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A Symbol for Dominants?

A Symbol for Dominants?

The collar you wear is a reminder of your submission and your relationship with your Dominant. It can mean the same as a wedding ring or that you are submissive to them for a certain period of time. More often than not, the Dominant is the one who gave you that collar. But is there [...]

3 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Relationships
Expectations of a Collar: How Ready Are You to Accept One?

Expectations of a Collar: How Ready Are You to Accept One?

from the Submissive Guide Newsletter 6-21-14 I wear a collar. I’ve worn a collar for 8 years. It’s been a long time since I’ve had to ponder the initial steps into receiving a collar and to be honest, I’m glad. It’s a lot easier once you have one to keep it than it is to [...]

2 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Newsletter Archive, Relationships
Ask lunaKM – How do I ask to be collared?

Ask lunaKM – How do I ask to be collared?

Hello there! There is no “proper manner” for asking for a collar. It’s not a common expectation in the BDSM community. Some Dominants require that the submissive ask to be collared, others insist that it’s their responsibility to ask if the submissive wants to be collared by them. If you are familiar with John Norman’s [...]

2 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything
Weekend Giveaway: Miss Kitten Slave Collar by Beautifully Bound (1 Winner)

Weekend Giveaway: Miss Kitten Slave Collar by Beautifully Bound (1 Winner)

Look at what we have for one lucky winner this week! Sully Bear and her Sir, owners of Beautifully Bound have graciously donated this Miss Kitten slave collar to one lucky Submissive Guide winner! Enter now for your chance to win a Miss Kitten slave collar from Beautifully Bound! Beautifully Bound makes luxury hand made [...]

Leave a comment Posted by tequilarose | Posted in: Views & More...
Ask lunaKM – Consideration Periods, Apologetic Sympathy and Sub in the Bedroom – Equal in Everything Else

Ask lunaKM – Consideration Periods, Apologetic Sympathy and Sub in the Bedroom – Equal in Everything Else

Hi lunaKM, I’m semi new to m/s relationships and my new dom and i have been together for a month now. I wanted to know how long does a consideration period last, and should I wait for him to bring up being collared? We agreed to take it slow but we are still very much [...]

1 comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything
lunaKM’s Weekend Reflections

lunaKM’s Weekend Reflections

Next week KnyghtMare spends 4 days at froggyKM’s house. It will be a long time for me to be alone and definitely different for me since I’ve rarely been alone since KnyghtMare and I started dating. I’m looking forward to it but I know I’ll miss him terribly too. I’ve decided to try and focus [...]

Leave a comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Weekend Reflections
The Role of a Collar in a Long Distance Relationship

The Role of a Collar in a Long Distance Relationship

Welcome kallista to Submissive Guide contributors! It’s no secret that having a working long distance relationship is a challenge, even under the most traditional circumstances, but when the dynamics of your relationship are dependent upon the delicate balance of give and take between Dominant and submissive, the potential challenges that you face increase tenfold. When [...]

1 comment Posted by kallista | Posted in: Learn to Submit, Online Submission
The Ring and the Collar

The Ring and the Collar

I am a product of the 80’s, which I think is the greatest decade, ever. I may be a bit partial with my thinking. The music, television, and especially the movies is what makes the 80’s such a memorable decade. One of my favorite movies from that era is “The Princess Bride”. To me, that’s [...]

4 comments Posted by tequilarose | Posted in: Relationships
Talking Shop – Tips for Purchasing BDSM Toys

Talking Shop – Tips for Purchasing BDSM Toys

On my own blog I’ve recently been reviewing various BDSM toy suppliers that I’ve used but I thought it would be interesting to write a guide on how to choose what to buy and where to buy it from and what sort of factors that should be considered during the joys of shopping! Who makes [...]

Leave a comment Posted by thisgirl | Posted in: Learn to Submit

What is a Collar? What Does it Mean to be Collared?

