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When A Submissive Suffers Knee Pain: Kneeling and Helpful Suggestions

When A Submissive Suffers Knee Pain: Kneeling and Helpful Suggestions

What tips do you give this larger person about kneeling?

5 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything, Beginner Basics
Ask lunaKM – Roleplay Scenarios, Unable to Kneel and Boost of Confidence

Ask lunaKM – Roleplay Scenarios, Unable to Kneel and Boost of Confidence

Dear lunaKM, My question involves role play, I was wondering if there are some scenarios that are available to give an individual some idea of how to start a scene. And or what kind of scene would be the easiest to get started with because I am a beginner and I usually go my instinct [...]

Leave a comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything
The Longing of Being Owned

The Longing of Being Owned

I remember it was about ten years ago when I was first introduced to the Sleeping Beauty trilogy by Anne Rice. I had stumbled across the series by accident while browsing the erotica section of a local bookstore. I had no idea what they were about but had read a lot of Anne Rice’s works [...]

6 comments Posted by tequilarose | Posted in: Beginner Basics
Expressing Your Submission (with hair!)

Expressing Your Submission (with hair!)

I’ve read a half-dozen articles on scattered around the scene that talk about all sorts of methods for keeping your body clean, for dressing to inspire confidence—or tactics to boost confidence without wearing anything at all; I’ve seen articles detailing in methods of hair removal, of after-hair-removal-care, but somehow in the jumble of cyberspace, I [...]

6 comments Posted by kallista | Posted in: Beginner Basics

Chat Night Transcript from Pervertables Talk with FroggyKM

Chat night transcript from the Pervertables Chat with froggyKM on  7/16/13 froggyKM: ok lets get things started! Hello and welcome to another chat night here on Submissive Guide. Please feel free to talk about the subject whenever a thought comes to mind, this is not a moderated talk and you do not have to ask [...]

1 comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Views & More...
This is Not a Game – BDSM is My Life

This is Not a Game – BDSM is My Life

I am a tumblr whore. There’s no other way to describe it. I spend way too much time on there looking for pictures. Most of the pictures I re-blog and most of those who I follow post lifestyle related pictures. I am very particular about the pictures that I re-blog. The pictures that I post [...]

1 comment Posted by tequilarose | Posted in: Beginner Basics, Community
Male Submission – Foot Fetish

Male Submission – Foot Fetish

In this part 3 of my series of articles about Male Submission on The Submissive Guide, I discuss the role of a foot fetish. There are a whole lot of guys who have a fetish for feet, and while there are women who also have a foot fetish it is by far more prevalent with [...]

11 comments Posted by ted_subby | Posted in: Male Submission, Play and Sex
Your Right to Choose-Feminism and the Lifestyle

Your Right to Choose-Feminism and the Lifestyle

When I was twenty, I met my first dominant in person. I was extremely excited and nervous about this because for months before meeting in person, we had talked a great deal through emails, online chatting services, and phone calls. The weekend he and I had planned to meet was over Memorial Day weekend. This [...]

20 comments Posted by tequilarose | Posted in: Beginner Basics, Community
Kneeling Feels Absurd, How Do I Get Over It?

Kneeling Feels Absurd, How Do I Get Over It?

I’ve never been a submissive but my new boyfriend is a professionally trained Dominant that has been in the lifestyle for many years. I knew this about him before we started dating and told him I could accept it in our relationship. He’s ready to incorporate this but I find it utterly ridiculous to get [...]

2 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything

[Video Post] Alternatives to Kneeling and Visible Signs of Submission

No matter where I go I hear people saying the same thing. Kneeling is the ultimate sign of submission. But what if for some reason or another you can’t kneel to your Dominant? Does that make you less of a submissive? Should you force your body to do something it can’t just to feel submission [...]

