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What Should I Expect from My Dominant?

What Should I Expect from My Dominant?

What is reasonable to expect from a dominant in exchange for submission and service? Let’s figure out what you need in order to feel that your power exchange is fulfilling and personal.

Leave a comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything
How Do I Manage a Long Distance D/s Relationship Due to Deployment?

How Do I Manage a Long Distance D/s Relationship Due to Deployment?

I’m new at this, he’s a dominant. But he’s leaving for 9 months deployment and I don’t know how to do this long distance relationship.

8 comments Posted by Kayla Lords | Posted in: Ask Anything
What are my limits?

What are my limits?

There’s a lot you can do to learn about BDSM and what your limits might be.

Leave a comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything, Beginner Basics
Where Can I Go to Talk to Someone about Submission?

Where Can I Go to Talk to Someone about Submission?

Finding submissive support groups isn’t as hard as you might think.

1 comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything, Beginner Basics
New to BDSM and Sexual Experience

New to BDSM and Sexual Experience

Can a virgin with no sexual experience be a sub?

1 comment Posted by Kayla Lords | Posted in: Ask Anything
Overcoming the Fear of Being Triggered to Open a Dialogue

Overcoming the Fear of Being Triggered to Open a Dialogue

You want to explore kink but are afraid to talk about it because of past triggers. There is help.

Leave a comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything, Relationships
When A Submissive Suffers Knee Pain: Kneeling and Helpful Suggestions

When A Submissive Suffers Knee Pain: Kneeling and Helpful Suggestions

What tips do you give this larger person about kneeling?

5 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything, Beginner Basics
Submitting when Physically and Emotionally Exhausted

Submitting when Physically and Emotionally Exhausted

A lot of submissives work demanding jobs and then come home to submit. The challenge is that you are exhausted and need the down time in order to be able to serve.

1 comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything, Beginner Basics
How Long Should I Wait For Him To Contact Me?

How Long Should I Wait For Him To Contact Me?

Hi  Luna.  Yes I have a question…. I never know where I stand with this man. He talks about the future when we are together. He brings it up, he speaks what we will be doing etc. I don’t say too much. I want this very badly, but he calls all the shots. This is fine with [...]

Leave a comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything, Beginner Basics
Ask lunaKM Quickies: Where to Blog About Submission, Submissive Meditations and Opinion on Minors in BDSM

Ask lunaKM Quickies: Where to Blog About Submission, Submissive Meditations and Opinion on Minors in BDSM

I am brand new to the bdsm lifestyle and also a writer. I wanted to kind of chronicle my experiences, thoughts, and feelings on my journey. Can you tell me about any free blog sites that allow for erotic material? Blogger.com and WordPress.com allow erotic material as long as you mark the blog adult in [...]

Leave a comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything, Beginner Basics
Ask lunaKM – How Can I Manage Sub Drop in a Long Distance Relationship?

Ask lunaKM – How Can I Manage Sub Drop in a Long Distance Relationship?

I’m sure you have addressed this… But would you be willing to give some advice on sub drop in long distance relationships? I have been with my Dom 7 months and he is wonderful, amazing, and perfect at after care, but there still is the emotional sub drop after play. Thank you for any advice you can [...]

2 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Beginner Basics
Are There Subtle Ways I Can Cue My Partner Into My Interests?

Are There Subtle Ways I Can Cue My Partner Into My Interests?

Would really appreciate it if I could get some advice or your opinion on this ? I’ve always found that submission and being dominated really turns me on. That’s about the only thing I find sexually stimulating but my boyfriend doesn’t really know the extent of what I really like in the bedroom. I’m extremely [...]

3 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything, Beginner Basics
When My Dominant Calls Me Names, Does He Mean It?

When My Dominant Calls Me Names, Does He Mean It?

When my dominant calls me slut, whore etc. Does he really mean it?  I’m new to this and I have a hard time knowing whether or not he means this. Master and I are very young and he’s the only guy I’ve ever gone very far sexually with. I’m a good girl  and  none of [...]

1 comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything, Beginner Basics
How Do I Ask for More Aftercare?

How Do I Ask for More Aftercare?

I have experienced sub drop for the first time. I’ve felt down after play but never like this. My dom and I met on Fetlife, and I am his second sub- the other is his best friend.  We all get on really well, and he is super attentive, but I still worry about being an [...]

2 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything, Beginner Basics, Safety
Mending Old Relationship Scars to Open Up to New Things

Mending Old Relationship Scars to Open Up to New Things

My husband and I have a great marriage but both of us recently opened up about our desires to explore D/s lifestyle. He wants me to be a more attentive partner, take care of His needs and explore my sexuality. I have been submissive to just about everyone my entire life, most of those situations [...]

1 comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything, Beginner Basics
Is There A Beginner’s Guide to D/s

Is There A Beginner’s Guide to D/s

Dear lunaKM, Is there a beginner’s guide I can read to tell me what I am supposed to d and what to expect with this? I met a Daddy Dom and he wants me to be his Daddy’s Girl. But I would like to know more about this life before I move to be with [...]

4 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything
How To Ask for a Dominant’s Attention

How To Ask for a Dominant’s Attention

Hello lunaKM, I have a Dom friend that has been helping explore and figure out this wonderful world of BDSM. I have been seeing him for a few months and we are moving into more of a relationship and not just scenes. My question is how do I ask him for the discipline/attention when I [...]

2 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything, Relationships
Ask the Readers: What are you punished for?

Ask the Readers: What are you punished for?

Ok, I know this sounds like a silly question but I wanted to know what other submissives out there are being punished for. I have been a sexual submissive for three years now and my Dom and I are slowly bringing our dynamic out of the bedroom. I have read a lot of articles about [...]

22 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything, Relationships
What Is The Expectation of Communication in an Online D/s Relationship?

What Is The Expectation of Communication in an Online D/s Relationship?

Dear lunaKM, I have been in my first D/s relationship (online) for about a month. What is your view concerning the care, direction and contact of Dominants w/their subs? I know we are all different, but I have nothing to compare. Contact is spotty and I feel a bit lost. Some days I get a [...]

Leave a comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything
How Do I Explore BDSM and Grow While I’m Single?

How Do I Explore BDSM and Grow While I’m Single?

Hi!, I am new to BDSM and Kink and was just wondering if it were possible to try and learn and explore and grow without a Dom by my side at least for the moment? How is a submissive able to train and prepare for her future Dom? I am not out in my local [...]

1 comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything, Personal Growth
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