By lunaKM on September 2, 2010
It’s time again for another chat night here at Submissive Guide. I’d welcome everyone to come on in Tuesday 9/7 for a bit of conversation. The topic is going to be free chat. Anything and everything can be discussed. Please come with questions or a curiosity about Dominant/submissive relationships. Info When: 9/7/10 8 PM CST [...]
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By lunaKM on September 11, 2009
Gather around the table everyone, I’d like to learn about something I don’t know a lot about. I welcome you to add your thoughts and comments to this post and if you feel an inclination, send me a guest post letting me know what you think. This month we are talking the Gorean Lifestyle. I’d [...]
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By lunaKM on August 21, 2009
This month’s book review is of one of the books I gave away in the July Book Contest. The New Bottoming Book by Dossie Easton and Janet W. Hardy (formerly Lady Green) is a great beginner’s guide to bottoming. According to the authors, this “new version” contains much of the original advice, like “connecting” and [...]
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By lunaKM on August 10, 2009
Each and every day there is the chance to scew up and be disobedient. Luckily, most of us won’t break rules every single day but when we do we know that punishment will come swiftly and precisely. That is, unless you are an online submissive. Then there are a few other steps to having punishment [...]
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By lunaKM on May 19, 2009
This week’s video is about online training and submission. The world of online Dominance and submission is riddled with skepticism and disbelief that anyone can really live and enjoy a relationship online. The fact of it all is that there are an endless numbers of people experiencing a form of D/s called cyber D/s. Whether [...]
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By lunaKM on May 13, 2009
There is now a chat room on this website. You can find it under the Resources link or by clicking on this link. I’ll be starting discussion nights in June and am looking for a few submissives that would like to host chat nights as well. Guest hosted chat nights would need to be at [...]
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For Chat Room in a new window Click here Submissive Guide will begin holding twice monthly chat nights on Tuesdays at 8 PM Central Time. You are free to use this chat room whenever you’d like. It’s always open. Hang around and see who comes to visit! If you use an IRC client, you can [...]
By lunaKM on March 4, 2009
“What one has not experienced, one will never understand in print.” -Isadora Duncan I began my journey into D/s and BDSM in online chat rooms; namely those on IRC (BDSM-Net and Bondage.com). I knew nothing of what the lifestyle would be for me, only the fantasy that I lived when I got home from class [...]
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By lunaKM on February 25, 2009
Since the advent of the internet and the birth of BDSM online there has been slash speak. Slash speak is a protocol established by online dominants for their submissives to decern who’s on top and who’s on bottom. It’s said to be a form of respect for those online. For those of us who don’t [...]
Posted in Online Submission | Tagged BDSM, bottom, chat, chat room, chat rooms, common sense, Dom, dominant, dominants, dress, experience, internet, online, online experiences, online play, play, player, protocol, relationship, rt, slash speak, submissive |
This area has submissive resources that will help you with your developing submission and the growth and enhancement of your relationship with yourself. Links There are links to other interesting sites all over the internet with information important to different facets of your submissive life. Explore them and learn something about your submission. View the [...]
By lunaKM on February 18, 2009
As a novice submissive in this technology age you typically explore submission online in chat room and in instant messaging. There is nothing wrong with this avenue for dipping your toe in the water. There are, however, very real dangers that predators use to capture novices and can do more harm to your curiosity than [...]
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By lunaKM on February 4, 2009
I was asked in email for some help from a girl that was confused about the information she was given by submissives bent on giving her ‘good’ advice. She’s been happy in a relationship with her Dominant and while they live a D/s life she’s always seeking more advice on the right way to do [...]
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