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Keys to a Successful Relationship: Trust is Like a Mirror…

Keys to a Successful Relationship: Trust is Like a Mirror…

Trust is an extremely important factor in the lifestyle, and not just in the bedroom. You can’t have the trust in the bedroom if you don’t have the trust outside of the bedroom.

2 comments Posted by tequilarose | Posted in: Beginner Basics
Keys to a Successful Relationship – Honesty is Really the Best Policy

Keys to a Successful Relationship – Honesty is Really the Best Policy

Once I started delving into the realm of BDSM, I learned that honesty is a key factor in having a successful M/s or D/s relationship. Because of the different levels of intensity that can be factored into a lifestyle based relationship, one not only has to be completely honest with their partner but with themselves as well.

2 comments Posted by tequilarose | Posted in: Beginner Basics

Chat Night Transcript from Pervertables Talk with FroggyKM

Chat night transcript from the Pervertables Chat with froggyKM on  7/16/13 froggyKM: ok lets get things started! Hello and welcome to another chat night here on Submissive Guide. Please feel free to talk about the subject whenever a thought comes to mind, this is not a moderated talk and you do not have to ask [...]

1 comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Views & More...

After the Scene is Over – Clean-up, Aftercare, and Check-Ins

Submissive Guide has a lot of resources on clean up, aftercare and check-ins that get lost in the archives. I’ve pulled together what I have here, as well as all over the web to make this a comprehensive post for all things “after the scene”. Bookmark it, share it, use it.

Comments Off Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Play and Sex, Safety
Rules for the Working Sub

Rules for the Working Sub

It was difficult to find any information about balancing my professional life with my submissive desires, so this article is dedicated to the people who, like me, wish to explore the D/s relationship dynamic and continue to work in the professional world.

3 comments Posted by kallista | Posted in: Beginner Basics
How to Safely Manage Sub Frenzy

How to Safely Manage Sub Frenzy

How to manage sub frenzy so that it leaves you smarter, stronger and more prepared to handle the rush.

5 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Beginner Basics
Learn How to Nourish Yourself, Your Relationship and Your Submission

Learn How to Nourish Yourself, Your Relationship and Your Submission

Like anything else, one has to learn to go with the flow and take the highs with the lows. I hope that any beginners, and even those who are well experienced will continue the sometimes rocky journey despite the aspects of the lifestyle that can destroy and fully embrace the aspects of the lifestyle that can nourish it.

4 comments Posted by tequilarose | Posted in: Beginner Basics
Bootblacking and Why I Love It

Bootblacking and Why I Love It

The thing for me which is so very wonderful about polishing Master’s shoes is that it is something that I can do on my own to show Master how much I am thinking about him. My focus is always on what I can do in order to make Master’s life better.

1 comment Posted by Guest Author | Posted in: Talents and Skills
Submissive Advent – Day 7: Random Acts of Kindness

Submissive Advent – Day 7: Random Acts of Kindness

As submissives we often forget that helping others also feeds our need to submit.

6 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Advent Calendar
I’m a Rebellious Teen, Can I Be Submissive?

I’m a Rebellious Teen, Can I Be Submissive?

My question: Am I really a submissive with all these rebellious tendencies or is just fantasy and affection for me?

Comments Off Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything

Points to Negotiate in Your D/s Contact That May Not Have Ever Occurred to You

We all put a huge amount of thought into our contacts-or we should. But there are often times that things arise and we have no way of predicting them.

5 comments Posted by LaneyDoll | Posted in: Relationships
How to Serve a Self-Sufficient Dominant

How to Serve a Self-Sufficient Dominant

It’s far harder to serve a self-sufficient Dominant because they want to do everything themselves. It is not impossible though.

5 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Service
Fictional Stories of Male Submission

Fictional Stories of Male Submission

I have read several hundred fictional stories of male submission and here are my favorite stories and authors in no particular order.

6 comments Posted by ted_subby | Posted in: Male Submission
Initiating a Discussion About BDSM Interest with a Vanilla Partner: Part 3- My Partner is Interested!

Initiating a Discussion About BDSM Interest with a Vanilla Partner: Part 3- My Partner is Interested!

Your partner has reacted to the revelation of your BDSM desires in a positive way or at least is willing to participate. Congratulations! This is a huge first step.

3 comments Posted by ted_subby | Posted in: Relationships
Domestic Duties | How I Make The Bed

Domestic Duties | How I Make The Bed

You don’t have to be a perfectionist to have a tidy bed. A well-made bed in the morning will make it more inviting to curl up into at the end of the day. Your bed will say nice and clean and be an inviting haven for sleep.

8 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Domestics
22 Deal Breakers that May Be Preventing A Dominant from Approaching You

22 Deal Breakers that May Be Preventing A Dominant from Approaching You

I realized that I had often heard those complaints/observations-and from people who truly seemed like they would be a great catch. Then I started to think more about it and wondered if they (like all of us) had displayed behaviors that others would declare to be a “deal breaker.”

7 comments Posted by LaneyDoll | Posted in: Relationships
An Introduction to Body Service

An Introduction to Body Service

One of the more intimate ways that we submissives can serve our Dominants is by learning and performing grooming duties usually left to themselves to do.

A Day in the Life: fuzzyP

A Day in the Life: fuzzyP

This is a guest post by fuzzyP for the Day in the Life Series.

3 comments Posted by Guest Author | Posted in: Male Submission
It’s Not Over Until The Fat Lady Sings AKA The Ending Of A D/s Relationship

It’s Not Over Until The Fat Lady Sings AKA The Ending Of A D/s Relationship

In a nutshell, my submission had gone stale and moldy like a piece of bread that had fallen between the fridge and the sink. At this point it also really sunk in that I was not a failure as a submissive and it was going to be okay.

4 comments Posted by bgtreasure | Posted in: Beginner Basics, Personal Growth, Relationships
Embarrassment vs. Humiliation – One Opinion

Embarrassment vs. Humiliation – One Opinion

fuzzyP breaks down what he sees as the differences in embarrassment and humiliation. Do you agree with his assessment?

3 comments Posted by Guest Author | Posted in: Play and Sex
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