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Anal Play: Beginner to Stretch in No Time

Anal Play: Beginner to Stretch in No Time

By Rayne on May 27, 2010

I never used to like anal sex.  I wouldn’t let anyone near that part of my body.  There were all sorts of worries and thoughts running through my mind every time someone tried, from concerns about pain, to concerns about cleanliness, to not understanding, on a personal level, how stimulation to this part of the [...]

Posted in Sex and Sexuality | Tagged anal play, anal sex, back door, beginner, butt sex, cleanliness, enema, how-to, play, pleasure, rectum | 4 Responses

Make-up Application Tips, Tricks and Tutorials

Make-up Application Tips, Tricks and Tutorials

By lunaKM on February 17, 2010

Almost every lady loves to wear make-up. I’m no different, but it’s taken a long time for me to feel confident that I don’t look like a clown when I walk out the door. I’ve started teaching myself a more professional make-up application process and in that I’ve found a lot of excellent resources online [...]

Posted in Health and Beauty | Tagged applying make up, beauty tips, blush, cosmetics, eye shadow, foundation, how-to, lipstick, make up, make up channels on YouTube, make up tutorials, makeup tips | 3 Responses

The Top 30 Posts of 2009

By lunaKM on January 5, 2010

A year ago I started a small blog project called Submissive Guide. I wanted it to be an organized place where I could voice my opinions about submission, help novices discover who they are and explore BDSM through the written word. Since that time it has grown to so much more, including an e-book, a [...]

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Domesticity: The Kitchen

Domesticity: The Kitchen

By lunaKM on December 2, 2009

The kitchen is the heart of any home and having a clean and germ-free work environment for cooking and food preparation is important. Knowing some skills and cleaning tips can make keeping your kitchen clean and sparkling effortless. No longer is doing dishes and mopping floors drudgery; enhanced it can be an important part of [...]

Posted in Domestics | Tagged baking soda, basics, blogs, busy life, checklist, clean, cleaning, cleaning routine, cleaning the kitchen, cons, danae, Dom, Domestic Servitude, Domestics, event, green cleaning the kitchen, help, how-to, kitchen cleaning, kitchen cleaning tips, m/s, natural, routine, rt, Service, skills, tips | 2 Responses

Add Your Reading List to Your Training Resume

By lunaKM on August 12, 2009

Since the beginning of Submissive Guide I have been writing essays to help you build your service/submissive/slave resume. This is the living document of your experience and training on different tasks and a variety of relationships. If you are interested in reading the previous posts about the Training Resume I suggest you start at the [...]

Posted in Training Resume | Tagged a grateful slave, activities, BDSM, bdsm activities, blogs, book, books, clean, cleaning, dates, development, Dom, dominant, essays, etiquette, experience, green cleaning, growth, Guy Baldwin, help, how-to, learning, library, newsletter, obedience, online, opinion, reading list, relationship, Relationships, Resources, resume, review, rt, Service, share, skills, slave, slavecraft, submissive, surrender, tasks, titles, training, Training Resume, transparency, viewpoints, websites, writing, writing essays | Leave a response

Recommended Reading for New Submissives

Recommended Reading for New Submissives

By lunaKM on May 26, 2009

The following is a list of books that I recommend for every novice submissive. The links lead you to Amazon if you are interested in buying the books. Part of your purchase goes towards supporting this site and my efforts at continuing to bring you content on this site. Books Learning the Ropes: A Basic [...]

Posted in BDSM Basics | Tagged advice, amazon.com, basics, BDSM Basics, bdsm books, bdsm reading, Bondage, book, book list, books, communication, community, discussion, Dom, Dominance, dominant, endorphins, experience, explanations, female, Gloria Brahme, how-to, Impact, impact play, learning, leather, lifestyle, links, love, Masochism, molly devon, myths, negotiation, novice, novices, partners, philip miller, play, player, recommendations, recommended reading, relationship, Relationships, Resources, romance, rt, Sadism, safe, Safety, sane, scene, screw the roses, sensuous, sex, sexual dominance, slave, submission, submissive, support, tips, toy, toys, wants, William Brahme | 1 Response

Offering Your Body for Service [Day 9 - 2WBSP]

Offering Your Body for Service [Day 9 - 2WBSP]

By lunaKM on April 29, 2009

An intense and beautiful display of your body and offering yourself for service to your Dominant can be intimate, powerful and elegant. Today we are going to brainstorm ways you can offer yourself to your Dominant with them in mind. There is no proper way to do this, but once you find a way that [...]

Posted in Submissive Positions | Tagged 2WBSP, brainstorm, cons, Dom, dominant, hands, how-to, learned, love, makeup, offering for service, play, rt, Service, sex, slave positions, stand at attention, submissive, Submissive Positions, trust, wants | Leave a response

How to Give a Romantic Bath

How to Give a Romantic Bath

By lunaKM on March 26, 2009

Romance gets lost in the rush of work, family, kids and obligations but a romantic bath is not only relaxing, it can create intimacy between you and your partner. In Ancient Rome and Egypt, bathing in scented oils was a prelude to lovemaking. Giving a bath to someone else is not only romantic, but a [...]

Posted in Health and Beauty, Mindset, Service | Tagged amazon.com, bath, bathing, clean, cleaning, commitment, family, help, how-to, intimacy, links, love, m/s, marriage, play, Resources, ritual, rituals, romance, rt, rubber, scene, sensuous, Service, shower, tips | 1 Response

Finding Your Spirituality In Service

Finding Your Spirituality In Service

By lunaKM on March 20, 2009

A recent journal prompt I came across really inspired me to write about it.  It is spirituality. A lot of what I hear about spirituality is related to religion, but BDSM can be spiritual too and I’d like to explore that with you. What is the relationship between spirituality and religion? Is BDSM spiritual? –Submissive [...]

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