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The Role Sex Plays in a D/s Relationship

The Role Sex Plays in a D/s Relationship

Sex and how we’ve learned about sex can form our own opinions about how sexual D/s forms in our lives and how we respond to it. The emphasis of sex in a D/s relationship comes about in a variety of forms and is only limited by your imagination. What role does it play in your relationship?

Leave a comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Newsletter Archive, Sex and Sexuality
Book Review: The Ultimate Guide to Kink: BDSM, Role Play and the Erotic Edge by Tristan Taormino

Book Review: The Ultimate Guide to Kink: BDSM, Role Play and the Erotic Edge by Tristan Taormino

This is a great book for any dominant and s-type to have in their library of nonfiction BDSM books. Tequilarose’s favorite essay, Submissive: A Personal Manifesto by Madison Young is a must read for female s-types.

Leave a comment Posted by tequilarose | Posted in: Reviews
‘Innocently’ Outing Fellow Lifestylers

‘Innocently’ Outing Fellow Lifestylers

Be mindful of the information you know about someone else that’s kinky. Sometimes, things can seem so very innocuous that information can ‘slip’ out casually – we may innocently drop in the ears of others. The fact is they either teeter on outing someone or can flat-out out someone.

Leave a comment Posted by charmed blyss | Posted in: Community, Safety
31 Days of Submissive Journaling: Day 24 – Scene Reports: How they can Empower Your Playtime

31 Days of Submissive Journaling: Day 24 – Scene Reports: How they can Empower Your Playtime

A scene report is a written account of the who, what, when, where, why’s of playtime. Explore why you might want to keep track of the scenes you’ve been in through journaling.

Everything You Need to Know to Have an Amazing Anal Sex Experience

Everything You Need to Know to Have an Amazing Anal Sex Experience

Have no fear, anal play doesn’t have to be scary! Let’s answer some common questions about anal sex before you dive in… hehe.

3 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Sex and Sexuality

Understanding the Reason Behind, “Am I The Only One?” and How to Respond (With a Bit of Netiquette Rules)

from the Submissive Guide Newsletter for 11/07/15 Have you ever felt like you are all alone in this loud crowded world of kink? That the things you enjoy  are uncommon. Or perhaps you have circumstances that govern how you play or what your relationships are like. It’s not that you are alone, not at all. [...]

Leave a comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Beginner Basics, Newsletter Archive
Power Exchange While in Addiction Recovery

Power Exchange While in Addiction Recovery

As the holiday is upon us once more, I wanted to share some common feels with others who struggle with recovery. Recovery from anything: drink, drugs, eating disorders, self-harm, etc. If you are or are with somebody who considers themselves “in recovery,” this is for you. Now I only have the perspective of (using Male/female D/s [...]

3 comments Posted by Mrs. Darling | Posted in: Beginner Basics

31 Days To Better Domestic Service: The Home Management Journal

If you’ve ever wished you had a resource for everything related to your house care and maintenance, daily life and meal planning then this is the book for you. Sure it takes a bit to get started and developed but once you have one in place you’ll find your life to be so organized, together [...]

A Discussion of Anatomy: The Vagina

A Discussion of Anatomy: The Vagina

Vagina. Pussy. Cunt. Twat. Poochy. Whoo-ha. Down there. We have a ton of words for the vagina, but the average person knows very little about this aspect of the human anatomy, which is pretty amazing considering how integral it is to your day-to-day life. So I figured that I would write an overview of information [...]

2 comments Posted by andyiccee | Posted in: Beginner Basics, Play and Sex
24/7: Long Term Relationships

24/7: Long Term Relationships

This is a guest post by Mistress Steel. It was part of her Steel’s Chamber Scrolls which is now defunct. Shared with Permission. Long Term Relationship. 24/7 simply means 24 hours a day – 7 days a week. Not so simply, it usually means the desire for lifetime commitment or a relationship with many or [...]

