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By lunaKM on November 23, 2009
One of the cornerstone books recommended for submissives and Dominants alike has always been Erotic Slavehood by Christina Abernathy. Once two individual books; Miss Abernathy’s Concise Slave Training Manual and Training with Miss Abernathy, this omnibus has everything you could want in a manual about training submissives. When I first read this book I was [...]
Posted in Reviews | Tagged amazon.com, book, books, Dom, dominant, dominant partner, dominants, Impact, information, m/s, Miss Abernathy, relationship, review, rt, Service, single, slave, slave training, standing, submissive, training, understanding |
By lunaKM on August 26, 2009
It can be very scary approaching a Dominant and asking them to play with you. The butterflies in your belly can make it very difficult to take that first step. It can be every worse if you two don’t negotiate the scene so that you get what you want out of it and s/he does [...]
Posted in Playtime | Tagged basics, BDSM, Bondage, bottom, boundaries, checklist, Dom, dominant, dominant partner, dress, event, experience, health, limits, marks, needs, negotiation, obedience, partners, play, player, relationship, roles, rt, safe, safe words, Safety, scene, sex, spanking, submissive, toy, toys |
![Learning to Kneel [Day 1 - 2WBSP]](http://www.submissiveguide.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/04/kneeling-notquitetrish-150x150.jpg)
By lunaKM on April 21, 2009
Today’s post in the two week project here at Submissive Guide is focused on kneeling. Do you kneel in front of your Dominant partner at any point of your service? Is there a specific way to do that? For someone new to BDSM, it is common to think you must kneel a lot of the [...]
Posted in Submissive Positions | Tagged 2WBSP, BDSM, comfort, Dom, dominant, dominant partner, favorite, focus, grace, hands, kneeling, learning, online, play, Playtime, positions, real life, relationship, Relationships, rt, Service, short, slave positions, standing, submissive, Submissive Positions, support |
By lunaKM on April 9, 2009
A couple week’s ago I held a Roundtable discussion on Polyamory. You had a lot to say about it. I also had a guest post on polyamory, written by May. Coming up this week is a second guest post about having two Dominats in a poly relationship by Aria. Keep an eye out for that [...]
Posted in Relationships, Roundtable Discussions | Tagged Aria, balance, comfort, communication, control, discussion, Dom, dominant, dominant partner, dominants, event, events, family, friends, guest post, help, jealousy, limits, love, needs, partners, poly, polyamorous, polyamory, relationship, Relationships, review, roundtable discussion, rt, rules, schedules, security, series, share, structure, submissive, support, trust, wants |
By lunaKM on March 13, 2009
Every so often I want to open up the blog for you to share and teach me on a topic that I don’t know a lot about. This is your chance to teach me and the other readers of this blog. I encourage you to comment, subscribe to the comments and keep coming back to [...]
Posted in Relationships, Roundtable Discussions, Sex and Sexuality, Social Norms | Tagged acceptance, balance, cons, consensual, control, D/s, discussion, Dom, dominant, dominant partner, dominants, friends, love, poly, polyamory, questions, relationship, Relationships, rt, sex, share, support |
By lunaKM on March 11, 2009
The second question I received for March question month came to me in my email. I’m a strong person, but something in me was missing…until i admitted what i really am. I’m engaged, i love my boyfriend very much, but I decided to open my heart to him and he’s really doing his best to [...]
Posted in BDSM Basics, Relationships | Tagged activities, advice, beginning bdsm, book, books, bottom, changing, choice, D/s, discussion, Dom, dominant, dominant partner, email, fetlife, help, housework, learning, love, needs, newbies, question month, relationship, Relationships, Resources, roles, rt, Service, sex, share, short, standing, submissive, suggestions, surrender, understanding, wants |
By lunaKM on January 14, 2009
Communication is one of the key elements that make a D/s relationship strong. Without good communication your relationship is destined to fail. While talking face to face may be the best way to communicate, sometimes this just isn’t possible. A submissive can be a novice, shy, embarrassed, or intimidated. With the age of the internet, [...]
Posted in Submission | Tagged advice, atonement, blog hosting services, blogging, blogs, bottom, communication, D/s, development, Dom, dominant, dominant partner, dominants, emotions, focus, growth, help, infraction, infractions, internet, internet submissives, journaling, journey, learning, myspace, novice, online, online journal, play, punishment, relationship, rt, Service, serving, sex, sexual encounters, share, submission, submissive, writing |
By lunaKM on December 30, 2008
A training resume is just another name for a folder where you are going to start keeping your list of training achieved, history and important documents. Much like the training folders mentioned in The Marketplace series by Laura Antoniou you can build a file on yourself to offer your current or future dominant partner(s). Throughout [...]
Posted in Training Resume | Tagged activities, amazon.com, basics, development, Dom, dominant, dominant partner, dreams, experience, family, focus, growth, help, history, information, Laura Antoniou, needs, online, personal development, personal profile, pride, religion, resume, ritual, rt, series, size, skills, spirit, spiritual, structure, submissive, training, training history, Training Resume, writing |
By lunaKM on December 30, 2008
You may have been bathing yourself since you were 5 or 6, but if you haven’t changed your bathing routine since then, you may want to consider growing up and learning an adult way to bathe. Each person may have cleaning preferences and this is to be just a guideline and recommendation for bathing and [...]
Posted in Health and Beauty | Tagged bath, bathing, clean, cleaning, cons, Dom, dominant, dominant partner, experience, grooming, health, learning, natural, natural oils, needs, personal hygiene, preference, preferences, routine, rt, sex, shower, single |
By lunaKM on December 22, 2008
When someone becomes a submissive for the first time and finds a dominant the first words I generally hear them say is that they like being of service or they like serving. When asked what it is about service that they enjoy it tends to boil down to sex and play. There is far more [...]
Posted in Service | Tagged activities, Aria, bath, bathing, book, chat, clean, cleaning, connection, control, Dom, Domestics, dominant, dominant partner, email, event, family, fantasy, fulfillment, grooming, happiness, health, help, masochist, needs, obedience, opinion, organization, pets, play, purpose, relationship, Relationships, resume, rt, series, Service, serving, sex, share, shaving, skills, standing, structure, submission, submissive, tasks, understanding, wants |
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