By lunaKM on July 7, 2010
I’m constantly exploring the internet and online libraries for information. Today I found a wealth of knowledge about Gorean Lifestyle. I personally can’t distinguish between online Gor and real life Gorean living so they are together in this list. Please feel free to leave a comment and add your own resources! Websites Gorean from Wikipedia [...]
Posted in Research Pages | Tagged chat, chat rooms, Gor, Gorean Lifestyle, gorean links, gorean resources, IRC, John Norman, research |
By Guest Author on September 18, 2009
Today’s guest post is by dina from Kajiradreams. You can also read her post on what it’s like to be an owned kajira and a kajira’s strengths and misconceptions. There is so many stereotypes, misconceptions of what a kajira is; what gor is; what the gorean lifestyle is; what a bdsm lifestyler looks like; what [...]
Posted in Submission | Tagged abuse, Aria, BDSM, bdsm lifestyle, challenges, chat, choice, choices, Christian, clean, cons, dreams, dress, dynamic, family, friends, Gor, Gorean Lifestyle, guest post, kajira, lifestyle, lifestyler, norms, opinion, owned, preference, preferences, questions, relationship, rt, rules, sex, share, single, slave, speech, stereotype, submissive, wants |
By Guest Author on September 16, 2009
This is another guest post by dina of kajiradreams. She continues her thoughts on Gor and the life of a kajira. You can also read her thoughts on what it’s like to be an owned kajira. The strengths of a kajira and the misconceptions of what a kajira is and does. And what strengths better [...]
Posted in Submission | Tagged book, books, comfort, commitment, cons, control, decisions, desires, Dom, dominant, dreams, emotions, fantasy, fear, female, Gor, Gorean Lifestyle, guest post, hands, help, honesty, ideals, journey, kajira, lifestyle, love, misconceptions of Gor, needs, obedience, owned, play, player, purpose, rt, safe, series, sex, slave, sorry, spirit, standing, strengths of kajira, submission, submissive, switch, tall, trust, understanding, value, wants |
By Guest Author on September 15, 2009
Today’s guest post is by dina from Kajiradreams. She’s donated a few posts for this week on Gorean Living so watch for them in the coming days! My Master gave me the task of writing down my thoughts on what it means to be an owned kajira. I can only ever write this from my [...]
Posted in Submission | Tagged 24/7, amazon.com, BDSM, book, books, bottom, choice, collaring, cons, decisions, desires, Dom, dreams, email, emotions, Gor, guest post, guest posts, hands, kajira, limits, love, m/s, natural, needs, owned, phenomenon, play, rt, single, sorry, spirit, submission, submissive, surrender, surrendering, tall, trust, what to wear, writing |
By lunaKM on September 11, 2009
Gather around the table everyone, I’d like to learn about something I don’t know a lot about. I welcome you to add your thoughts and comments to this post and if you feel an inclination, send me a guest post letting me know what you think. This month we are talking the Gorean Lifestyle. I’d [...]
Posted in Roundtable Discussions | Tagged chat, chat room, choice, choices, D/s, Free Woman, Gor, Gorean Lifestyle, guest post, inclination, kajira, lifestyle, love, m/s, online, phenomenon, questions, real life, relationship, rt, share, submissive, value |
By lunaKM on September 9, 2009
You know you’ve entered online submissive ground when everyone you don’t know starts to refer to you as sister. It’s been years since I’ve ‘lived’ online but this is something that has always irked me. Recently on FetLife I saw a question that had an interesting twist to the whole sister submissive thing that I’d [...]
Posted in Online Submission | Tagged BDSM, blind faith, comfort, D/s, danger, Dom, dominant, dominants, experience, family, fantasy, fetlife, friends, Gor, grace, guest post, health, help, lifestyle, nurtured, online, Online Submission, opinion, perfect world, poly, preference, questions, real life, real world, relationship, Relationships, rt, Service, share, sister, sister sub, standing, submission, submissive, support, understanding, value |
By lunaKM on June 30, 2009
Places to buy a collar are numerous. Each relationship has a different idea of what the collar should look like. Listed below are a few of the many places you can go online to shop for that perfect collar. I’ve broken them up into types of collars the store offers. If they offer more than [...]
Posted in BDSM Basics, Playtime | Tagged BDSM, Bondage, collars, D/s, dreams, gags, Gor, leather, leather collars, metal collars, online, online stores, relationship, restraints, rt, rubber, shopping, slave, special collars, toy, types of collars, websites |
By lunaKM on May 18, 2009
Using the posts and resources here at Submissive Guide you have tools necessary to start creating your Training Resume; a folder of all your past, present and future training as well as skills and preferences. It’s very helpful to know where you are lacking experience or developing your skills. Here’s a list of posts already [...]
Posted in Training Resume | Tagged checklist, completed training, experience, future training, Gor, help, preference, preferences, questions, Resources, resume, rt, skills, submission, submissive, training, training history, Training Resume |
By lunaKM on May 11, 2009
Each social situation we expose ourselves to has it’s own set of rules and behaviors. This is also true of BDSM events, perhaps even moreso. A play party will have different rules at each location you may attend one. There will be established rules as well as house/location rules. There are also unspoken rules that [...]
Posted in BDSM Basics, Playtime | Tagged advice, BDSM, BDSM event, bdsm events, Dom, dominant, dominants, edge play, etiquette, event, events, Gor, limits, novice, novices, play, play parties, player, protocol, relationship, Relationships, rt, rules, safe, Safety, scene, sex, social situation, sorry, specifics, submissive, titles, toy, toys, unspoken rules |
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By lunaKM on May 3, 2009
Reading the past posts on the Submissive positions project may bring some of you to the realization that you can’t perform these poses for health or body size reasons. This is to be expected. I can’t kneel back on my heels at all. So what is a good submissive to do? You alter the positions [...]
