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Sample Master/slave Contract with Ethical Non-Monogamy Section

Sample Master/slave Contract with Ethical Non-Monogamy Section

A sample D/s contract that also includes a non-monogamy section. Feel free to copy, edit and use this one for creating your own relationship contact.

1 comment Posted by Mrs. Darling | Posted in: Relationships
Contracts as a Road Map to Ever-Evolving Dynamics

Contracts as a Road Map to Ever-Evolving Dynamics

A written contract is a tool, simple as that. The written contract is not just useful to new dynamics trying to create a roadmap of new Power Exchange dynamic; it can help prevent problems up ahead and provide a lovely reminder of how far you’ve traveled together.

Comments Off Posted by Mrs. Darling | Posted in: Relationships
Help! My Dominant Says and Does Things I Didn’t Agree To

Help! My Dominant Says and Does Things I Didn’t Agree To

My Dominant is constantly changing the rules of the relationship and I don’t agree with them. I love him and don’t want to give him up but I am starting to question if he ever really loved me at all?

1 comment Posted by Kayla Lords | Posted in: Ask Anything
Keys to a Successful Relationship-It’s All About Communication

Keys to a Successful Relationship-It’s All About Communication

I know that communication in the lifestyle is one of those topics that are constantly talked about, but I believe that’s because a lot of people don’t truly understand the importance of communication and how easily a relationship can turn sour if there is a breakdown in communication.

6 comments Posted by tequilarose | Posted in: Beginner Basics

Living M/s Book Club Wrap-Up Participation Showcase

Today I wanted to take some time and showcase all of the favorite quotes, some of the key thoughts and comments on the book from this event. Thank you, everyone, for participating!

2 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Roundtable Discussions

Points to Negotiate in Your D/s Contact That May Not Have Ever Occurred to You

We all put a huge amount of thought into our contacts-or we should. But there are often times that things arise and we have no way of predicting them.

5 comments Posted by LaneyDoll | Posted in: Relationships
Book Review: Master/slave Relations: Handbook of Theory and Practice

Book Review: Master/slave Relations: Handbook of Theory and Practice

I’ll definitely recommend this book to anyone who says they want a Master in their life or are thinking they are a Master. It’s easy to read with a lot of personal introspection expected. You’ll finish this book a better Master or slave – that I really believe.

1 comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Reviews

What is a Contract?

This post is part of an effort to provide a glossary for novice submissives of words commonly seen across this site and in the BDSM community. A contract is a written document between two or more parties. They are typically NOT legally binding. In a D/s relationship contracts are used to outline the specifics of [...]

5 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: BDSM Glossary

Using Contracts in D/s Relationships

Contracts are a sticky subject in discussions. I’ve briefly covered it before in this article. The opinions are all over the place as far as their value or use as a tool for relationships. I can understand why they are a common thread in forums all over the place. A contract is a physical document outlining the [...]

3 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Relationships
What You Need To Know About Using Contracts to Negotiate a Relationship

What You Need To Know About Using Contracts to Negotiate a Relationship

When you get married, you have to legally sign a document attesting to your decision to be married. The legal document can come in many forms but most have a brief section about what each party declares for the union, how they will treat each other and how commitment will be displayed (change of names [...]

2 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Relationships, Rituals and Routines

Can I Be Abused in a BDSM Relationship?

This week’s video post is about BDSM vs. Abuse. A BDSM relationship, especially one with sadomasochistic moments, is subject to questions all the time about it’s proximity to abuse. It is not uncommon to have people unfamiliar with BDSM to say that what we do is abuse and violence; we see it all the time [...]

2 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: BDSM Fundamentals, Safety, Video Posts

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