By lunaKM on July 16, 2010
In this hustle and bustle world we are losing an important connection. No, I’m not talking about the internet; we are all plugged and tuned out from the world around us. We seldom recognize the people around us let alone acknowledge them. If your goal is to be a submissive that serves every wish of [...]
Posted in Personal Development | Tagged amazon.com, Awareness, connection, etiquette, fidgeting, grace, learned, mannerisms, Miss Abernathy, skills, submission, surroundings |
By lunaKM on October 15, 2009
lunaKM> So, first I’d like to get some impression about how new you are to submission. Could you please tell me how long you have been exploring submission and if you are in a relationship right now? lunaKM> hello aquamuse aquamuse> Hello, I’m new of course. eagerslut> I am in a relationship and just recently [...]
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By lunaKM on September 9, 2009
You know you’ve entered online submissive ground when everyone you don’t know starts to refer to you as sister. It’s been years since I’ve ‘lived’ online but this is something that has always irked me. Recently on FetLife I saw a question that had an interesting twist to the whole sister submissive thing that I’d [...]
Posted in Online Submission | Tagged BDSM, blind faith, comfort, D/s, danger, Dom, dominant, dominants, experience, family, fantasy, fetlife, friends, Gor, grace, guest post, health, help, lifestyle, nurtured, online, Online Submission, opinion, perfect world, poly, preference, questions, real life, real world, relationship, Relationships, rt, Service, share, sister, sister sub, standing, submission, submissive, support, understanding, value |
By lunaKM on September 2, 2009
At the beginning of this blog I wrote about safewords. Just a reminder that a safeword is a signal that ends BDSM play and usually negotiated before play. It’s an excellent starting point but I left a part of it out. There will be occasions during BDSM play where you will be unable to speak. [...]
Posted in BDSM Basics | Tagged BDSM, bdsm play, bottom, clean, communication, daddy, gags, grace, m/s, newsletter, nonverbal clues, play, restraints, ritual, rt, safe, safe objects, safe words, safewords, scene, Service, sister, slave, stress, submissive, wants |
By lunaKM on September 1, 2009
If you have ever wondered how you can get the spanking you’ve always wanted but wasn’t sure how to ask for it, there is a book for you. I was just offered the chance to review a copy of How to Get the Spanking You Want: The Complete Guide to Asking for It, Getting It [...]
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By lunaKM on August 31, 2009
A few months ago I started a list of things you can do to improve your submission immediately. If you want to see what’s in that list, you can find that post in the archives. I’d like to continue to add to that list because there are always things you can do but may not [...]
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![Show Off Your Positions! [Day 14 - 2WBSP]](http://www.submissiveguide.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/04/share_ryancr-150x150.jpg)
By lunaKM on May 4, 2009
You have followed the whole series of Submissive Positions posts here at Submissive Guide. If not, start back at the beginning, I’ll wait for you here. Are you back? Ready to show them off? Today’s post is all about you! I want to see what you came up with for positions that worked best for [...]
Posted in Submissive Positions | Tagged 2WBSP, curtsy, email, grace, kneeling, learned, linklove, positions, rt, series, share, share photos, share thoughts, slave positions, standing, submissive, Submissive Positions |
![Altering Positions [Day 13 - 2WBSP]](http://www.submissiveguide.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/04/disability_panshipanshi-150x150.jpg)
By lunaKM on May 3, 2009
Reading the past posts on the Submissive positions project may bring some of you to the realization that you can’t perform these poses for health or body size reasons. This is to be expected. I can’t kneel back on my heels at all. So what is a good submissive to do? You alter the positions [...]
Posted in Submissive Positions | Tagged 2WBSP, alterations, brainstorm, comfort, disability, etiquette, Gor, grace, health, help, kneeling, poses, positions, rt, share, short, size, slave positions, submissive, Submissive Positions |
![Offering Your Neck for Collar [Day 8 - 2WBSP]](http://www.submissiveguide.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/04/collar-behind-150x150.jpg)
By lunaKM on April 28, 2009
We are just over half way through the two weeks of submissive positions here on Submissive Guide. Here’s a review of what we’ve covered so far: Learning to Kneel Standing at Attention Lowering to the Floor Rise from the Floor The Bow and Curtsey Active Attending Serving Food and Drink Next up is talking about [...]
