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Finding Your Tribe-The Importance of the Kink Community

I realized there was a lot out there I was missing and how important it was to get involved in the local groups and to have mentors and other s-types that I could talk to about things.

5 comments Posted by tequilarose | Posted in: Relationships, Views & More...
Why That Dominant You Found Online Just Disappeared After a Short Time

Why That Dominant You Found Online Just Disappeared After a Short Time

I’m going to present a short list of reasons why this person fit so perfectly into your life and then vanished without a second glance.

12 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Beginner Basics
Submitting in a Long Distance Relationship: The Big Meet

Submitting in a Long Distance Relationship: The Big Meet

The first meeting with the person that you’ve begun to build an emotional bond with can be a pretty daunting prospect. Here are a couple of tips and suggestions that will help you during your planning process and throughout your time together.

5 comments Posted by kallista | Posted in: Beginner Basics, Relationships, Safety
Male submission – Financial Domination

Male submission – Financial Domination

There are several different types of Financial Domination, including dynamics which do not involve the dominant receiving any money whatsoever. This is often not understood when some people rail against Financial Domination as a legitimate kink.

24 comments Posted by ted_subby | Posted in: Male Submission, Relationships
Submitting in a Long Distance Relationship: Introduction

Submitting in a Long Distance Relationship: Introduction

Since the popularization of cyberspace, the practitioners of the community have been locked in a stalemate debate: do long distance D/s relationships really work? There are a great many arguments for and against the validity of long distance relationships—many of which are compelling in one way or another.

11 comments Posted by kallista | Posted in: Beginner Basics, Online Submission
Rules for the Working Sub

Rules for the Working Sub

It was difficult to find any information about balancing my professional life with my submissive desires, so this article is dedicated to the people who, like me, wish to explore the D/s relationship dynamic and continue to work in the professional world.

3 comments Posted by kallista | Posted in: Beginner Basics
Male Submission – Selfishness

Male Submission – Selfishness

Many male subs portray themselves through their own words that they are selfish in that they do not actually care what a potential dominant partner wants or needs.

18 comments Posted by ted_subby | Posted in: Male Submission
Why Would Any Submissive Want to be Micromanaged?

Why Would Any Submissive Want to be Micromanaged?

Micromanagement is a training style where the Dominant has the deciding enforce on a lot of the minute details of a submissive’s routine.

4 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Beginner Basics, Newsletter Archive
Learn How to Nourish Yourself, Your Relationship and Your Submission

Learn How to Nourish Yourself, Your Relationship and Your Submission

Like anything else, one has to learn to go with the flow and take the highs with the lows. I hope that any beginners, and even those who are well experienced will continue the sometimes rocky journey despite the aspects of the lifestyle that can destroy and fully embrace the aspects of the lifestyle that can nourish it.

4 comments Posted by tequilarose | Posted in: Beginner Basics
Finding My Submissive Focus With a Mantra

Finding My Submissive Focus With a Mantra

If you think that a personal mantra would be a great way to help you keep yourself in the proper submissive mindset, I encourage you to speak with your owner to come up with one that works for you.

2 comments Posted by tequilarose | Posted in: Beginner Basics
Recapturing Common Sense

Recapturing Common Sense

All novice submissives have a moment where a lapse in judgment can happen. No one is impervious to the lures of desire and dark needs. When offered a chance to experiment or explore our new-found desires we overlook that most important instinct – our gut instinct.

2 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Personal Growth

Can Trust Be Repaired When He’s Caught Cheating?

I have forgiven him, but now I am having a hard time trusting him. I don’t feel that our relationship is Safe, Sane or Consensual anymore. My question to you is….can this relationship be salvaged once the trust has been broken, especially so early in the relationship?

3 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything, Relationships
“Becoming a Slave” Book Conflict and Questions

“Becoming a Slave” Book Conflict and Questions

I have been “asked” by the One I hope will someday be my Master to read “Becoming A Slave”. this book has presented a lot of problems for me in that now I am questioning slavery vs. bottoming.

Leave a comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything
A Fond Farewell to InformedConsent.co.uk

A Fond Farewell to InformedConsent.co.uk

With the closure of Informed Consent though its got me thinking about how it and other sites impact the D/s relationships we have

5 comments Posted by thisgirl | Posted in: Beginner Basics, Views & More...
Submissive Advent – Day 16: Prayer

Submissive Advent – Day 16: Prayer

A Submissive’s Prayer

Author Unknown

Allow me the strength to answer questions I can’t fathom.
Allow me the spirit to know His needs.
Allow me the kindness to choke back retorts.
Allow me the serenity to serve Him in peace.

3 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Advent Calendar

Research Page: BDSM Checklists

As you may already know I spend a lot of time surfing the internet and reading about a lot of topics that pertain to BDSM and submission on a daily basis. One of the things I encounter almost everywhere I go are BDSM checklists. Interestingly enough it’s one of the more common requests on the [...]

1 comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: BDSM Fundamentals
Online Courtesy Needs a Reboot – Don’t Be THAT Submissive

Online Courtesy Needs a Reboot – Don’t Be THAT Submissive

Yes, I’ve said it before but we are a community that needs to stand above the rest of the public and show what good manners are. That includes online.

1 comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Community, Newsletter Archive

Adjusting to Stay at Home Life When You Used to Have a Job

Throughout my struggles, I’ve found a few things that worked to help me feel like my staying at home was not only what he wanted but also the best thing in the world for me too.

11 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Beginner Basics, Newsletter Archive, Service
Fantastic Submissive Videos for Learning and Growth on Kink Academy

Fantastic Submissive Videos for Learning and Growth on Kink Academy

If you can’t get out to munches in your community or conventions held around the world the next best thing is a website focused on kink education. I have nothing but praise for Kink Academy and the quality educators and topics that they cover on Kink Academy.

Leave a comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Beginner Basics, Newsletter Archive
22 Deal Breakers that May Be Preventing A Dominant from Approaching You

22 Deal Breakers that May Be Preventing A Dominant from Approaching You

I realized that I had often heard those complaints/observations-and from people who truly seemed like they would be a great catch. Then I started to think more about it and wondered if they (like all of us) had displayed behaviors that others would declare to be a “deal breaker.”

7 comments Posted by LaneyDoll | Posted in: Relationships
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