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[Video Post] Improving Your Submission – Accepting Punishment

[Video Post] Improving Your Submission – Accepting Punishment

Accepting punishment gracefully when you are in a Discipline Dynamic takes practice (but not too much practice!) In this video, you’ll learn the steps to making punishment go as smoothly as possible for you.

2 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Personal Growth

About Punishment

Punishment is one of those areas which is not what it seems. Before you can develop tools or methods of punishment you have to look at the concepts behind the issue itself.

2 comments Posted by Guest Author | Posted in: Beginner Basics
Even in Lessons There Are More Lessons: How Being Punished Has More To Teach Than You Realize

Even in Lessons There Are More Lessons: How Being Punished Has More To Teach Than You Realize

It’s not just about the lesson that the Dominant is trying to teach you, but for yourself; how to repair faith in yourself and your chosen submission, how to lift the guilt and how to humbly move on in apology, progress, and recovery.

Leave a comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Newsletter Archive
Safewords During Disciplinary Punishment: Yay or Nay?

Safewords During Disciplinary Punishment: Yay or Nay?

My opinion on whether safewords should be allowed during punishment (for misbehavior).

11 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Beginner Basics, Safety
What to Do When Punishment Starts to Feel Good

What to Do When Punishment Starts to Feel Good

You are in trouble and awaiting corporal punishment. You are anxious, sad, depressed, frustrated about the whole thing but you know that you did something wrong and need to atone for it to get on the right path again. No one likes getting punished (at least you shouldn’t), so what happens if, as the punishment [...]

3 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Beginner Basics
Struggling in Submission: Introspection on the Fight to Improve Yourself

Struggling in Submission: Introspection on the Fight to Improve Yourself

from the Submissive Guide Newsletter 6/15/13 The most asked question from experienced submissives in the past few months has to do with struggle internally with your own submission, with your resistance to discipline and overall disagreement in a relationship.  It is of course, a natural progression of behavior adjustment and of introspection.  We all know [...]

Book Review: Leading and Supportive Love

Book Review: Leading and Supportive Love

The truth about Dominant and submissive relationships isn’t that we are an alternative lifestyle within the BDSM arena, it’s that we are a strong and supportive relationship type that goes beyond and sometimes without kink. Chris Lyon has written a fantastic book that does a great job describing and detailing the two roles of a [...]

1 comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Reviews

Chat Night Transcript from Pervertables Talk with FroggyKM

Chat night transcript from the Pervertables Chat with froggyKM on  7/16/13 froggyKM: ok lets get things started! Hello and welcome to another chat night here on Submissive Guide. Please feel free to talk about the subject whenever a thought comes to mind, this is not a moderated talk and you do not have to ask [...]

1 comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Views & More...
Learn How to Nourish Yourself, Your Relationship and Your Submission

Learn How to Nourish Yourself, Your Relationship and Your Submission

Several years ago, I was reading a book. In the book, one of the characters had a tattoo that read “quod nutrit me destruit me”. After reading a bit further, the translation of the quote was given, “that which nourishes me also destroys me”. Long after finishing the book, I was unable to forget that [...]

4 comments Posted by tequilarose | Posted in: Beginner Basics
How Do You Deal With Discomfort Being a Plus Sized Submissive?

How Do You Deal With Discomfort Being a Plus Sized Submissive?

I’m so glad I found your site. I am a large woman, about 275, who started exploring but has not yet experienced a D/s relationship. I think I’ve resolved much of my conflict about my sexuality, but I’ve some lingering issues to deal with from the last time I was thinner. I lost 90 pounds [...]

Leave a comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything

Living M/s Book Club Wrap-Up Participation Showcase

We are all done with this book club, but if you are still reading feel free to comment on this or any of the previous week’s posts. Today I wanted to take some time and showcase all of the favorite quotes, some of the key thoughts and comments on the book from this event. Thank [...]

2 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Roundtable Discussions
Living M/s Book Club Event – Week 2

Living M/s Book Club Event – Week 2

Welcome everyone to week 2 of the book club here on Submissive Guide. As a reminder, this book club is going to be a bit more free form than the last one. I won’t present questions in the post itself. Use this post as a forum thread and talk among the other commenters. I will [...]

6 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Roundtable Discussions

Research Page: Domestic Discipline

One of the easier topics for me to research has been Domestic Discipline. There is so much information out there of all types on this sort of relationship. Much of it is terrible. I’ve weeded through a lot of misunderstandings to get to the truth. Here’s what I’ve learned. Domestic Discipline is the practice between [...]

4 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Relationships, Research Pages
Is Age an Issue with BDSM?

Is Age an Issue with BDSM?

I am 66 years old and just entering the life of a single submissive…Would my age be an issue do you think?   Greetings, Not at all. In fact, many of the people I know in the scene are over 50. Many of them are single and looking for someone to play with or have a relationship [...]

Leave a comment Posted by SehAnru | Posted in: Ask Anything, Views & More...

What is Punishment?

This post is part of an effort to provide a glossary for novice submissives of words commonly seen across this site and in the BDSM community. Depending on who you talk to, punishment can mean different things. Some people have different meaning if you capitalize the P or if you don’t. Others use it synonymous with play. [...]

1 comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: BDSM Glossary
Ask Anything | Self Discipline and Being Yourself

Ask Anything | Self Discipline and Being Yourself

I just had a very good experience watching one of your videos about submission, it was the one about subspace on your youtube channel. First of all, I’m sorry about any grammar mistake in my writing, I’m an Italian girl and I don’t have many chances to write english except for my job. I have [...]

Leave a comment Posted by SehAnru | Posted in: Ask Anything
How to Use the “30 Days” Memes Effectively to Maximize Submissive Growth

How to Use the “30 Days” Memes Effectively to Maximize Submissive Growth

From the Submissive Guide Newsletter 12-17-11 We’ve all seen them on other people’s blogs. You may have even done them as a way to prompt yourself with something to write. They are fun. They are memes. Memes are the quizzes, questions, and games that seem to spread like a virus all over the blogging scene [...]

5 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Newsletter Archive, Personal Growth
Book Review: Living M/s

Book Review: Living M/s

It’s been awhile since I’ve reviewed a book here on Submissive Guide and this one has come recommended from readers. You want to know if this one is worth buying! Let’s get down to it. Living M/s: A Book for Masters, slaves and Their Relationships* is written by Dan and Dawn Williams of The Erotic Awakening [...]

8 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Reviews
What Do You Do When Top Drop Rules Your Relationship?

What Do You Do When Top Drop Rules Your Relationship?

This is a guest post by tlbsab. You can find her here on the SubGuide Club. Have you ever had everything you wanted only to have it crash around you because of a simple mistake? It didn’t have to be your mistake; but the emotional toll that it takes on your personality and actions is [...]

10 comments Posted by Guest Author | Posted in: Play and Sex, Relationships
A Day in the Life: Tlbsab

A Day in the Life: Tlbsab

This is a guest post for the Day in a Life Series. Thank you Tlbsab! First let me say that this article is in no way meant to offend anyone and is meant for information only. Religion is the basis of our relationship and is the reason that our lifestyle works for our family. I [...]

Leave a comment Posted by Guest Author | Posted in: Beginner Basics
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