience that this is a very difficult time for both the Dominant and the submissive. You could have had an intense day at work, or the submissive is in a position of power at [...]
Posted in Mindset, Rituals and Routines | Tagged ad space, changing, clothing, Dom, dominant, dress, dynamic, email, experience, focus, help, kneeling, mediation, Mindset, needs, poses, purpose, question month, relaxation, ritual, rituals, routine, rt, rules, shift, short, shower, stress, submissive, switch, work-to-home |
By lunaKM on January 28, 2009
Begging is an art form for submissives. Each of us has our own talent or lack thereof in this area. For some it is part of humiliation, or just every day activities. There are different approaches to begging. Verbal Approach Master insists that I beg for a lot of things and I think that most [...]
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