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A Person is Not Their Kink: Jumping Into Bed With the Wrong Person

If you want a relationship with someone who enjoys a particular kink so that you can experience it again and again, as well as the dynamics a relationship can bring, read on.

Comments Off Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Beginner Basics
7 Myths of Grieving and Understanding Your Responses to Death

7 Myths of Grieving and Understanding Your Responses to Death

I would like to talk about ground rules for grieving, myths of grief and loss, the uniqueness of each person’s grief and symptoms of grief.

6 comments Posted by Guest Author | Posted in: Relationships, Views & More...

Making Him the Dom of Your Dreams – Working With The Man You Have

Just because your partner got a little kinky that one time during sex does not mean they have a kinky bone in their body.

6 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Relationships
Having Enough Love for More than Just One Partner

Having Enough Love for More than Just One Partner

Being in a polyamorous relationship is about sharing my entire being with someone else other than just Daddy. Yes, being in a polyamorous relationship isn’t easy and takes a lot of work, but if all people involved are willing to make the relationship work, then it can work.

2 comments Posted by tequilarose | Posted in: Relationships
5 Simple Steps to Creating a Personal Submissive Mantra

5 Simple Steps to Creating a Personal Submissive Mantra

For a personal mantra to work, it has to be positive. It has to reaffirm your choices in life and establish a realistic goal you can accomplish or a life dream fulfilled.

Comments Off Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Newsletter Archive, Personal Growth
Male Submission – Fantasy vs Reality

Male Submission – Fantasy vs Reality

Many submissive men have fantasies which have been developed over many years, sometimes leading to a focus on extreme and/or specific situations despite not having experienced anything. This may lead to misunderstandings with potential partners between fantasies and actual desires as the sub man may not even be able to recognize the difference at first.

25 comments Posted by ted_subby | Posted in: Male Submission
Solo-Coaching: Become a Great Goal-Setter to Achieve Your Submissive and Life Dreams

Solo-Coaching: Become a Great Goal-Setter to Achieve Your Submissive and Life Dreams

Making the goals list has made it easier to actualize my dreams and achieve results I never thought possible. I know it can help you too.

1 comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Personal Growth
Active Submission Means Always Improving Yourself

Active Submission Means Always Improving Yourself

Being effective in submission should make you happy in your life. Far too many times I see novices and experienced submissives floundering and wondering how to make their Owner happy without a thought to how to make themselves happy too.

2 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Newsletter Archive, Personal Growth
Solo Coaching – The CREATE Model

Solo Coaching – The CREATE Model

Today I’m going to cover a coaching model that I learned about that will work quite well for our submissive journey. It’s called the CREATE model. The CREATE system is a model that when used will ensure you stay on track

Comments Off Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Personal Growth
A Day in the Life: Tlbsab

A Day in the Life: Tlbsab

This is a guest post for the Day in a Life Series. Thank you Tlbsab!

Comments Off Posted by Guest Author | Posted in: Beginner Basics
Know Thyself, Don’t Rush Into a Relationship Until You Know These Six Things

Know Thyself, Don’t Rush Into a Relationship Until You Know These Six Things

Being a single submissive preparing for a relationship is just about as much work as those of us in relationships. Personal development should be your main focus. I have six very important tasks that should help you prepare for a happy future.

3 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Newsletter Archive, Personal Growth
Keeping D/s Alive Through Engagement and Marriage

Keeping D/s Alive Through Engagement and Marriage

I feel bad that sometimes lately I have forgotten I am marrying my Master and not just the man I love. There have been things we have been doing however to keep the D/s active.

5 comments Posted by thisgirl | Posted in: Relationships

Out of the Office and Into the Home: Making the Change From Working to Stay-at-Home Submissive

Overall it has been a positive change, even if it wasn’t planned to happen right now. We are rolling with the change, making it work for us and honestly, are very happy with how things are developing for us. Staying-at-home is work, but work that I can feel good about because it is improving our personal life and enhancing our dynamic.

4 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Service
Is BDSM the Nerds and Geeks Club?

Is BDSM the Nerds and Geeks Club?

I was listening to Mistress Matisse’s Guest Appearance the other day on the Savage Lovecast (Ep 163). She talks about a lot of kinky topics that callers ask Dan Savage. Somewhere near the end there was an interesting comment by Dan where he asked MM if nerds and geeks are more likely to be into [...]

18 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Community
The Challenges of Being Kajira in Today’s Society

The Challenges of Being Kajira in Today’s Society

Today’s guest post is by dina from Kajiradreams. You can also read her post on what it’s like to be an owned kajira and a kajira’s strengths and misconceptions. There is so many stereotypes, misconceptions of what a kajira is; what gor is; what the gorean lifestyle is; what a bdsm lifestyler looks like; what [...]

8 comments Posted by Guest Author | Posted in: Beginner Basics
Strengths and Misconceptions of Kajira

Strengths and Misconceptions of Kajira

This is another guest post by dina of kajiradreams. She continues her thoughts on Gor and the life of a kajira. You can also read her thoughts on what it’s like to be an owned kajira. The strengths of a kajira and the misconceptions of what a kajira is and does. And what strengths better [...]

8 comments Posted by Guest Author | Posted in: Beginner Basics
What It Means to Be an Owned Kajira

What It Means to Be an Owned Kajira

Today’s guest post is by dina from Kajiradreams. She’s donated a few posts for this week on Gorean Living so watch for them in the coming days! My Master gave me the task of writing down my thoughts on what it means to be an owned kajira. I can only ever write this from my [...]

28 comments Posted by Guest Author | Posted in: Beginner Basics
Suggest Some Tasks You Can Do While Your Dominant is Away

Suggest Some Tasks You Can Do While Your Dominant is Away

This guest post is by Alpine from Alpine Dreams. A bit of a background story. My partner and I don’t live together.  We are both Poly, have other relationships and numerous obligations. Staying connected and in a D/s mindframe can be difficult since he does go away sometimes and we can’t always be together on [...]

7 comments Posted by Guest Author | Posted in: Mindset
Another 7 Things You Can Do Today to Improve Your Submission

Another 7 Things You Can Do Today to Improve Your Submission

A few months ago I started a list of things you can do to improve your submission immediately. If you want to see what’s in that list, you can find that post in the archives. I’d like to continue to add to that list because there are always things you can do but may not [...]

5 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Beginner Basics
Where to Buy a Collar Online

Where to Buy a Collar Online

Places to buy a collar are numerous. Each relationship has a different idea of what the collar should look like. Listed below are a few of the many places you can go online to shop for that perfect collar. I’ve broken them up into types of collars the store offers. If they offer more than [...]

29 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: BDSM Fundamentals, Play and Sex
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