Posted in Submissive Positions | Tagged 2WBSP, alterations, brainstorm, comfort, disability, etiquette, Gor, grace, health, help, kneeling, poses, positions, rt, share, short, size, slave positions, submissive, Submissive Positions |
By lunaKM on April 20, 2009
Submissive Positions are talked about all over like everyone is supposed to be doing them or something. Not every relationship is set up to provide that level of protocol and you should never expect a relationship to automatically have that. If you are interested in positions, ask your partner or perspective partner if they’d be [...]
Posted in Rituals and Routines, Submissive Positions | Tagged 2WBSP, ask me, cons, dates, essays, Gor, Gorean positions, kneeling, learning, library, online, positions, preference, preferences, protocol, relationship, Resources, review, rt, slave, slave positions, submissive, Submissive Positions, training |
By lunaKM on April 15, 2009
Today’s post comes from Skylerpet, a submissive pet in a D/s relationship who volunteered to write an essay for me after seeing the Weekly Tips on YouTube. Thank you Skylerpet! Pet play is one of the most unique, one of the least known and in my opinion one of the most fun and entertaining sub-cultures [...]
Posted in Playtime, Relationships | Tagged 24/7, BDSM, begging, Bondage, bow, chat, collars, communication, cons, D/s, Dom, dominant, email, experience, female, focus, Gor, hands, help, human animals, human pet, learning, lifestyle, movement, needs, opinion, owned, pet play, pets, play, protocol, punishment, questions, relationship, role play, rt, rules, safe, Safety, scene, sex, short, skylerpet, slave, stress, submission, submissive, switch, tall, tips, toy, toys, training, tricks, writing |
By lunaKM on April 13, 2009
If you intend to venture into play on a casual level or at play parties and clubs as a single submissive you need to arrive prepared for play. This includes having some of your own toys so that you don’t rely on Dominants being gracious enough to use their toys on you. It is not [...]
Posted in BDSM Basics, Playtime, Safety | Tagged amazon.com, Bondage, choice, clean, cleaning, clubs, common sense, disposable, Dom, dominant, dominants, first aid, floggers, Gor, health, latex, leather, love, paddles, play, play parties, preparedness, rt, safe, Safety, sex, single, submissive, toy, toybag, toys, whips |
By lunaKM on March 18, 2009
Continuing the work on your training resume, I’d like to talk about mapping out how you dream of your submission being. This is a discussion of ideals and dreams. You can be as fanciful as you want right now, we will narrow things down as we go along. There are 3 things I’d like to [...]
Posted in Relationships, Submission, Training Resume | Tagged activities, D/s, desires, discipline, discussion, dreams, dynamic, dynamics, focus, Gor, help, ideals, information, kinky, learning, links, mind maps, needs, online, play, poly, protocol, punishment, relationship, Relationships, resume, ritual, rituals, routine, rt, rules, Service, skills, slave, slavery, structure, submission, submissive, training, Training Resume, wants |
By lunaKM on March 14, 2009
Today’s post comes from May (follow her @readheadgirl) a writer and artist. For the longest time when I heard “polyamory,” I thought of hippies in the 70s having orgies at drug parties. I blame my misconception on why I took so long to realize that I am a polyamorous person. Like me, many people have [...]
Posted in Relationships, Sex and Sexuality | Tagged Aria, BDSM, book, choice, choices, commitment, communication, cons, desires, gender, Gor, guest post, intimacy, lifestyle, lifetyle, love, many loves, needs, partners, poly, poly-households, polyamorous, polyamory, relationship, Relationships, rt, series, sex, share, single, size, submissive, twitter |
By lunaKM on February 27, 2009
The most frequent question I get asked is what is about rituals; what are they, how do I start one, are they hard, do they help with your submission, etc. They really aren’t that difficult once you understand what they are. There’s no sacred rites or incantations or anything, unless that is what you want. [...]
Posted in Rituals and Routines, Service | Tagged amazon.com, BDSM, blogs, book, books, ceremony, collaring, D/s, desires, Dom, dominant, Domme, etiquette, female, Gor, help, leather, links, love, m/s, meditation, Mindset, online, protocol, resume, ritual, rituals, rosary, rt, rules, slave, stress, structure, submission, submissive, symbols, training |
By lunaKM on February 24, 2009
In this week’s video tip I talk about what training is to a submissive and the value it has to a D/s relationship. When someone thinks of slave training, what is the first thing that pops into your mind? Is it a submissive on their knees going through the paces that their Dominant puts them? [...]
Posted in Service, Video Posts | Tagged activities, amazon.com, attitude, behavior changes, book, books, cons, consensual, D/s, Dom, Dominance, dominant, dominants, female, Gor, help, m/s, newsletter, novice, novices, positions, protocol, punishment, questions, relationship, Relationships, rt, rules, Service, single, slave, slave training, slavery, speech, submission, submissive, submissive training, training, value |
By lunaKM on January 28, 2009
Begging is an art form for submissives. Each of us has our own talent or lack thereof in this area. For some it is part of humiliation, or just every day activities. There are different approaches to begging. Verbal Approach Master insists that I beg for a lot of things and I think that most [...]
Posted in Playtime, Sex and Sexuality | Tagged activities, advice, ask me, asking for permission, BDSM, begging, Bondage, Bondage.com, bow, curtsy, Dom, dominant, dominants, Gor, hands, help, humbling yourself, kissing hands, kneeling, learning, leather, love, normal, prostration, Raven Shadowborne, routine, rt, sex, sexual submission, short, submission, submissive, wants |
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