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What Should I Expect from My Dominant?

What Should I Expect from My Dominant?

What is reasonable to expect from a dominant in exchange for submission and service? Let’s figure out what you need in order to feel that your power exchange is fulfilling and personal.

Comments Off Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything
Help! My Dominant Says and Does Things I Didn’t Agree To

Help! My Dominant Says and Does Things I Didn’t Agree To

My Dominant is constantly changing the rules of the relationship and I don’t agree with them. I love him and don’t want to give him up but I am starting to question if he ever really loved me at all?

1 comment Posted by Kayla Lords | Posted in: Ask Anything
Ask lunaKM – Quickies: Dog Collars,  Task Lists and Con-artist Doms

Ask lunaKM – Quickies: Dog Collars, Task Lists and Con-artist Doms

It’s time for another round of quick answers for questions you have sent in! Dear SG, I’m wondering if a dog prong collar would be safe to use for a collar? I’m intrigued by the sharpness of it but don’t want to use one if it’d be too dangerous. You gave me a vision of [...]

Comments Off Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything
I’m Afraid of My Long Distance Dom

I’m Afraid of My Long Distance Dom

For fear of angering him I submit and abide by this punishment, leaving me more stressed I have fallen in love with my dom, I am not allowed to call him by name. I feel I m pushed up against a wall at all times. What should I do?

4 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything, Relationships, Safety
Help! I Can’t Wear My Collar at Work

Help! I Can’t Wear My Collar at Work

What do I do if I can’t wear my collar at work?

7 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything
What are my limits?

What are my limits?

There’s a lot you can do to learn about BDSM and what your limits might be.

Comments Off Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything, Beginner Basics
Where Can I Go to Talk to Someone about Submission?

Where Can I Go to Talk to Someone about Submission?

Finding submissive support groups isn’t as hard as you might think.

1 comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything, Beginner Basics
Opening the Relationship When It’s Already Rocky

Opening the Relationship When It’s Already Rocky

Opening up an already unstable relationship is hard for everyone.

Comments Off Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything, Relationships
Overcoming the Fear of Being Triggered to Open a Dialogue

Overcoming the Fear of Being Triggered to Open a Dialogue

You want to explore kink but are afraid to talk about it because of past triggers. There is help.

Comments Off Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything, Relationships
Submitting when Physically and Emotionally Exhausted

Submitting when Physically and Emotionally Exhausted

A lot of submissives work demanding jobs and then come home to submit. The challenge is that you are exhausted and need the down time in order to be able to serve.

1 comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything, Beginner Basics
How Long Should I Wait For Him To Contact Me?

How Long Should I Wait For Him To Contact Me?

I keep wondering if I should move on or wait it out some more.

Comments Off Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything, Beginner Basics
Ask lunaKM Quickies: Where to Blog About Submission, Submissive Meditations and Opinion on Minors in BDSM

Ask lunaKM Quickies: Where to Blog About Submission, Submissive Meditations and Opinion on Minors in BDSM

I am brand new to the bdsm lifestyle and also a writer. I wanted to kind of chronicle my experiences, thoughts, and feelings on my journey. Can you tell me about any free blog sites that allow for erotic material? Blogger.com and WordPress.com allow erotic material as long as you mark the blog adult in [...]

Comments Off Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything, Beginner Basics
Ask lunaKM – How Can I Manage Sub Drop in a Long Distance Relationship?

Ask lunaKM – How Can I Manage Sub Drop in a Long Distance Relationship?

A resource list to find help managing sub drop while in a Long Distance Relationship.

2 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Beginner Basics
Are There Subtle Ways I Can Cue My Partner Into My Interests?

Are There Subtle Ways I Can Cue My Partner Into My Interests?

We both enjoy rough sex and him being in control but have never gone beyond that. I’d like to know how to subtly tell him.

3 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything, Beginner Basics
Poly Conflict: Feeling Like a Third Wheel in a Triad

Poly Conflict: Feeling Like a Third Wheel in a Triad

Do you have any advice for someone in a triad that is constantly feeling like a third wheel because the other female sub puts a constant emphasis on being “wife” and legally married to the male dominant of the relationship?

1 comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything, Relationships
When My Dominant Calls Me Names, Does He Mean It?

When My Dominant Calls Me Names, Does He Mean It?

When my dominant calls me slut, whore etc. Does he really mean it?

1 comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything, Beginner Basics
How Do I Ask for More Aftercare?

How Do I Ask for More Aftercare?

I don’t know how to talk about my sub drop without taking up more of his time and becoming more trouble than I’m worth….

2 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything, Beginner Basics, Safety
I Feel Addicted to My Dominant, Is This Normal?

I Feel Addicted to My Dominant, Is This Normal?

I think of Him constantly almost as if I am addicted to Him, and cannot seem to focus without Him.

5 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything, Beginner Basics, Relationships
How Can I Get Less Bruising from Caning?

How Can I Get Less Bruising from Caning?

I haven’t been able to sit for the last four days… I like pain, but caning isn’t what I thought, is there anything I can do beforehand to make it a better experience?

1 comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything, Play and Sex
Mending Old Relationship Scars to Open Up to New Things

Mending Old Relationship Scars to Open Up to New Things

How can I get past the barrier of old scars to let my Husband who wants to become a dominant train me to be His submissive?

1 comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything, Beginner Basics
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