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When Kinky isn’t Sexy

When Kinky isn’t Sexy

Kink and sex are indistinguishable from each other: if something kinky ensues, something sexy is sure to follow. The reality is, however, that the two can, and sometimes should be separated.

3 comments Posted by kallista | Posted in: Beginner Basics
What is a Fetish?

What is a Fetish?

We use the term fetish to describe many actions or conditions which appear with relative prevalence within the BDSM communities.

Leave a comment Posted by Guest Author | Posted in: BDSM Glossary
Submissive Frenzies: When You Want It All RIGHT NOW!

Submissive Frenzies: When You Want It All RIGHT NOW!

Many aspects of BDSM are similar to addictions and Frenzies can be considered to be the ‘withdrawal’ stage. The peculiar thing about this is that a submissive need not ever have engaged in a real life D/s BDSM experience to actually go into this state of need

Leave a comment Posted by Guest Author | Posted in: Beginner Basics
Broken Vows: When Vanilla Marriage Falls Apart Because of Kink

Broken Vows: When Vanilla Marriage Falls Apart Because of Kink

I was married before my relationship with my Master, KnyghtMare. We fell in love when dating online was still an unusual thing. We courted and dated for years before we got married. Marriage seemed to be the inevitable next step, so we did that too. Our sex life was very much kink-lite. For the most [...]

41 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Relationships
Male submission – Financial Domination

Male submission – Financial Domination

Financial Domination is an area of BDSM which often elicits strong opinions. With other BDSM activities such as spanking and bondage, at some point after the Safe, Sane, and Consensual scene is over there is no damage done and things are typically physically back to the way they were. However, if a sub’s money is [...]

24 comments Posted by ted_subby | Posted in: Male Submission, Relationships
Me vs the German Language  – A Lesson in Patience

Me vs the German Language – A Lesson in Patience

This past year has just been a whirlwind of excitement for me. Moving to a new country to be with my Daddy and everything that comes with moving to a new country, adjusting to a new culture, a new way of life, and a new language. The biggest challenge of my move has been the [...]

2 comments Posted by tequilarose | Posted in: Beginner Basics
Recapturing Common Sense

Recapturing Common Sense

This essay that I wrote was first published on humbledfemales.net, but has since taken on new ownership and the article was removed (not sure why). I am now sharing it here because it is good common sense! A submissive’s best protection is her gut instinct. Waking up the fantasies we’ve only held close to our hearts and [...]

2 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Personal Growth
Submissive Advent – Day 23: Twinkling Stars and Lights

Submissive Advent – Day 23: Twinkling Stars and Lights

Today is day 23 of the Submissive Advent Calendar. If you missed yesterday’s post you can go back to that now, or rewind all the way to the beginning. You can also read the introduction post. One of my all time favorite activities during the holiday season is to look at Christmas lights. As a child we used to be [...]

Leave a comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Advent Calendar
Preparing Your Body for a Scene

Preparing Your Body for a Scene

Getting ready for play is full of excitement and nerves. It can be so difficult to focus on anything but the upcoming time with your Dominant. Setting up a preparation routine will not only make the session more enjoyable for your Dominant but will put you more at ease to enjoy it also. So what [...]

4 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Play and Sex
A Day in the Life: bonimiss

A Day in the Life: bonimiss

This is a post by bonimiss for the Day in the Life Series. I saw luna’s request for a day in the life and was immediately interested but then I hesitated. I fear I suffer from “Not Doing It Right” syndrome but then I thought if I am doing it the way Sir specifies, I [...]

1 comment Posted by Guest Author | Posted in: Beginner Basics
Keeping It Fresh – How to Spice Up Your Kinky Life

Keeping It Fresh – How to Spice Up Your Kinky Life

From the Submissive Guide Newsletter 10-22-11 You’ve been doing the same ole’ kinky sh*t since the beginning and it’s getting old. Really old. So what do you do about it? Does it mean that you have to just keep replaying the record over and over and that nothing will be exciting again? Hardly. Every relationship [...]

1 comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Newsletter Archive, Play and Sex
Submission in Marriage – Shifting from Husband and Wife to Dominant and Submissive

Submission in Marriage – Shifting from Husband and Wife to Dominant and Submissive

From the Submissive Guide Newsletter 10-08-11 Sexual exploration and adventurousness can happen at any time in a couple’s life; and even more so once they are committed to living their lives together for a long time. One of the ways that I’ve seen couples explore their sexual selves is by adding an element of D/s to the [...]

Deceptive Submissive – The Flip Side of the Predator Dominant

Deceptive Submissive – The Flip Side of the Predator Dominant

This is a guest post by Camryn Darkstone. Virtual worlds have opened a door to BDSM for many people, allowing them to explore their curiosity about it in a fantasy environment. People who would never do so in “real” life can try on handcuffs, be chained and bound, and even submit to a Dominant, all [...]

11 comments Posted by Guest Author | Posted in: Beginner Basics, Safety
Exploring Endorphins from Pain Play for the First Time – A Point of View

Exploring Endorphins from Pain Play for the First Time – A Point of View

This is a guest post from Calliope. I’ve always thought of myself as a complete wuss when it comes to pain. My typical response to anything that hurts has always been of the “hide in my room and cry until it goes away” variety. Of course, “looking pitiful until someone takes mercy on me” has also [...]

4 comments Posted by Guest Author | Posted in: Beginner Basics, Play and Sex

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