By Rayne on March 8, 2010
This month is March Question Month, and Trinity asked: Does one know how to obtain collars that do not look like collars..so one can be worn at all time with out so called vanilla’s asking about it…? When people think of collars, they usually picture something an animal would wear. Supple leather with a big [...]
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By lunaKM on January 2, 2010
This week’s video post is about velcro collars. To submissives, a collar is one of the most important things they have. It is a symbol of their commitment, their service and their adoration of a special someone. In most situations, the offering or begging of a collar is not taken lightly. The weight of the [...]
Posted in Video Posts | Tagged begging, cheapen, collars, commitment, community, cons, disposable, Dom, dominant, dominants, experience, hands, Impact, important things, lifetime, marriage, mates, online, opinion, partners, relationship, Relationships, rt, rules, Service, submissive, symbolism, value, velcro collars |
By lunaKM on October 23, 2009
Gather around the table everyone, I’d like to learn about something I don’t know a lot about. I welcome you to add your thoughts and comments to this post and if you feel an inclination, send me a guest post letting me know what you think. This month I’d like to talk about body modification [...]
Posted in Roundtable Discussions | Tagged BDSM, body modification, branding, collars, commitment, guest post, inclination, marks, permanent marks, piercing, relationship, Relationships, risk, scarring, submission, tattoos |
By lunaKM on July 21, 2009
After the invitation has been recieved and you decide to go comes a moment of panic for many submissives. What do you wear to a play party? As with everything here, take these as suggestions and ideas for your own wardrobe. All parties are not created equal and be sure to find out if you [...]
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![The Meaning Of Collars [Poll Results]](http://www.submissiveguide.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/06/Comfort-Fit-Wedding-Ring-in-Platinum-1-150x150.jpg)
By lunaKM on July 2, 2009
Last week I asked you to tell me how important your collar is to you and the meaning of it in your relationship. The poll is now closed and the results are posted below. I got several comments and a few emails telling me that my poll was too vague and didn’t cover all the [...]
Posted in BDSM Basics | Tagged collars, cons, email, importance of collar, marriage, meaning of collar, poll, relationship, rt, surrender, symbolism |
By lunaKM on June 30, 2009
Places to buy a collar are numerous. Each relationship has a different idea of what the collar should look like. Listed below are a few of the many places you can go online to shop for that perfect collar. I’ve broken them up into types of collars the store offers. If they offer more than [...]
Posted in BDSM Basics, Playtime | Tagged BDSM, Bondage, collars, D/s, dreams, gags, Gor, leather, leather collars, metal collars, online, online stores, relationship, restraints, rt, rubber, shopping, slave, special collars, toy, types of collars, websites |
By lunaKM on June 25, 2009
A physical reminder of your D/s relationship is a collar. As you have read it can come in many different forms. I’d like to know what is its importance to you? Could you please answer the following poll? I’ll post the results next week. Thanks!
Posted in Submission | Tagged collars, D/s, importance of collar, poll, relationship, relationship value, rt, symbols |
By lunaKM on June 17, 2009
A collar for submissives is one of the most fundamental symbols of their relationship and one that is usually gaurded and protected with their heart. With all the essays online about collars I thought I’d jump in with my own take on what everyone says and believes about collars. Play Collars The first type of [...]
Posted in BDSM Basics, Relationships | Tagged BDSM, bdsm play, cheapen, collar of consideration, collaring, collars, commitment, cons, desires, Dom, dominant, essays, experience, formal collar, leather, levels of collars, lifestyle, memories, online, permanent collar, pictures of collars, piercing, play, player, progress, RACK, relationship, rt, share, slave collar, stress, submissive, symbolism, symbols, tattoos, training, training collar, types of collars, value, velcro collars |
By lunaKM on April 15, 2009
Today’s post comes from Skylerpet, a submissive pet in a D/s relationship who volunteered to write an essay for me after seeing the Weekly Tips on YouTube. Thank you Skylerpet! Pet play is one of the most unique, one of the least known and in my opinion one of the most fun and entertaining sub-cultures [...]
Posted in Playtime, Relationships | Tagged 24/7, BDSM, begging, Bondage, bow, chat, collars, communication, cons, D/s, Dom, dominant, email, experience, female, focus, Gor, hands, help, human animals, human pet, learning, lifestyle, movement, needs, opinion, owned, pet play, pets, play, protocol, punishment, questions, relationship, role play, rt, rules, safe, Safety, scene, sex, short, skylerpet, slave, stress, submission, submissive, switch, tall, tips, toy, toys, training, tricks, writing |
By lunaKM on March 17, 2009
This week’s video tip is about collars. Collars are a commonly discussed topic in BDSM. There is a wide range of information and opposing viewpoints on a lot of ideas surrounding collars and collaring. One of the ideas I’d like to cover today is the idea that a collar means more than a wedding ring [...]
Posted in BDSM Basics, Video Posts | Tagged BDSM, cheapen, collaring, collars, commitment, discussion, Dom, dominant, information, online, play, relationship, Relationships, rt, symbols, value, velcro collars, viewpoints |
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