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Exposed! 5 Myths of BDSM You Should Know

Exposed! 5 Myths of BDSM You Should Know

It’s time to debunk the most common myths surrounding BDSM, clearing up all the shades of gray once and for all! Here we go—no safety word needed!

Comments Off Posted by Guest Author | Posted in: Beginner Basics
Play Nice: Some Notes on Scene  Etiquette and Leather Protocol (Part 1 of 7) – General Principles

Play Nice: Some Notes on Scene Etiquette and Leather Protocol (Part 1 of 7) – General Principles

Ambrosio brings us a series of posts on Leather protocol and etiquette. In this introductory post, we touch on the very basics of manners and appropriate behavior in BDSM situations.

Comments Off Posted by Guest Author | Posted in: Community, Newsletter Archive
When Journaling Gets Hard – How Depression Affected Our D/s Dynamic and How My Journal Helped Bring Us Back Together

When Journaling Gets Hard – How Depression Affected Our D/s Dynamic and How My Journal Helped Bring Us Back Together

This is a personal account of what can happen when journalling goes wrong. In Elle’s case, it was when she became depressed. It’s about how to recognize that there is a problem, and what you and your dominant might do to overcome it.

2 comments Posted by Guest Author | Posted in: Personal Growth

Hitting the Wall During Play – Limit’s Edge

What does it mean to hit the wall? Let’s explore how deep the rabbit hole goes and become more aware of our own limits during play.

Comments Off Posted by Guest Author | Posted in: Play and Sex, Safety
Submissive Myths: Submission is a Result of Childhood Abuse

Submissive Myths: Submission is a Result of Childhood Abuse

If a human being at some point in their childhood becomes the focus of physical and/or sexual abuse does this then turn them into a submissive at some later point in their lives?

1 comment Posted by Guest Author | Posted in: Beginner Basics
Submissive vs. Slave

Submissive vs. Slave

Mistress Steel tackles the submissive vs slave debate. Core differences and misconceptions are revealed.

2 comments Posted by Guest Author | Posted in: Beginner Basics
How to Navigate D/s with Family Around

How to Navigate D/s with Family Around

Perhaps one of the most challenging decisions we face as a parent is what we should tell our children, when and how much.

1 comment Posted by Guest Author | Posted in: Community, Relationships
Defining Sub Space

Defining Sub Space

Mistress Steel breaks down the many levels of subspace, as she sees them, and how to navigate them in play.

1 comment Posted by Guest Author | Posted in: Beginner Basics
Jealousy and Mono/Poly Relationships

Jealousy and Mono/Poly Relationships

Here’s what has helped Mina learn about jealousy in a mono/poly relationship – it just might help you too.

5 comments Posted by Guest Author | Posted in: Personal Growth, Relationships
A Personal Story About Discovering and Testing Limits

A Personal Story About Discovering and Testing Limits

Discovering limits is almost as innocuous and confusing as exploring the kinks and fetishes we do want to play with.

Comments Off Posted by Guest Author | Posted in: BDSM Fundamentals, Beginner Basics
A Day in the Life of Rife: Submissive Fantasy vs Submissive Reality

A Day in the Life of Rife: Submissive Fantasy vs Submissive Reality

Rife’s Life in a Snapshot.

4 comments Posted by Guest Author | Posted in: Beginner Basics
A Day in the Life: cyberkittenXLS

A Day in the Life: cyberkittenXLS

The not so typical day of cyberkittenXLS. A part of the “Day in the Life” Series.

5 comments Posted by Guest Author | Posted in: Beginner Basics
A Day in the Life: WKslittleone

A Day in the Life: WKslittleone

Wkslittleone’s tale of her typical day in a life, a continued series on Submissive Guide where you too can share your day with others.

6 comments Posted by Guest Author | Posted in: Beginner Basics
Coming Out of the Closet… Twice

Coming Out of the Closet… Twice

I was a closet lesbian until 2003 and a closet kinkster until 2010.

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Be Not Ashamed – Accepting Who You Are and Where You Came From

Be Not Ashamed – Accepting Who You Are and Where You Came From

What I wish for you, dear reader, is that you accept yourself for who you are really. Embrace it with boldness and move forward in your life with that new freedom.

2 comments Posted by Guest Author | Posted in: Beginner Basics
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How I Help Our Finances Without Knowing the Numbers

I don’t need to know the numbers to know that if we aren’t eating out, the shopping list stays short, and we aren’t wasting the food that we are buying.

6 comments Posted by moonlight | Posted in: Service
A Day in the Life: moonlight

A Day in the Life: moonlight

moonlight shares a typical day in her life as a slave. This is part of the Day in the Life series here where you too can share your typical day with other submissives.

1 comment Posted by Guest Author | Posted in: Beginner Basics
How Master Took Control of the Finances

How Master Took Control of the Finances

I belong to him completely today but when I look back, having him control all the money was the greatest submission for me to him.

Comments Off Posted by Guest Author | Posted in: Beginner Basics, Relationships
Domestic Servitude, Struggling With Being Overwhelmed

Domestic Servitude, Struggling With Being Overwhelmed

Are you easily distracted?

5 comments Posted by Guest Author | Posted in: Domestics
Thoughts on Isolation and Feeling Alone

Thoughts on Isolation and Feeling Alone

The more isolated I am, the more isolated I want to be. The more I rely on Master to satisfy any needs I have, the less I want anyone or anything to interfere with that.

6 comments Posted by Guest Author | Posted in: Beginner Basics, Personal Growth
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