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What Should I Expect from My Dominant?

What Should I Expect from My Dominant?

What is reasonable to expect from a dominant in exchange for submission and service? Let’s figure out what you need in order to feel that your power exchange is fulfilling and personal.

Comments Off Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything
How Do I Manage a Long Distance D/s Relationship Due to Deployment?

How Do I Manage a Long Distance D/s Relationship Due to Deployment?

I’m new at this, he’s a dominant. But he’s leaving for 9 months deployment and I don’t know how to do this long distance relationship.

8 comments Posted by Kayla Lords | Posted in: Ask Anything
What are my limits?

What are my limits?

There’s a lot you can do to learn about BDSM and what your limits might be.

Comments Off Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything, Beginner Basics
Where Can I Go to Talk to Someone about Submission?

Where Can I Go to Talk to Someone about Submission?

Finding submissive support groups isn’t as hard as you might think.

1 comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything, Beginner Basics
New to BDSM and Sexual Experience

New to BDSM and Sexual Experience

Can a virgin with no sexual experience be a sub?

1 comment Posted by Kayla Lords | Posted in: Ask Anything
Overcoming the Fear of Being Triggered to Open a Dialogue

Overcoming the Fear of Being Triggered to Open a Dialogue

You want to explore kink but are afraid to talk about it because of past triggers. There is help.

Comments Off Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything, Relationships
When A Submissive Suffers Knee Pain: Kneeling and Helpful Suggestions

When A Submissive Suffers Knee Pain: Kneeling and Helpful Suggestions

What tips do you give this larger person about kneeling?

5 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything, Beginner Basics
Submitting when Physically and Emotionally Exhausted

Submitting when Physically and Emotionally Exhausted

A lot of submissives work demanding jobs and then come home to submit. The challenge is that you are exhausted and need the down time in order to be able to serve.

1 comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything, Beginner Basics
How Long Should I Wait For Him To Contact Me?

How Long Should I Wait For Him To Contact Me?

I keep wondering if I should move on or wait it out some more.

Comments Off Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything, Beginner Basics
Ask lunaKM Quickies: Where to Blog About Submission, Submissive Meditations and Opinion on Minors in BDSM

Ask lunaKM Quickies: Where to Blog About Submission, Submissive Meditations and Opinion on Minors in BDSM

I am brand new to the bdsm lifestyle and also a writer. I wanted to kind of chronicle my experiences, thoughts, and feelings on my journey. Can you tell me about any free blog sites that allow for erotic material? Blogger.com and WordPress.com allow erotic material as long as you mark the blog adult in [...]

Comments Off Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything, Beginner Basics
Ask lunaKM – How Can I Manage Sub Drop in a Long Distance Relationship?

Ask lunaKM – How Can I Manage Sub Drop in a Long Distance Relationship?

A resource list to find help managing sub drop while in a Long Distance Relationship.

2 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Beginner Basics
Are There Subtle Ways I Can Cue My Partner Into My Interests?

Are There Subtle Ways I Can Cue My Partner Into My Interests?

We both enjoy rough sex and him being in control but have never gone beyond that. I’d like to know how to subtly tell him.

3 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything, Beginner Basics
When My Dominant Calls Me Names, Does He Mean It?

When My Dominant Calls Me Names, Does He Mean It?

When my dominant calls me slut, whore etc. Does he really mean it?

1 comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything, Beginner Basics
How Do I Ask for More Aftercare?

How Do I Ask for More Aftercare?

I don’t know how to talk about my sub drop without taking up more of his time and becoming more trouble than I’m worth….

2 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything, Beginner Basics, Safety
Mending Old Relationship Scars to Open Up to New Things

Mending Old Relationship Scars to Open Up to New Things

How can I get past the barrier of old scars to let my Husband who wants to become a dominant train me to be His submissive?

1 comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything, Beginner Basics
Is There A Beginner’s Guide to D/s

Is There A Beginner’s Guide to D/s

Is there a beginner’s guide I can read to tell me what I am supposed to do and what to expect in BDSM?

4 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything
How To Ask for a Dominant’s Attention

How To Ask for a Dominant’s Attention

How do I ask him for the discipline/attention when I am needing it?

2 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything, Relationships
Ask the Readers: What are you punished for?

Ask the Readers: What are you punished for?

I am just trying to understand truly how a relationship with a punishment dynamic works. What are submissives out there are being punished for?

22 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything, Relationships
What Is The Expectation of Communication in an Online D/s Relationship?

What Is The Expectation of Communication in an Online D/s Relationship?

What is your view concerning the care, direction, and contact of Dominants w/their subs?

Comments Off Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything
How Do I Explore BDSM and Grow While I’m Single?

How Do I Explore BDSM and Grow While I’m Single?

I am new to BDSM and Kink and was just wondering if it were possible to try and learn and explore and grow without a Dom by my side at least for the moment?

1 comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything, Personal Growth
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