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9 Books on BDSM and D/s I’ve Read More Than Once (They’re THAT Good!)

9 Books on BDSM and D/s I’ve Read More Than Once (They’re THAT Good!)

You have to admit that the books that resonate with you the most, are ones you’ve read more than once. Here’s my list of 9 of the best BDSM and D/s related books that I’ve pulled off the shelf time and time again.

3 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Beginner Basics, Reviews
31 Days of Submissive Journaling – Day 31: Q&A, Resources and Further Reading

31 Days of Submissive Journaling – Day 31: Q&A, Resources and Further Reading

Frequent questions and some further resources to up your submissive journaling. This is the end of the 31 Days to Submissive Journaling Series.

Comments Off Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: 31 Days of Submissive Journaling
Book Review: BDSM-The Naked Truth by Dr. Charley Ferrer

Book Review: BDSM-The Naked Truth by Dr. Charley Ferrer

When Dr. Charley Ferrer stated that she is one of the world’s leading experts on BDSM, I had to check out and see what she had to say about the lifestyle. Here’s my critical review.

1 comment Posted by tequilarose | Posted in: Beginner Basics, Reviews, Views & More...
Polyamory Resources From Around the Web

Polyamory Resources From Around the Web

I hope people who are interested in exploring polyamorous relationships find this list of resources helpful.

Comments Off Posted by tequilarose | Posted in: Personal Growth, Relationships, Research Pages
Book Review: Haven of Obedience

Book Review: Haven of Obedience

The book is almost purely fluff; if you keep that in mind, it’s a fun diversion.

Comments Off Posted by pinksubgeek | Posted in: Reviews
Book Review: Processing Pain in Play

Book Review: Processing Pain in Play

This is a great book if you’re wanting to learn how to process pain better during play and is worth its weight in gold.

Comments Off Posted by tequilarose | Posted in: Play and Sex, Reviews

The Top 3 Books I Recommend to Everyone New to BDSM

I’ve taken some of the guesswork out of it for you by providing you the top 3 books I recommend to everyone new to BDSM. The only thing you have to do is figure out which one you want to buy first!

1 comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Reviews
Book Review: Conquer Me

Book Review: Conquer Me

I would highly recommend this book for any women new to the submissive lifestyle. The writing is very personal and not clinical.

Comments Off Posted by Guest Author | Posted in: Reviews
Ask lunaKM – Fear of Losing Yourself, Poor Contact Frequency and Sending Nude Pictures

Ask lunaKM – Fear of Losing Yourself, Poor Contact Frequency and Sending Nude Pictures

Dear lunaKM, My husband and I have been playing in the BDSM lifestyle for several months now.  I love the idea of this but have always had a strong personality.  I love to please him and want to be a good submissive to him but I fear losing myself or for it to go too [...]

3 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything
Broken Vows: When Vanilla Marriage Falls Apart Because of Kink

Broken Vows: When Vanilla Marriage Falls Apart Because of Kink

Ending the marriage was one of the hardest decisions I had to face. I still loved him, he was a great guy and we had fun together. I don’t recommend divorce as the solution to all bedroom problems but let me share what steps we took before a divorce was my final solution.

41 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Relationships
Ask lunaKM – New Kink Relationship, Seeking Daddy Doms and Resources to Help Those Coming Out Kinky

Ask lunaKM – New Kink Relationship, Seeking Daddy Doms and Resources to Help Those Coming Out Kinky

Dear lunaKM, I just met a man that is a dom, I am very interested in this lifestyle but also VERY new to it. We are both interested in each other and are both looking for a vanilla life outside the bedroom. My question is how do I start a relationship without jumping in bed [...]

1 comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything

Chat Night Transcript from Pervertables Talk with FroggyKM

Chat night transcript from the Pervertables Chat with froggyKM on  7/16/13 froggyKM: ok lets get things started! Hello and welcome to another chat night here on Submissive Guide. Please feel free to talk about the subject whenever a thought comes to mind, this is not a moderated talk and you do not have to ask [...]

1 comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Views & More...
Using a Slave Journal – It’s Not What You Think!

Using a Slave Journal – It’s Not What You Think!

The Slave Journal is a log of command, instructions, and requests from the Dominant. When they ask for you to do something, you write it down. Things like new rules, mention that they prefer Charmin toilet paper or that they love the red dress you wore the other night.

18 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Service, Training Resume
Help! I Need to Learn to Swear to Please My Dominant

Help! I Need to Learn to Swear to Please My Dominant

I have never been a cusser. Never. But Sir really likes it. He is wonderfully patient with me, and disciplines as seems fit…but I am hoping that there is some advice to help me become more “natural” with the language. Is there some “bad language” cheat sheet that I could study?

1 comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything, Play and Sex
The Most Popular and Favorite Books on BDSM – According to Our Readers

The Most Popular and Favorite Books on BDSM – According to Our Readers

The following is a compilation of the most purchased BDSM-related books on Amazon – by our community.

Comments Off Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Beginner Basics
Daddy’s Little Girl – Exploring the Ageplay Dynamic

Daddy’s Little Girl – Exploring the Ageplay Dynamic

Being in a Daddy/little or Mommy/little relationship is about a very intimate bond between two consenting adults.

28 comments Posted by tequilarose | Posted in: Beginner Basics, Community, Relationships
How Do I Know What I Like? I’m Brand New

How Do I Know What I Like? I’m Brand New

We more experienced people do have a habit of looking at new people funny when they don’t know what they are into. I think we forget that we were there once, that we floundered and stuttered when asked if we liked bondage or spanking, or if we were a Dominant or submissive. So, hopefully, we’ll learn from this little article too – that we were there once.

2 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Beginner Basics, Newsletter Archive
Book Review: Playing Well with Others

Book Review: Playing Well with Others

This book by Lee Harrington and Mollena Williams is the quintessential guide for novices and seasoned players ready to enter the BDSM community. No other book like this exists so it’s a great addition to your personal kink library.

4 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Reviews
“Becoming a Slave” Book Conflict and Questions

“Becoming a Slave” Book Conflict and Questions

I have been “asked” by the One I hope will someday be my Master to read “Becoming A Slave”. this book has presented a lot of problems for me in that now I am questioning slavery vs. bottoming.

Comments Off Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything
Dealing With Anger As a Submissive

Dealing With Anger As a Submissive

Everyone handles anger and frustration differently, but I think most would agree that the best way to deal with anger is to cool off before saying or doing something you will regret later on.

6 comments Posted by selkie | Posted in: Relationships
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