This post is part of an effort to provide a glossary for novice submissives of words commonly seen across this site and in the BDSM community. A common question with novices is what is being collared, what does it mean? Is it like a wedding ring or something more? Something different altogether? First, some basic [...]

21 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: BDSM Glossary
lunaKM’s Weekend Reflections

lunaKM’s Weekend Reflections

This week was a very long week for me. If you know about my personal journey I’m currently in trouble and have had my entertainment privileges revoked until next week. It wasn’t such a bad thing when I was working to complete Nanowrimo, but this week was so hard since I had nothing on my [...]

1 comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Weekend Reflections
What It Means to be Collared

What It Means to be Collared

If you need to learn more about collars before reading this post, I suggest What is a Collar? What does it mean to be collared? It can mean many things to many different people. For some it is a new beginning in a journey. For others it is a step in the training process. It [...]

14 comments Posted by LadySneak | Posted in: Relationships

What is a Collar?

This post is part of an effort to provide a glossary for novice submissives of words commonly seen across this site and in the BDSM community. Considered by some to be the greatest symbol of their surrender, a collar is the outward symbol of their status as someone’s property. Collars are worn to denote submissiveness [...]

1 comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: BDSM Glossary
lunaKM’s Weekend Reflections

lunaKM’s Weekend Reflections

I hope everyone’s holidays went well. It was nice to take a break from things and focus on what’s right in front of me for awhile, but I’m back! This week I’ve been busy with my resolutions and keeping things organized for Master. I have hopes that the way I’m feeling now are going to [...]

Leave a comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Weekend Reflections
A Day in the Life: DarlingDoll

A Day in the Life: DarlingDoll

This is part of the A Day in the Life Series. Thanks DarlingDoll! I am a brat. I am a mouthy loud-mouthed impatient bent kinky little brat who has gone through phase after phase to amuse myself with one constant. My Daddy. Together he and I have shared tattoos, shaved heads, pink Mohawk’s, and blue [...]

3 comments Posted by Guest Author | Posted in: Learn to Submit
Chat Night Transcript from BDSM with Kids at Home Chat

Chat Night Transcript from BDSM with Kids at Home Chat

Not every chat is logged, however when a topic really gets interesting I ask for permission to post our conversation on the website. Even if you missed the chat, take a look at what was said in your absence. (8:14:10 PM) lunaKM: Welcome to tonight’s topic: BDSM with kids at home. Tonight we will be [...]

3 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Views & More...

Chat Night Transcript for Collars and Collaring Ceremonies Discussion

I’ve had a few requests to see the transcript of this chat night. I apologize for taking so long to post it! This is the chat discussion from 3/1/11 (8:12:56 PM) lunaKM: It’s so nice to have so many people here tonight! (8:13:23 PM) lunaKM: Now as with all of my chat nights, there’s no [...]

1 comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Views & More...

Research Page: Collaring and Ceremonies

Just like the other research pages, this is my collection of links that I’ve put together as I read and researched a topic. Today’s topic is collaring and collaring ceremonies. I hope you enjoy. If you have other links, please share them in the comments! Collaring at Souls Haven Collaring Ceremony Pictures of Rick and [...]

Leave a comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Relationships, Research Pages
Symbols of Ownership

Symbols of Ownership

After my last post on value which was about ownership and the transaction where my Master ‘bought’ me, someone emailed me to enquire about further ways ownership can be demonstrated and felt by the two people concerned. It really is a very personal thing. What means ownership to me might not be the same as [...]

6 comments Posted by thisgirl | Posted in: Learn to Submit

A Collar by Any Other Name…

This month is March Question Month, and Trinity asked: Does one know how to obtain collars that do not look like collars..so one can be worn at all time with out so called vanilla’s asking about it…? When people think of collars, they usually picture something an animal would wear.  Supple leather with a big [...]

8 comments Posted by Rayne Millaray | Posted in: Learn to Submit
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