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[Freebie] Behind Closed Doors: BDSM with Kids in the Home

[Freebie] Behind Closed Doors: BDSM with Kids in the Home

This month’s free report is a compilation of essays from Submissive Guide about parenting and BDSM, children in the home and navigating quiet play and so many other concerns about being parents and also in a D/s relationship.

Comments Off Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Play and Sex, Relationships, Safety
Things Have Changed and I Feel Insecure In My Relationship

Things Have Changed and I Feel Insecure In My Relationship

Advice for a submissive who is feeling lost and insecure in their relationship when the sex life changes. Kayla tackles this really difficult topic.

Comments Off Posted by Kayla Lords | Posted in: Ask Anything
Meeting Someone Face to Face Is an Important Early Step in Online Dating

Meeting Someone Face to Face Is an Important Early Step in Online Dating

When looking for that compatible partner to spend your life with, determining face to face if they are attractive, how well you get along and many other factors is an important early step; even if you plan to continue discussions online after meeting.

Comments Off Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Beginner Basics, Newsletter Archive, Relationships
How Do I Manage a Long Distance D/s Relationship Due to Deployment?

How Do I Manage a Long Distance D/s Relationship Due to Deployment?

I’m new at this, he’s a dominant. But he’s leaving for 9 months deployment and I don’t know how to do this long distance relationship.

8 comments Posted by Kayla Lords | Posted in: Ask Anything

Learn to Speak Up and Speak Out: Empowering Yourself to Have a Voice

But asking for what I want and raising concerns to him is topping from the bottom! No, no it’s not. You do, in fact, have to tell them what you are thinking and feeling.

Comments Off Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Newsletter Archive, Personal Growth
Coping with Release: The End of the D/s Relationship

Coping with Release: The End of the D/s Relationship

How do you process the end of a D/s relationship? Explore the range of emotions and how you can reach closure.

2 comments Posted by Guest Author | Posted in: Newsletter Archive, Relationships
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How to Deal With the Question of Being Kinky and a Parent

Confusion or being judgmental – clearing the air on why you can, in fact, be a great parent and still be kinky.

5 comments Posted by Kayla Lords | Posted in: Relationships
Learning To Be a 24/7 Submissive Is Like…

Learning To Be a 24/7 Submissive Is Like…

You practice, adapt and learn what works for you and discard the things that don’t. If you apply it to your everyday life, make it a part of you and don’t consider it an on/off switch, then you too can be 24/7.

1 comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Relationships
BDSM Basics – What Your First Date Might Look Like

BDSM Basics – What Your First Date Might Look Like

I’ll cover the non-play first date and the play on the first date …date.

1 comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: BDSM Fundamentals, Video Posts
How to Talk to Your Partner about Feeling Disconnected During Triad Moments

How to Talk to Your Partner about Feeling Disconnected During Triad Moments

How do you separate that jealous moment, with doubts about it all?

Comments Off Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything
What Does a Dom Mean When He Says, “You Need Training”

What Does a Dom Mean When He Says, “You Need Training”

When a Dominant tells you that you need training, what does he really mean?

Comments Off Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Beginner Basics, Newsletter Archive
Dominant Is Asking for More Time than I Can Give

Dominant Is Asking for More Time than I Can Give

I hate lying to him but I don’t feel like I had a choice. I don’t know what to do.

Comments Off Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything
How Do I Know If I Can I Make it In This Lifestyle?

How Do I Know If I Can I Make it In This Lifestyle?

Please help because we have a one of a kind love for each other that I don’t want to lose but the constant power struggle between us is exhausting. I want to come to a compromise that we’re both happy with.

Comments Off Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything, Beginner Basics
What Do You Mean When You Say Communicate? I am Communicating!

What Do You Mean When You Say Communicate? I am Communicating!

You will learn that communicating is a whole new world when you enter into a BDSM relationship.

1 comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Beginner Basics
Everything That’s Wrong with Your BDSM Limits List – And How To Fix It

Everything That’s Wrong with Your BDSM Limits List – And How To Fix It

Most of us have problems with really making the limit list a full picture of what your boundaries are and tend to stick with play activities.

1 comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: BDSM Fundamentals, Newsletter Archive
Answered: Your Burning Questions About What Is Expected Of You As a Submissive

Answered: Your Burning Questions About What Is Expected Of You As a Submissive

I’m going to guide you to the answers, but you’ll still have to do your own work as far as finding the answers that will work for you.

2 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Beginner Basics, Newsletter Archive

So You Want to Share Your Kink with Your Vanilla Partner – What You Need to Know

I want my partner to be Dominant/submissive but I’m afraid they’ll judge me or leave me if I tell them.

3 comments Posted by Guest Author | Posted in: Relationships
Why I Could Never Return to a Vanilla Relationship

Why I Could Never Return to a Vanilla Relationship

We are the sum of our experiences, after all, and if I hadn’t learned these lessons I don’t think I’d be where I am today.

7 comments Posted by pinksubgeek | Posted in: Beginner Basics

Why Identifying Your Wants and Needs is So Important as a Novice Submissive

Understanding your needs and how important certain ones in your life is a key component to finally reaching happiness and fulfillment.

Comments Off Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Beginner Basics
4 Things You Should Not Put Up With Just Because He’s a Dominant

4 Things You Should Not Put Up With Just Because He’s a Dominant

Please consider the following situations as a wake up call if you are in a relationship where you’re feeling used or disrespected. Being a Dominant does not give them an automatic “be a dick” card.

4 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Beginner Basics
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