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What Do I Call My Dominant?

What Do I Call My Dominant?

A Dominant can have a variety of titles. Which one will you pick? We have a small list of common and not so common names you could use for your Dominant. Check out the list and find the one that feels the best to you or use it to inspire your own ideas for Dominant titles!

Comments Off Posted by Kayla Lords | Posted in: Ask Anything
The Longing of Being Owned

The Longing of Being Owned

I think realizing your true calling with the one you want to serve is one of the greatest feelings any slave or submissive can feel.

10 comments Posted by tequilarose | Posted in: Beginner Basics
Ask lunaKM – New Kink Relationship, Seeking Daddy Doms and Resources to Help Those Coming Out Kinky

Ask lunaKM – New Kink Relationship, Seeking Daddy Doms and Resources to Help Those Coming Out Kinky

Dear lunaKM, I just met a man that is a dom, I am very interested in this lifestyle but also VERY new to it. We are both interested in each other and are both looking for a vanilla life outside the bedroom. My question is how do I start a relationship without jumping in bed [...]

1 comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything
Keys to a Successful Relationship-Transparency is Like a Brick Wall

Keys to a Successful Relationship-Transparency is Like a Brick Wall

Transparency is a huge factor in an M/s or D/s relationship. We both know that the moment there’s no longer 100% transparency in our relationship, then something is seriously wrong.

2 comments Posted by tequilarose | Posted in: Beginner Basics, Relationships
Keys to a Successful Relationship: Trust is Like a Mirror…

Keys to a Successful Relationship: Trust is Like a Mirror…

Trust is an extremely important factor in the lifestyle, and not just in the bedroom. You can’t have the trust in the bedroom if you don’t have the trust outside of the bedroom.

2 comments Posted by tequilarose | Posted in: Beginner Basics
Daddy-Little Girl Dynamics: It’s Not Easy Being A Little

Daddy-Little Girl Dynamics: It’s Not Easy Being A Little

It’s hard to be a little in today’s society. So many people, even those within the lifestyle, don’t understand the Daddy/little dynamic. They don’t try either.

16 comments Posted by tequilarose | Posted in: Beginner Basics, Relationships
Keys to a Successful Relationship-It’s All About Communication

Keys to a Successful Relationship-It’s All About Communication

I know that communication in the lifestyle is one of those topics that are constantly talked about, but I believe that’s because a lot of people don’t truly understand the importance of communication and how easily a relationship can turn sour if there is a breakdown in communication.

6 comments Posted by tequilarose | Posted in: Beginner Basics
Having Enough Love for More than Just One Partner

Having Enough Love for More than Just One Partner

Being in a polyamorous relationship is about sharing my entire being with someone else other than just Daddy. Yes, being in a polyamorous relationship isn’t easy and takes a lot of work, but if all people involved are willing to make the relationship work, then it can work.

2 comments Posted by tequilarose | Posted in: Relationships
Who Influences Your Submission?

Who Influences Your Submission?

When I find that I’m paying more attention to what society is trying to tell me and people who don’t know or understand me, then I’m not paying attention to Daddy or my heart. That’s when I lose sight of what’s really important.

3 comments Posted by tequilarose | Posted in: Community, Personal Growth
Me vs the German Language  – A Lesson in Patience

Me vs the German Language – A Lesson in Patience

More times than I care to count, I find myself in the train of thought that I shouldn’t even bother because I’m never going to understand the language, so why keep torturing myself? But then, on the other hand, I get so frustrated because I can’t really communicate while out in public. This is when having a bit of patience comes into play.

2 comments Posted by tequilarose | Posted in: Beginner Basics
The Ring and the Collar: A Personal Opinion on the Symbolism of a Collar

The Ring and the Collar: A Personal Opinion on the Symbolism of a Collar

To me, the collar around my neck, the weight of the steel is the only thing I need to know that Daddy loves me and will forever hold more weight than a ring on my finger or a piece of paper from a government office

8 comments Posted by tequilarose | Posted in: Relationships
Coming to an Understanding – I am a Slave

Coming to an Understanding – I am a Slave

Sometimes, I do feel weak for having these moments, but I have to realize that after all, I’m still human and have all those wonderful human emotions and thought processes to deal with.

12 comments Posted by tequilarose | Posted in: Beginner Basics
Learn How to Nourish Yourself, Your Relationship and Your Submission

Learn How to Nourish Yourself, Your Relationship and Your Submission

Like anything else, one has to learn to go with the flow and take the highs with the lows. I hope that any beginners, and even those who are well experienced will continue the sometimes rocky journey despite the aspects of the lifestyle that can destroy and fully embrace the aspects of the lifestyle that can nourish it.

4 comments Posted by tequilarose | Posted in: Beginner Basics
Finding My Submissive Focus With a Mantra

Finding My Submissive Focus With a Mantra

If you think that a personal mantra would be a great way to help you keep yourself in the proper submissive mindset, I encourage you to speak with your owner to come up with one that works for you.

2 comments Posted by tequilarose | Posted in: Beginner Basics
Daddy’s Little Girl – Exploring the Ageplay Dynamic

Daddy’s Little Girl – Exploring the Ageplay Dynamic

Being in a Daddy/little or Mommy/little relationship is about a very intimate bond between two consenting adults.

28 comments Posted by tequilarose | Posted in: Beginner Basics, Community, Relationships

What AreThe Effects of Fisting?

You’ve finished the book! I definitely want to know what you thought about it in the comments.

4 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything, Sex and Sexuality
Expressing emotions as a submissive

Expressing emotions as a submissive

He wants to know when I’ve had a bad day or am disappointed or overwhelmed in anything. But when I express this to him, he seems to clam up. I’ve tried to speak with Him about this and He acknowledges the problem but I’m not sure He really knows how to be there for me emotionally. What should I do or say?

1 comment Posted by SehAnru | Posted in: Ask Anything
A Day in the Life: DarlingDoll

A Day in the Life: DarlingDoll

This is part of the A Day in the Life Series. Thanks DarlingDoll!

3 comments Posted by Guest Author | Posted in: Beginner Basics
It’s Not Over Until The Fat Lady Sings AKA The Ending Of A D/s Relationship

It’s Not Over Until The Fat Lady Sings AKA The Ending Of A D/s Relationship

In a nutshell, my submission had gone stale and moldy like a piece of bread that had fallen between the fridge and the sink. At this point it also really sunk in that I was not a failure as a submissive and it was going to be okay.

4 comments Posted by bgtreasure | Posted in: Beginner Basics, Personal Growth, Relationships
Nonverbal Ways to Safeword

Nonverbal Ways to Safeword

At the beginning of this blog I wrote about safewords. Just a reminder that a safeword is a signal that ends BDSM play and usually negotiated before play.  It’s an excellent starting point but I left a part of it out. There will be occasions during BDSM play where you will be unable to speak. [...]

5 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: BDSM Fundamentals
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