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31 Days of Submissive Journaling: Day 20 – 4 Ways to Find Topics for your Submissive Blog

31 Days of Submissive Journaling: Day 20 – 4 Ways to Find Topics for your Submissive Blog

Brainstorming, reading other sources, writing from another perspective and responding to readers are 4 ways you can come up with things to write about on your blog.

31 Days of Submissive Journaling: Day 16 – Should You Try to Make Money with Your Blog?

31 Days of Submissive Journaling: Day 16 – Should You Try to Make Money with Your Blog?

A blog may feel like easy money, but making the decision to put ads on your blog may have a negative effect and might not even be allowed by your blog host. Knowing the facts and making a decision before you begin is an important step in creating your blog.

Male submission – Financial Domination

Male submission – Financial Domination

Financial Domination is an area of BDSM which often elicits strong opinions. With other BDSM activities such as spanking and bondage, at some point after the Safe, Sane, and Consensual scene is over there is no damage done and things are typically physically back to the way they were. However, if a sub’s money is [...]

24 comments Posted by ted_subby | Posted in: Male Submission, Relationships
How to Safely Manage Sub Frenzy

How to Safely Manage Sub Frenzy

When I realized that my previous article on Sub Frenzy didn’t give you any advice on how to tackle it head on I knew I just had to get an article to you about how to manage sub frenzy so that it leaves you smarter, stronger and more prepared to handle the rush. What is [...]

5 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Beginner Basics
Separating Fantasy from Reality – Using Erotic Novels to Find Truth

Separating Fantasy from Reality – Using Erotic Novels to Find Truth

From the Submissive Guide Newsletter 10/6/12 On the heels of “50 Shades of Grey” fame, there are a lot of new and curious people exploring BDSM than there has been in a long time. For the many people who encounter this site through a search they may have their fantasies dashed by reading about the [...]

1 comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Community, Newsletter Archive
Submissive Advent – Day 24: Spirit of Submission

Submissive Advent – Day 24: Spirit of Submission

Today is the final day of the Submissive Advent Calendar. If you missed yesterday’s post you can go back to that now, or rewind all the way to the beginning. You can also read the introduction post. “There are a hundred ways to kneel and kiss the ground.” – Rumi This quote has been used in many ways [...]

2 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Advent Calendar
Learning About BDSM on YouTube.com

Learning About BDSM on YouTube.com

From the Submissive Guide Newsletter 8/18/12 When I first started recording video posts to put on YouTube I didn’t think any BDSM information could be found there, and in fact, thought that my videos would be taken down as soon as they went up. That hasn’t been the case and I’m thrilled about that. But [...]

Research Page: Domestic Discipline

One of the easier topics for me to research has been Domestic Discipline. There is so much information out there of all types on this sort of relationship. Much of it is terrible. I’ve weeded through a lot of misunderstandings to get to the truth. Here’s what I’ve learned. Domestic Discipline is the practice between [...]

4 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Relationships, Research Pages

Adjusting to Stay at Home Life When You Used to Have a Job

From the Submissive Guide Newsletter 1-21-12 We can all probably say that we have dreamed of not having to work for a living. It may even be your dream to be a stay at home submissive but don’t see that ever happening for you. There are a few of us, like myself, who get to [...]

11 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Beginner Basics, Newsletter Archive, Service

BDSM and D/s Blogs You Should Check Out

Now that I’ve been busy with my own blog I thought it was time to showcase some of the blogs that I’ve come across and either read or know about. I recommend that if you visit any of these blogs that you let them know you found them through here. You might find a friend [...]

18 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Beginner Basics
Submissive Blog Hop Challenge #1 | 25 Things

Submissive Blog Hop Challenge #1 | 25 Things

One of the things that people love most about this site is gaining new knowledge and viewpoints.  I have taken it upon myselves to organize a day to take place once a month that will encourage bloggers to challenge themselves and explore their submissive choices! Who All of Submissive Guide readers who enjoy challenging themselves and [...]

7 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Personal Growth
With the Stroke of a Cane: Enjoying Caning

With the Stroke of a Cane: Enjoying Caning

This is a guest post by Nadia West for the BDSM activities series. I’m fairly new to caning, but I’ve discovered that I like it a lot (even if I can’t take as much as some people can). I was afraid of canes for a long time because I had heard they’re rough pain-wise. While [...]

17 comments Posted by Guest Author | Posted in: BDSM Fundamentals

The Top 30 Posts of 2009

A year ago I started a small blog project called Submissive Guide. I wanted it to be an organized place where I could voice my opinions about submission, help novices discover who they are and explore BDSM through the written word. Since that time it has grown to so much more, including an e-book, a [...]

Leave a comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Views & More...

SubWise #5: A Year’s Reflection

Last week I asked you to talk about your reflections on the year and your progress with submission. Here are the submissions I received. There is some excellent advice here folks! Check it out. Make sure you leave comments! (Participants, repost the link list within a week and you’re all set.) Decorating Master’s Sofa lunaKM [...]

2 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: SubWise
The Ins and Outs of Fetishes

The Ins and Outs of Fetishes

“I have a fetish for wool socks, I just love them!” “I have a fetish for corsets, I can’t get off without thinking of them!” One of these statements is a sure sign of a fetish; the other is a misuse of the term. Sure this is a poor example. How many times have you [...]

4 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Play and Sex
Domesticity: The Kitchen

Domesticity: The Kitchen

The kitchen is the heart of any home and having a clean and germ-free work environment for cooking and food preparation is important. Knowing some skills and cleaning tips can make keeping your kitchen clean and sparkling effortless. No longer is doing dishes and mopping floors drudgery; enhanced it can be an important part of [...]

2 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Domestics

Online Finds

The items listed below are books and worksheets produced by others that I have found across the internet. This list is always changing as things come and go on the internet. I can not guarantee that these items will always be available so download your copy now! Butler’s Book Template – .doc by a slave [...]

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Submissive and Slave: A Personal View

Submissive and Slave: A Personal View

This post was written by Rayne. You can follow her twitter for active and interesting conversation. I’m pretty big on book definitions. So for me, the word “submissive” has always been an adjective describing a personality trait. When I got involved in BDSM, it became, for me, a heading, of sorts, describing a group of [...]

3 comments Posted by Rayne Millaray | Posted in: Beginner Basics

SubWise #3: Ease of Obedience

Last week I asked you to talk about the easiness of obedience to you. Here are the submissions I got. There is some excellent advice here folks! Check it out. Make sure you leave comments! (Participants, repost the link list within a week and you’re all set.) This girl Master Stone’s Princess Slave to Don [...]

1 comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: SubWise
Is It Submission If You Like What You’re Doing?

Is It Submission If You Like What You’re Doing?

I love surfing the submissive blogs to see what other people are talking about. Many times it gives me something to talk about here on this site. This post is one such example. Over on Underhishand.com, kaya asked about submission and what qualifies it as submission. She asked, “if you are not expected to do [...]

10 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Beginner Basics
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