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March is Question Month

By lunaKM on March 1, 2010

As so many bloggers are known to do, I am opening up this site for your questions… even the personal ones. March is the month known in a small sphere as Question Month! If you have a question about submission, your own struggles or anything to do with BDSM this is your chance. I’ll also [...]

Posted in Webmaster Notes | Tagged advice, ask luna, ask me, BDSM, email, experience, question month, questions, submission, submissive | 16 Responses

Novice Q&A – February Edition

By lunaKM on February 24, 2010

Novice Q & A is for you to ask questions about things you’d like more information on, advice you are looking for or anything else. You can even ask me personal questions! My inbox is always open so you can send me questions whenever they occur. Last month I answered questions about appropriate greetings and topping [...]

Posted in Novice Q & A | Tagged advice, answers, ask me, emotions, information, novices, questions, series, understanding | Leave a response

Novice Q & A – January Edition

Novice Q & A – January Edition

By lunaKM on January 25, 2010

This year I’m starting a new series of posts that will occur once a  month just like the Roundtable did last year. Novice Q & A is for you to ask questions about things you’d like more information on, advice you are looking for or anything else. You can even ask me personal questions! My [...]

Posted in Novice Q & A | Tagged ask me, comfort, munch, munches, novices, questions, topping from the bottom | Leave a response

What are Dress Protocols?

What are Dress Protocols?

By lunaKM on December 4, 2009

I had a question sent to me via YouTube asking me about for information about dress protocols. I can only tell you what I am familiar with, so be aware that there are many many other forms of dress protocols and just as many (if not more) reasons behind them. I’m going to assume that [...]

Posted in Rituals and Routines | Tagged ask me, BDSM, clothing, Dom, dominant, dominants, dress, event, grooming, information, makeup, play, poses, preference, preferences, protocol, purpose, relationship, rt, rules, safe, sex, share, shaving, short, submissive, symbols, wants, what to wear | 6 Responses

Open for Questions

By lunaKM on November 14, 2009

Submissive Guide.com is doing wonderfully as a start up site and I hope that each and every one of you has learned and grown in your submission since you found this site and it’s associated resources. I’m just one person hoping to provide you with something you may not be able to find somewhere else. [...]

Posted in Video Posts, Webmaster Notes | Tagged advice, ask luna, ask me, get advice, help, learned, mentor, questions, requests, Resources, rt, submission, submissive, suggestions, value | 11 Responses

Assualt is NOT okay

By lunaKM on September 5, 2009

This week’s video post is about an issue that needs more awareness. I had someone ask me for some advice through my email the other day and it went something like this: I just started exploring my kinky side and I’ve only shared it with a few other people. One person that found out started [...]

Posted in Safety, Video Posts | Tagged abuse, advice, ask me, assistance, assistance programs, BDSM, cons, consensual, danger, Dom, domestic violence awareness, domestic violence awareness month, domestic violence project, email, family, fear, help, kinky, kinky side, leather, national domestic violence awareness month, national leather association, needs, NLA-I DVP, relationship, Relationships, rt, safe, Service, share, submission, submissive, support, value | 5 Responses

Two Weeks to Better Submissive Positions

Two Weeks to Better Submissive Positions

By lunaKM on April 20, 2009

Submissive Positions are talked about all over like everyone is supposed to be doing them or something. Not every relationship is set up to provide that level of protocol and you should never expect a relationship to automatically have that. If you are interested in positions, ask your partner or perspective partner if they’d be [...]

Posted in Rituals and Routines, Submissive Positions | Tagged 2WBSP, ask me, cons, dates, essays, Gor, Gorean positions, kneeling, learning, library, online, positions, preference, preferences, protocol, relationship, Resources, review, rt, slave, slave positions, submissive, Submissive Positions, training | Leave a response

How to Beg When Asked

How to Beg When Asked

By lunaKM on January 28, 2009

Begging is an art form for submissives. Each of us has our own talent or lack thereof in this area. For some it is part of humiliation, or just every day activities. There are different approaches to begging. Verbal Approach Master insists that I beg for a lot of things and I think that most [...]

Posted in Playtime, Sex and Sexuality | Tagged activities, advice, ask me, asking for permission, BDSM, begging, Bondage, Bondage.com, bow, curtsy, Dom, dominant, dominants, Gor, hands, help, humbling yourself, kissing hands, kneeling, learning, leather, love, normal, prostration, Raven Shadowborne, routine, rt, sex, sexual submission, short, submission, submissive, wants | 9 Responses

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