6 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Beginner Basics, Video Posts
When Mommy/slave is Ill…

When Mommy/slave is Ill…

Let’s face it. Not everyone out there is graced with excellent health, some of us are even chronically ill. Myself, I face being on dialysis along with Lupus and Fibro. I am in a ton of pain a good deal of the time and have 3 wonderful children, 2 with special needs that require that [...]

5 comments Posted by malak Briar-rose | Posted in: Beginner Basics, Relationships
A Day in the Life: fuzzyP

A Day in the Life: fuzzyP

This is a guest post by fuzzyP for the Day in the Life Series. I was asked by luna to write about one of my typical days in service to my Dominant. While that task is straight-forward enough, the challenge lies in making one of my typical days entertaining and illuminating for you, the reader. [...]

3 comments Posted by Guest Author | Posted in: Male Submission
…And Along Came Baby: Parenting and Submission

…And Along Came Baby: Parenting and Submission

As a parent of 2 children and the active property of my Owner and Husband, I thought perhaps it was time to begin writing some about the trials and tribulations as well as the joys and experiences of the parent slave.  I was surprised when I first began writing about this topic that no one [...]

18 comments Posted by malak Briar-rose | Posted in: Beginner Basics, Relationships

Chat Night Transcript from “Recovering from a Breakup” Talk

from chat night 10-4-11 (8:05:07 PM) lunaKM: Let’s start out with a little introduction period. Everyone please let us know the general area you are located, if you are sub, slave, property, other and anythign else you’d like to share with us. (8:05:07 PM) hachiko: I <3 blue (8:05:35 PM) pepper_di: i will start if [...]

Leave a comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Relationships
How To Be Submissive Without a Dominant

How To Be Submissive Without a Dominant

Some of the insane talk coming from online communities all the time is that you can’t be submissive without a Dominant (or can’t be slave without a Master).  This can cause quite a confusion for novice submissives who are learning more about themselves and can even dash your dreams. Okay so I understand why people [...]

10 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Beginner Basics
Keep In Good Standing – A Tip For Submissives Who Can’t Kneel

Keep In Good Standing – A Tip For Submissives Who Can’t Kneel

There is a sense of rightness to the act of kneeling before ones Master, a serene feeling of belonging and worship that is unique and special to each dynamic but what’s a girl to do when she can’t kneel? How else can you get that same sense of peace and connection? As someone with 2 [...]

29 comments Posted by Sephani Paige | Posted in: Beginner Basics, DIY
One month into my first real time D/S relationship: A Training Review

One month into my first real time D/S relationship: A Training Review

This is a Guest Post by A. She is a new submissive in her first 24/7 dynamic. I received this wonderfully written review of her first 30 days and she offered to share it with everyone here. Enjoy! It has come to my attention after reading submissiveguide.com that my training with Sir has already begun, [...]

26 comments Posted by Guest Author | Posted in: Beginner Basics
5 Ways to Express Your Gratitude to Your Dominant

5 Ways to Express Your Gratitude to Your Dominant

With Thanksgiving (USA) just around the corner I thought it would be fitting to write about gratitude, and how to express your gratitude to the one you serve. Sure you can say thank you. That’s standard. I really hope you take every opportunity to say thank  you, but what if you want a few more [...]

7 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Relationships, Rituals and Routines
Chat Night Transcript From What is Service Talk

Chat Night Transcript From What is Service Talk

lunaKM> So, first I’d like to get some impression about how new you are to submission. Could you please tell me how long you have been exploring submission and if you are in a relationship right now? lunaKM> hello aquamuse aquamuse> Hello, I’m new of course. eagerslut> I am in a relationship and just recently [...]

Leave a comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Views & More...
Another 7 Things You Can Do Today to Improve Your Submission

Another 7 Things You Can Do Today to Improve Your Submission

A few months ago I started a list of things you can do to improve your submission immediately. If you want to see what’s in that list, you can find that post in the archives. I’d like to continue to add to that list because there are always things you can do but may not [...]

5 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Beginner Basics
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