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Why BDSM and Tantric Massage Are a Match Made in Heaven

Why BDSM and Tantric Massage Are a Match Made in Heaven

The fusing of BDSM and tantric massage has taken sexual energy to greater heights, and for many, it’s an experience that’s more satisfying than anything encountered before.

2 comments Posted by Guest Author | Posted in: Play and Sex

How to Access Sub Space

Sub-Space is very similar to other trancelike conditions which are practiced worldwide under names such as prayer, meditation and hypnosis or regression. Here’s a step by step for how you can try to get there.

2 comments Posted by Guest Author | Posted in: Mindset, Play and Sex
5 Ways Rituals Enhance Your Relationship with Yourself and Your Dynamic

5 Ways Rituals Enhance Your Relationship with Yourself and Your Dynamic

Every relationship can be enhanced by ritual and also every person in the exchange can get something from ritual. It’s not hard to get started either.

1 comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Newsletter Archive, Rituals and Routines
Defining Sub Space

Defining Sub Space

Mistress Steel breaks down the many levels of subspace, as she sees them, and how to navigate them in play.

1 comment Posted by Guest Author | Posted in: Beginner Basics
But I Don’t Like Pain! Learning to See the Eroticism in Pain as Pleasure

But I Don’t Like Pain! Learning to See the Eroticism in Pain as Pleasure

I can show you that pain is indeed something erotic when used correctly and in the right situations. Pain doesn’t have to be painful, and other stimuli can be pleasurable and can either mask pain or enhance it.

2 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Newsletter Archive, Play and Sex
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Feeling Down After a Play Session? You Could Have Sub Drop

As the day progressed, I felt sadder. I had trouble focusing on what I needed to do and confusion because we just shared some really great time together – what did I have to be sad about?

8 comments Posted by moonlight | Posted in: Play and Sex
Finding Your Way to a Genuine Self

Finding Your Way to a Genuine Self

My genuine, real self was in there and when I embraced the whole of me again I was able to coexist with the world.

2 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Mindset, Newsletter Archive
I Need More Rules, But I Don’t Know What to Suggest

I Need More Rules, But I Don’t Know What to Suggest

I told my Dom I needed more to do, as far rules, responsibilities etc.. what are some good things for me to do?

Comments Off Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything
Connecting With Your Dominant While They Are Away

Connecting With Your Dominant While They Are Away

Things you can do to feel closer to your Dominant and help fuel the connection you have when they can not be with you.

3 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Beginner Basics, Relationships
The Longing of Being Owned

The Longing of Being Owned

I think realizing your true calling with the one you want to serve is one of the greatest feelings any slave or submissive can feel.

10 comments Posted by tequilarose | Posted in: Beginner Basics
Submitting in a Long Distance Relationship: The Big Meet

Submitting in a Long Distance Relationship: The Big Meet

The first meeting with the person that you’ve begun to build an emotional bond with can be a pretty daunting prospect. Here are a couple of tips and suggestions that will help you during your planning process and throughout your time together.

5 comments Posted by kallista | Posted in: Beginner Basics, Relationships, Safety
Enhance Your Sex and BDSM Play with Rituals in the Bedroom

Enhance Your Sex and BDSM Play with Rituals in the Bedroom

If you’ve ever thought that ritual and meditation was for full-time submissives only or those in committed relationships then you haven’t broadened your thinking enough. It’s not just the full-time “lifestyle” submissives that can benefit from rituals, rules, and protocols in their lives. Submissives that dabble in the bedroom only have a lot they can do to enhance their experience in play and sex with their partner.

1 comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Personal Growth

Chat Night Transcript – Dominant Aftercare

from the Submissive Guide Chat held 7/09/13 on Aftercare for Dominants [20:10] <~lunaKM> Hello and welcome to another chat night here on Submissive Guide. Please feel free to talk about the subject whenever a thought comes to mind, this is not a moderated talk and you do not have to ask permission to speak or [...]

Comments Off Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Roundtable Discussions
Submitting in a Long Distance Relationship: Introduction

Submitting in a Long Distance Relationship: Introduction

Since the popularization of cyberspace, the practitioners of the community have been locked in a stalemate debate: do long distance D/s relationships really work? There are a great many arguments for and against the validity of long distance relationships—many of which are compelling in one way or another.

11 comments Posted by kallista | Posted in: Beginner Basics, Online Submission
The Role of a Collar in a Long Distance D/s Relationship

The Role of a Collar in a Long Distance D/s Relationship

Wearing a collar is not just a way to signify to myself and others that I have given myself to another person, it’s a way to comfort myself when I’m feeling alone and to reassure myself on the days when I don’t feel actively submissive.

2 comments Posted by kallista | Posted in: Beginner Basics, Online Submission
How to Safely Manage Sub Frenzy

How to Safely Manage Sub Frenzy

How to manage sub frenzy so that it leaves you smarter, stronger and more prepared to handle the rush.

5 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Beginner Basics
Male Submission – Fantasy vs Reality

Male Submission – Fantasy vs Reality

Many submissive men have fantasies which have been developed over many years, sometimes leading to a focus on extreme and/or specific situations despite not having experienced anything. This may lead to misunderstandings with potential partners between fantasies and actual desires as the sub man may not even be able to recognize the difference at first.

25 comments Posted by ted_subby | Posted in: Male Submission

What is a Collar? What Does it Mean to be Collared?

This post is part of an effort to provide a glossary for novice submissives of words commonly seen across this site and in the BDSM community. A common question with novices is what is being collared, what does it mean? Is it like a wedding ring or something more? Something different altogether? First, some basic [...]

22 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: BDSM Glossary

[Video Post] How To Help Your Dominant Through Dom Drop

How do you care for a Dom/Master who is suffering dom drop? What should a sub do to help them through this? It seems that they get reclusive. Is this normal?

6 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything, Video Posts
Submissive Advent – Day 7: Random Acts of Kindness

Submissive Advent – Day 7: Random Acts of Kindness

As submissives we often forget that helping others also feeds our need to submit.

6 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Advent Calendar
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