Posted in Submissive Positions | Tagged 2WBSP, bow, collaring, Dom, dominant, dynamic, grace, learning, offering neck for collar, positions, relationship, review, ritual, rituals, rt, series, serving, standing, submissive, Submissive Positions |
![Serving Food and Drink [Day 7 - 2WBSP]](http://www.submissiveguide.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/04/waitress_gousgous-150x150.jpg)
By lunaKM on April 27, 2009
Welcome to another day of learning and enhancing submissive positions. Today we are going to cover food service etiquette. Some of this may be familiar to you. If this is the case, try to enhance it and make it more personal and unique to your relationship. If you’ve ever been to a more formal restaurant [...]
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![Attending Your Dominant [Day 6 - 2WBSP]](http://www.submissiveguide.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/04/offering-apple-lepiaf-geo-150x150.jpg)
By lunaKM on April 26, 2009
In the previous posts we covered basic positions that should now be familiar and perhaps you have worked out in your relationship that you want to employ them. If you need to review you can do that by going to the initial post. Today we will be learning an active position and one that can [...]
Posted in Submissive Positions | Tagged 2WBSP, active positions, assistance, attentiveness, calendar, comfort, cons, Dom, dominant, event, grace, hands, information, learned, learning, movement, needs, organization, positions, preparedness, relationship, review, rt, safe, Service, serving, shopping, slave positions, standing, submissive, Submissive Positions |
![To Bow and Curtsy Appropriately [Day 5 - 2WBSP]](http://www.submissiveguide.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/04/bow-curtsy_halfninja-150x150.jpg)
By lunaKM on April 25, 2009
This is a continuation of the ongoing project for submissive positions here at Submissive Guide. Today we will cover bowing and curtsying. Every culture has a different way to show respect and acknowledge a title holding member of their society. I believe most of them us a form of bow or curtsy to honor that [...]
Posted in Submissive Positions | Tagged 2WBSP, bow, comfort, curtsy, D/s, Dom, dominant, focus, grace, hands, IRC, positions, purpose, rt, Service, show respect, slave positions, submissive, Submissive Positions, value |
![Rise From The Floor With Finesse [Day 4 - 2WBSP]](http://www.submissiveguide.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/04/nude-statue-david_boyle-150x150.jpg)
By lunaKM on April 24, 2009
The next part of this two week series is about getting up from the floor. You’ve already learned about kneeling, standing at attention and lowering yourself with grace. Stick around, we have a lot to learn. If you’ve ever watched Memoirs of a Geisha you have seen how graceful it can be to rise from [...]
Posted in Submissive Positions | Tagged 2WBSP, Dom, dominant, getting up off the floor, grace, hands, help, kneeling, learned, links, movement, positions, progress, review, rising from the floor, rt, series, standing, submissive |
![Gracefully Lowering Yourself [Day 3 - 2WBSP]](http://www.submissiveguide.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/04/kneeling-quinnanya-150x150.jpg)
By lunaKM on April 23, 2009
We have covered standing and kneeling so far in the positions project here at Submissive Guide. Today we will cover going from standing to kneeling in a graceful way. It’s not as easy as you think. First you have to pick out one kneeling posture and one standing posture from the previous posts. This way [...]
Posted in Submissive Positions | Tagged 2WBSP, comfort, control, grace, graceful movement, hands, help, kneeling, learning, movement, perfection, positions, rt, slave positions, stand at attention, standing, submissive, Submissive Positions |
![Learning to Kneel [Day 1 - 2WBSP]](http://www.submissiveguide.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/04/kneeling-notquitetrish-150x150.jpg)
By lunaKM on April 21, 2009
Today’s post in the two week project here at Submissive Guide is focused on kneeling. Do you kneel in front of your Dominant partner at any point of your service? Is there a specific way to do that? For someone new to BDSM, it is common to think you must kneel a lot of the [...]
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By lunaKM on April 17, 2009
A question I see asked all the time is “how can I be a better submissive?” Here are a few things you can do to make your submission and service better without a lot of work. 1. Move with purpose. If you have been asked to fetch something or approach your Dominant, be precise in [...]
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