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The Role Sex Plays in a D/s Relationship

The Role Sex Plays in a D/s Relationship

Sex and how we’ve learned about sex can form our own opinions about how sexual D/s forms in our lives and how we respond to it. The emphasis of sex in a D/s relationship comes about in a variety of forms and is only limited by your imagination. What role does it play in your relationship?

1 comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Newsletter Archive, Sex and Sexuality
Book Review: The Ultimate Guide to Kink: BDSM, Role Play and the Erotic Edge by Tristan Taormino

Book Review: The Ultimate Guide to Kink: BDSM, Role Play and the Erotic Edge by Tristan Taormino

This is a great book for any dominant and s-type to have in their library of nonfiction BDSM books. Tequilarose’s favorite essay, Submissive: A Personal Manifesto by Madison Young is a must read for female s-types.

Comments Off Posted by tequilarose | Posted in: Reviews
‘Innocently’ Outing Fellow Lifestylers

‘Innocently’ Outing Fellow Lifestylers

Be mindful of the information you know about someone else that’s kinky. Sometimes, things can seem so very innocuous that information can ‘slip’ out casually – we may innocently drop in the ears of others. The fact is they either teeter on outing someone or can flat-out out someone.

Comments Off Posted by charmed blyss | Posted in: Community, Safety
31 Days of Submissive Journaling: Day 24 – Scene Reports: How they can Empower Your Playtime

31 Days of Submissive Journaling: Day 24 – Scene Reports: How they can Empower Your Playtime

A scene report is a written account of the who, what, when, where, why’s of playtime. Explore why you might want to keep track of the scenes you’ve been in through journaling.

Everything You Need to Know to Have an Amazing Anal Sex Experience

Everything You Need to Know to Have an Amazing Anal Sex Experience

Have no fear, anal play doesn’t have to be scary! Let’s answer some common questions about anal sex before you dive in… hehe.

3 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Sex and Sexuality

Understanding the Reason Behind, “Am I The Only One?” and How to Respond (With a Bit of Netiquette Rules)

The underlying response to this question is simple, but the reason the person asked it is because it doesn’t feel simple to them. Give the person compassion, not snark.

Comments Off Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Beginner Basics, Newsletter Archive
Power Exchange While in Addiction Recovery

Power Exchange While in Addiction Recovery

The holiday season is hard. So hard sometimes.

3 comments Posted by Mrs. Darling | Posted in: Beginner Basics

31 Days To Better Domestic Service: The Home Management Journal

If you’ve ever wished you had a resource for everything related to your house care and maintenance, daily life and meal planning then this is the book for you. Sure it takes a bit to get started and developed but once you have one in place you’ll find your life to be so organized, together [...]

Comments Off Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: 31 Days to Better Domestic Service
A Discussion of Anatomy: The Vagina

A Discussion of Anatomy: The Vagina

We have a ton of words for the vagina, but the average person knows very little about this aspect of the human anatomy.

2 comments Posted by andyiccee | Posted in: Beginner Basics, Play and Sex
24/7: Long Term Relationships

24/7: Long Term Relationships

Not so simply, it usually means the desire for lifetime commitment or a relationship with many or most of the same attributes that are familiar to all of us in its vanilla counterpart – the marriage.

2 comments Posted by Guest Author | Posted in: Relationships
Book Review: 50 Shades of Curious by Bo Blaze

Book Review: 50 Shades of Curious by Bo Blaze

Blaze put together “50 Shades of Curious” to teach those new into the lifestyle how to practice BDSM in a safe, sane, and consensual manner.

1 comment Posted by tequilarose | Posted in: BDSM Fundamentals, Beginner Basics, Reviews
What is a Fetish?

What is a Fetish?

We use the term fetish to describe many actions or conditions which appear with relative prevalence within the BDSM communities.

Comments Off Posted by Guest Author | Posted in: BDSM Glossary
Fifty Shades of Grey, Consent and the Media’s Representation of Kink

Fifty Shades of Grey, Consent and the Media’s Representation of Kink

Unfortunately, the 50 Shades of Grey series is the litmus test that the mainstream media will now use to judge what those of us in the community consider to be a huge part of who we are.

Comments Off Posted by pinksubgeek | Posted in: BDSM Fundamentals, Community
Under the Microscope: Analyzing What You Read About BDSM for the Truth

Under the Microscope: Analyzing What You Read About BDSM for the Truth

You can understand more of what you read and apply only what will work for your situation while discarding the rest – without being overly critical.

Comments Off Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Beginner Basics, Newsletter Archive
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Getting Started At the Kinky Buffet

When everything is new and exciting, it can be easy to get swept away in the moment and want to do it all right now.

Comments Off Posted by moonlight | Posted in: Beginner Basics
Book Review: Real Service

Book Review: Real Service

While the book isn’t very long, it is still full of amazing information and I do highly recommend it to any service-oriented s-type.

Comments Off Posted by tequilarose | Posted in: Reviews
It’s Okay to be New – Exploring and Learning as a Novice Submissive

It’s Okay to be New – Exploring and Learning as a Novice Submissive

When you visit this site, I don’t expect you to have all the information you need to make educated responses, or to know what to do first, second and next. It’s a process.

Comments Off Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Beginner Basics, Newsletter Archive
Exploring Hormone Junkies: Part 3 – Testosterone

Exploring Hormone Junkies: Part 3 – Testosterone

Peel back the reasons behind being obstinate and competitive and generally you end up with a whole lot of testosterone.

Comments Off Posted by Guest Author | Posted in: Play and Sex
Answered: Your Burning Questions About What Is Expected Of You As a Submissive

Answered: Your Burning Questions About What Is Expected Of You As a Submissive

I’m going to guide you to the answers, but you’ll still have to do your own work as far as finding the answers that will work for you.

2 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Beginner Basics, Newsletter Archive
Book Review: The Loving Dominant

Book Review: The Loving Dominant

While I do plan to keep my copy of The Loving Dominant, I would have liked to have seen more attention paid to the “how” and “what” of expressing dominance in a loving way and avoiding that slippery slope into selfishness and abuse.

Comments Off Posted by Guest Author | Posted in: Reviews
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