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How To Express Submissiveness as a Little

How To Express Submissiveness as a Little

How can I show my submissiveness in a little girl way without falling into total servitude and then becoming more like a slave?

1 comment Posted by Kayla Lords | Posted in: Ask Anything, Relationships
How to Approach a Couple into Kink and Polyamory when You are New

How to Approach a Couple into Kink and Polyamory when You are New

Be realistic with yourself about what you are offering, but when you are new to Kink and Polyamory there’s a lot of conversation that needs to happen. Here’s what you should discuss.

Leave a comment Posted by Kayla Lords | Posted in: Ask Anything
How Do I Let Him Know I’m Committed to Him?

How Do I Let Him Know I’m Committed to Him?

How can I tell my partner that I’m not going anywhere and am interested in a long term relationship and possibly marriage?

Leave a comment Posted by Kayla Lords | Posted in: Ask Anything, Beginner Basics
What Should I Expect from My Dominant?

What Should I Expect from My Dominant?

What is reasonable to expect from a dominant in exchange for submission and service? Let’s figure out what you need in order to feel that your power exchange is fulfilling and personal.

Leave a comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything
How To Navigate Public BDSM Play as a Transgender Person

How To Navigate Public BDSM Play as a Transgender Person

Do what makes you feel most comfortable, and you’ll be doing it “right.”

Leave a comment Posted by Kayla Lords | Posted in: Ask Anything, Play and Sex
Regaining Trust – He Cheated and I’m Not Over It Yet

Regaining Trust – He Cheated and I’m Not Over It Yet

Regaining trust is going to be a long hard road. It doesn’t matter what “most” people might consider cheating. If you felt that the bonds of your relationship were bruised or broken due to your partner’s actions, he cheated, and your feelings are important and valid.

2 comments Posted by Kayla Lords | Posted in: Ask Anything, Relationships
Help! My Dominant Says and Does Things I Didn’t Agree To

Help! My Dominant Says and Does Things I Didn’t Agree To

My Dominant is constantly changing the rules of the relationship and I don’t agree with them. I love him and don’t want to give him up but I am starting to question if he ever really loved me at all?

1 comment Posted by Kayla Lords | Posted in: Ask Anything
Create a Transition: Moving Between D/s and Vanilla Lives

Create a Transition: Moving Between D/s and Vanilla Lives

That wall between your vanilla life and your D/s life is hard to climb. Kayla gives you a great tip of a transition routine to make it a lot easier for you.

Leave a comment Posted by Kayla Lords | Posted in: Ask Anything
Ask lunaKM – Quickies: Dog Collars,  Task Lists and Con-artist Doms

Ask lunaKM – Quickies: Dog Collars, Task Lists and Con-artist Doms

It’s time for another round of quick answers for questions you have sent in! Dear SG, I’m wondering if a dog prong collar would be safe to use for a collar? I’m intrigued by the sharpness of it but don’t want to use one if it’d be too dangerous. You gave me a vision of [...]

Leave a comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything
I’m Afraid of My Long Distance Dom

I’m Afraid of My Long Distance Dom

For fear of angering him I submit and abide by this punishment, leaving me more stressed I have fallen in love with my dom, I am not allowed to call him by name. I feel I m pushed up against a wall at all times. What should I do?

4 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything, Relationships, Safety
I’m Worried I’m Not Enough for My Dominant

I’m Worried I’m Not Enough for My Dominant

He’s in love with me as well but I’m not so sure that I’m what he needs anymore. His need for his sadistic ways to flourish are being held back by me. As his submissive /slave, is it wrong for me to decide this for him? Tell him that I’m no longer what he needs. Or do I sit back and watch the man I love, my Master, struggle internally?

1 comment Posted by Kayla Lords | Posted in: Ask Anything
How To Understand The Grief Process for a Dominant Who Passed Away

How To Understand The Grief Process for a Dominant Who Passed Away

Your grief will take as long as it takes. Here are the five steps to the grief process and further support for grieving and loss.

1 comment Posted by Kayla Lords | Posted in: Ask Anything
Trying to Make a Poly Relationship Work

Trying to Make a Poly Relationship Work

All three of you will have to communicate open and honestly about what you want and what you need. You’ll all need to have an understanding of what your relationship is and what it isn’t. You’ll have to negotiate the specifics of what works and what doesn’t so that you’re all comfortable.

1 comment Posted by Kayla Lords | Posted in: Ask Anything
My Partner Is Hanging On to an Old Relationship

My Partner Is Hanging On to an Old Relationship

It is very difficult to lead somebody. Exponentially so when she answers to another.

1 comment Posted by Mrs. Darling | Posted in: Ask Anything
Learn How To Trust Your Dominant Partner Again After An Affair

Learn How To Trust Your Dominant Partner Again After An Affair

Your partner cheated on you, but you want to repair the relationship and restore the trust. How do you do that?

3 comments Posted by Kayla Lords | Posted in: Ask Anything
Play with Chronic Illness, What Resources Are There?

Play with Chronic Illness, What Resources Are There?

I know the difference between good pain and bad pain, so is there a way we can restart our B-D relationship or would it be unwise to do so?

3 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything
Are Dominants Supposed to Act This Way?

Are Dominants Supposed to Act This Way?

Kayla helps a troubled submissive in an abusive relationship.

1 comment Posted by Kayla Lords | Posted in: Ask Anything
Ask Submissive Guide: Narcissistic Dominants

Ask Submissive Guide: Narcissistic Dominants

Are most dominant men narcissistic as well?

Leave a comment Posted by Mrs. Darling | Posted in: Relationships
Balancing D/s: Needing Permission to Go Out With Family

Balancing D/s: Needing Permission to Go Out With Family

Some advice on balancing a d/s relationship and family.

Leave a comment Posted by Kayla Lords | Posted in: Ask Anything
Ask lunaKM – Looking at Your Dominant, Putting Your Foot Down as a Submissive, Developing a Secret Relationship

Ask lunaKM – Looking at Your Dominant, Putting Your Foot Down as a Submissive, Developing a Secret Relationship

Dear lunaKM, Hi there, I have always thought of myself as a dominant person, however I recently learned that I really enjoy being submissive.   It has taken me 4 months and I have finally found my Sir and we are on the same page as to what we are wanting to explore and experience. [...]

Leave a comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything
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