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Scenes for Beginners: Ideas You Can Use To Start Exploring Bondage and BDSM Play in the Bedroom

Coming up with ideas on what to do with your partner when it comes to roleplay and kinky sex can be hard as a beginner. How do you set up a scene? What do you do? Let me help you out with some great ideas for play when you are new to BDSM and kinky [...]

Leave a comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Beginner Basics, Play and Sex
Everything You Need to Know to Have an Amazing Anal Sex Experience

Everything You Need to Know to Have an Amazing Anal Sex Experience

from the Submissive Guide Newsletter 1-9-16 Maybe you’ve been asked to learn about anal training or perhaps you are interested in exploring anal sex yourself. Maybe you are really nervous and want to learn more before taking the plunge. Or maybe anal sex is already a part of your sex routine and you want to [...]

3 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Sex and Sexuality
Book Review: 50 Shades of Curious by Bo Blaze

Book Review: 50 Shades of Curious by Bo Blaze

Fifty Shades of Curious is by Bo Blaze, a PCC-certified alternative life coach who specializes in alternative sexual relationships and non-traditional lifestyles. He is also well-known nationally as an expert in the BDSM lifestyle who has spoken at numerous events all over the country. With the popularity of the series “Fifty Shades of Grey”, Blaze [...]

1 comment Posted by tequilarose | Posted in: BDSM Fundamentals, Beginner Basics, Reviews
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Book Review: Unveiled: The Secret Submissive Within

I feel very lucky to have gotten the chance to read Michelle Fegatofi’s book “Unveiled-The Secret Submissive Within”. If the author’s name sounds familiar it’s probably because of her personal blog BDSM Unveiled. She started her blog back in November 2012 and since then has written on a large variety of topics to help those [...]

Leave a comment Posted by tequilarose | Posted in: Reviews

The Top 3 Books I Recommend to Everyone New to BDSM

Since the late 90′s there has been an increase in the number of books available for people wanting information about BDSM and D/s style relationships. I can’t say it’s a saturated market, but it is overwhelming sometimes trying to find quality material to read that won’t leave you confused or stuck in a “this is [...]

Leave a comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Reviews
Ask lunaKM – Nervous Beginner, Writing a First Contract, and Under 18 with Interest

Ask lunaKM – Nervous Beginner, Writing a First Contract, and Under 18 with Interest

Dear lunaKM, I’ve always loved the idea of BDSM and even had a couple of rough partners. However, I’m only just stepping into the Consideration stage of my first D/s relationship. Sir and I have had many conversations about limits, preferences, titles, the dynamic of the relationship, our responsibilities to each other, etc etc…. I’ve [...]

1 comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything
Ask lunaKM – Roleplay Scenarios, Unable to Kneel and Boost of Confidence

Ask lunaKM – Roleplay Scenarios, Unable to Kneel and Boost of Confidence

Dear lunaKM, My question involves role play, I was wondering if there are some scenarios that are available to give an individual some idea of how to start a scene. And or what kind of scene would be the easiest to get started with because I am a beginner and I usually go my instinct [...]

Leave a comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything

Top 30 Posts of 2011

This is a showcase the top 30 posts of 2011. I’ve noted in the link if the author was a guest post. You may have missed a few gems! What FetLife Has Done Pet Play and Human Pets: A Primer by SkylerPet What is Slave Training? The BDSM Checklist that Will Really Help You Where [...]

Leave a comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Beginner Basics
Making Assumptions: Try to Learn Everything and Make Sure Your Partner Knows Too

Making Assumptions: Try to Learn Everything and Make Sure Your Partner Knows Too

In today’s instant culture, the information we want to find can be discovered with just a click of the mouse. It’s a fantastic for the kink community because that means more people are discovering this part of themselves earlier and are jumping in with both feet at times. What’s dangerous is that more and more [...]

Leave a comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Personal Growth

A New Way to Learn: Submissive Guide’s First eCourse!

When I first created Submissive Guide, I wanted to give novice and experienced submissives a place to learn, grow and mature into their personal best submissive possible. Part of my plans has always been eCourses. Emailed courses that you do on your own time, and learn whatever I come up with the teach. You’d be [...]

Leave a comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Personal Growth
Anal Play: Beginner to Stretch in No Time

Anal Play: Beginner to Stretch in No Time

I never used to like anal sex.  I wouldn’t let anyone near that part of my body.  There were all sorts of worries and thoughts running through my mind every time someone tried, from concerns about pain, to concerns about cleanliness, to not understanding, on a personal level, how stimulation to this part of the [...]

22 comments Posted by Rayne Millaray | Posted in: Sex and Sexuality

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