2 comments Posted by Guest Author | Posted in: Relationships
Book Review: 50 Shades of Curious by Bo Blaze

Book Review: 50 Shades of Curious by Bo Blaze

Fifty Shades of Curious is by Bo Blaze, a PCC-certified alternative life coach who specializes in alternative sexual relationships and non-traditional lifestyles. He is also well-known nationally as an expert in the BDSM lifestyle who has spoken at numerous events all over the country. With the popularity of the series “Fifty Shades of Grey”, Blaze [...]

1 comment Posted by tequilarose | Posted in: BDSM Fundamentals, Beginner Basics, Reviews
What is a Fetish?

What is a Fetish?

This is a guest post by Mistress Steel. It was part of her Steel’s Chamber Scrolls which is now defunct. Shared with Permission. Fetish. An object of extreme or irrational reverence or devotion. The often pathological displacement of erotic or libidinal interest sufficient to stimulate actions of worship. Often regarded as a fixation of the mind [...]

Leave a comment Posted by Guest Author | Posted in: BDSM Glossary
Fifty Shades of Grey, Consent and the Media’s Representation of Kink

Fifty Shades of Grey, Consent and the Media’s Representation of Kink

We all knew that the Fifty Shades of Grey movie would bring about a conversation regarding BDSM, non-vanilla relationships, and the nature of consent between adult sexual partners.  I read an article discussing the “impact” of the film, and it got me thinking. In the interests of full disclosure, I will tell you that I [...]

Leave a comment Posted by pinksubgeek | Posted in: BDSM Fundamentals, Community
Under the Microscope: Analyzing What You Read About BDSM for the Truth

Under the Microscope: Analyzing What You Read About BDSM for the Truth

from the Submissive Guide Newsletter 10/18/14 Do you trust everything you read? You shouldn’t. I suggest you not listen to everything I have to say. Why? Because some if it might not be right or true for you and if that’s the case then what you read isn’t for you. It could even be based [...]

Leave a comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Beginner Basics, Newsletter Archive
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Getting Started At the Kinky Buffet

I will never forget the feeling of “coming home” when I opened the door to BDSM. My whole being was able to relax knowing I was submissive and that I was not the only one. I was also excited beyond belief and felt like I had so much to learn about this new side of [...]

Leave a comment Posted by moonlight | Posted in: Beginner Basics
Book Review: Real Service

Book Review: Real Service

I bought this book on a recommendation from a member of Fetlife who commented on a post I created asking about different types of service. I can honestly say that purchasing this book is one of those things I can call one of the better decisions I’ve made in my life. While the book isn’t [...]

Leave a comment Posted by tequilarose | Posted in: Reviews
It’s Okay to be New – Exploring and Learning as a Novice Submissive

It’s Okay to be New – Exploring and Learning as a Novice Submissive

From the Submissive Guide Newsletter 5/3/14 Oftentimes, the first lines of an email to me or an opening thread in a discussion group go something like this; “I’m new and am nervous to ask these silly questions so be nice to me.” “I’m really embarrassed to ask since I’m so new, but…” “I’m new to [...]

Leave a comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Beginner Basics, Newsletter Archive
Exploring Hormone Junkies: Part 3 – Testosterone

Exploring Hormone Junkies: Part 3 – Testosterone

This is a guest post by Erika McClean. Do you ever have that feeling when your Master is working you over and waiting for you to say “uncle,” that you will be damned if you’re going to say it before his arm gets too tired to flog you anymore?  I do.  I’m a brat through and [...]

Leave a comment Posted by Guest Author | Posted in: Play and Sex
Answered: Your Burning Questions About What Is Expected Of You As a Submissive

Answered: Your Burning Questions About What Is Expected Of You As a Submissive

From the Submissive Guide Newsletter 2/15/14 As a novice submissive it can be an exciting endeavor to enter into a relationship right away before you know anything about BDSM or D/s, or even being introduced to the dynamic from someone you met online or face to face. People do it everyday. It is also one [...]

2 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Beginner Basics, Newsletter Archive
Book Review: The Loving Dominant

Book Review: The Loving Dominant

This is a guest post by Miz Twist. If you’ve attended a few chat nights you’ve probably seen her lovely moniker there a time or two. This book by a practicing husband-and-wife team is a great introduction to the BDSM and Domination/submission scene for a nervous Newbie, as well as a useful reference for the [...]

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