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What Should I Try Next: Like Wax Play? Try Knives!

What Should I Try Next: Like Wax Play? Try Knives!

If you love the way wax feels drizzled all over your body, consider adding in knife play for the scraping or removal of the built up wax from your skin.

1 comment Posted by Mrs. Darling | Posted in: Beginner Basics
What Should I Try Next: Like Role Play? Try Medical Play!

What Should I Try Next: Like Role Play? Try Medical Play!

A great way to push the envelope in role play is by trying out medical play. Medical play lends itself so easily to BDSM. You can include bondage (stirrups, anybody?), massively amplify power roles (doctor taking advantage of patient is so taboo), and include new elements of sado-masochistic play.

Leave a comment Posted by Mrs. Darling | Posted in: Beginner Basics
What Should I Try Next: Like Orgasm Control? Try Forced Orgasms!

What Should I Try Next: Like Orgasm Control? Try Forced Orgasms!

Once you start perfecting the art of giving up control of your orgasm to another person, you can start exploring it in other ways. Forced orgasm is not forcing it upon somebody unwilling (consent always of course!) but instead creating a situation where the bottom is orgasming in a way that is surprising, unconventional, or even in a way that makes them uncomfortable.

Leave a comment Posted by Mrs. Darling | Posted in: Beginner Basics
What Should I Try Next: Like Bondage? Try Mummification!

What Should I Try Next: Like Bondage? Try Mummification!

If you enjoy bondage, whether it is trying out under the bed restraints, basic rope ties, or other means of being tied, consider looking into mummification. Mummification is using plastic wrap, medical tape, body bags, or other materials to completely restrict and immobilize the body.

Leave a comment Posted by Mrs. Darling | Posted in: Beginner Basics
What Should I Try Next: Like Service-based Play? Try Serving Others

What Should I Try Next: Like Service-based Play? Try Serving Others

If it pleases you like it pleases me to serve your Partner, consider adding service based play that involves other consenting parties. Adding things like hosting parties, formal tea parties or D/s dinners can make you feel good about offering your service.

Leave a comment Posted by Mrs. Darling | Posted in: Beginner Basics
What Should I Try Next:  Like Spanking? Try Flogging

What Should I Try Next: Like Spanking? Try Flogging

Spanking is another starting point for many people entering the BDSM arena because it is so simple (seeming) and if using your hand pretty difficult to spank your way to injury. Flogging is one of the most standard of BDSM impact tools and a great next step for those looking to take things to the next level.

2 comments Posted by Mrs. Darling | Posted in: Beginner Basics
9 Books on BDSM and D/s I’ve Read More Than Once (They’re THAT Good!)

9 Books on BDSM and D/s I’ve Read More Than Once (They’re THAT Good!)

You have to admit that the books that resonate with you the most, are ones you’ve read more than once. Here’s my list of 9 of the best BDSM and D/s related books that I’ve pulled off the shelf time and time again.

3 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Beginner Basics, Reviews
Book Review: The Ultimate Guide to Kink: BDSM, Role Play and the Erotic Edge by Tristan Taormino

Book Review: The Ultimate Guide to Kink: BDSM, Role Play and the Erotic Edge by Tristan Taormino

This is a great book for any dominant and s-type to have in their library of nonfiction BDSM books. Tequilarose’s favorite essay, Submissive: A Personal Manifesto by Madison Young is a must read for female s-types.

Leave a comment Posted by tequilarose | Posted in: Reviews
7 Things I Wish I’d Known When I Was New to BDSM

7 Things I Wish I’d Known When I Was New to BDSM

There is always time for a bit of education and knowledge before exploration. It can keep you safe, it can make you more aware, it can keep you safe and it can be fun. What 7 things did I learn that I wish I had known a LONG time ago?

Leave a comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Newsletter Archive, Personal Growth
Why SSC and RACK Are Both Important Safety Acronyms to Know

Why SSC and RACK Are Both Important Safety Acronyms to Know

The mantra “Safe, Sane, Consensual” (SSC) is probably one of the first things that someone new to the scene learns. RACK stands for two principles designed to give you the opportunity to move outside of your current comfort zones, into a place of interest.

1 comment Posted by kallista | Posted in: Beginner Basics
5 Myths About Submissives and Submission

5 Myths About Submissives and Submission

Let’s talk about the different myths surrounding submissives and submission. Some may surprise you.

10 comments Posted by Kayla Lords | Posted in: BDSM Fundamentals
BDSM Isn’t Just About Power Exchange

BDSM Isn’t Just About Power Exchange

There is more than power exchange involved in BDSM. Here’s a short reminder that there is far more to the term that you might realize.

1 comment Posted by tequilarose | Posted in: Views & More...
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Submission is a Choice That Will be Tested

Submission is a choice. Being a babygirl might be part of my personality. Being a submissive might be something that comes naturally to me. But submitting to the desires of our Dominant is always a choice.

27 comments Posted by Kayla Lords | Posted in: Mindset
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How to Deal With the Question of Being Kinky and a Parent

Confusion or being judgmental – clearing the air on why you can, in fact, be a great parent and still be kinky.

5 comments Posted by Kayla Lords | Posted in: Relationships
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We Do Not Out Each Other: Protecting People’s Privacy

Protecting each other’s privacy is so important. We don’t out each other. We just don’t.

11 comments Posted by Kayla Lords | Posted in: Community
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Some Misconceptions about the Caregiver/Little Dynamic

Debunking some misconceptions of the Caregiver dynamic.

4 comments Posted by tequilarose | Posted in: Beginner Basics, Views & More...
Book Review: Bondage Snippets by Verianna LaCroix

Book Review: Bondage Snippets by Verianna LaCroix

This book is very much like being at a munch or roundtable discussion about the lifestyle, but just in the privacy of your own home, or wherever you enjoy doing your reading.

Leave a comment Posted by tequilarose | Posted in: Beginner Basics, Reviews
Book Review: The Dom with a Safeword-The Badass Brats

Book Review: The Dom with a Safeword-The Badass Brats

I was introduced to the wonderful world of the Badass Brats thanks to my friend and reading buddy Shannon. She stumbled across a great series on Amazon and after she read the first book-The Dom with a Safeword, she quickly shared it with me and told me to read. Not when I get the chance, [...]

Leave a comment Posted by tequilarose | Posted in: Reviews
Is There Love in BDSM Relationships?

Is There Love in BDSM Relationships?

February is the love month. In the stores, everything is red, pink, and white. There are roses, teddy bears, and chocolate everywhere you turn. Actually, here, everything has looked that way since before Christmas was even over. It is a wonderful thing to celebrate the love we have for one another. I do think that [...]

1 comment Posted by moonlight | Posted in: Relationships
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Book Review: Unveiled: The Secret Submissive Within

I feel very lucky to have gotten the chance to read Michelle Fegatofi’s book “Unveiled-The Secret Submissive Within”. If the author’s name sounds familiar it’s probably because of her personal blog BDSM Unveiled. She started her blog back in November 2012 and since then has written on a large variety of topics to help those [...]

Leave a comment Posted by tequilarose | Posted in: Reviews
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