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Daddy-Little Girl Dynamics: It’s Not Easy Being A Little

Daddy-Little Girl Dynamics: It’s Not Easy Being A Little

It’s hard to be a little in today’s society. So many people, even those within the lifestyle, don’t understand the Daddy/little dynamic. They don’t try either.

16 comments Posted by tequilarose | Posted in: Beginner Basics, Relationships

Chat Night Transcript – Dominant Aftercare

from the Submissive Guide Chat held 7/09/13 on Aftercare for Dominants [20:10] <~lunaKM> Hello and welcome to another chat night here on Submissive Guide. Please feel free to talk about the subject whenever a thought comes to mind, this is not a moderated talk and you do not have to ask permission to speak or [...]

Comments Off Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Roundtable Discussions
Is My Dominant a Bully?

Is My Dominant a Bully?

When he doesn’t drink he is wonderful and I do love and adore him but at my age in life (55) I don’t need this kind of turmoil. What should Ido?

4 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything, Relationships, Safety
Becoming Comfortable with My Submissive Role

Becoming Comfortable with My Submissive Role

Submitting did not make my thoughts less valuable or inappropriate, it simply meant that I would have to learn to accept that the final decision lay with my partner, my Dom, not with me.

5 comments Posted by kallista | Posted in: Beginner Basics
Ask lunaKM – Quick Fire Answers on Being a Great Submissive, Guilt, Shame and More

Ask lunaKM – Quick Fire Answers on Being a Great Submissive, Guilt, Shame and More

My question is how do i learn to be great for a Master seeing that i am a man. Women have so many advantages to pleasing their Master than i do. Can you give me some pointers? Thank you. I’m not really sure what advantages that are uniquely female that don’t have a male counterpart. [...]

3 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything, Play and Sex, Relationships
Male Submission – Foot Fetish

Male Submission – Foot Fetish

A foot fetish is not necessarily related to submission, although for many guys the two combine well and there are a whole lot of varieties of activities and preferences for guys with a foot fetish.

11 comments Posted by ted_subby | Posted in: Male Submission, Play and Sex
[Video Post] How do I show my submissiveness long distance?

[Video Post] How do I show my submissiveness long distance?

My question is, how can I show him (aside from simply following the rules) that this is who I am. He knows that my nature is submissive. He has commented on it many times. but is there a way in a LDR to show the submissiveness I feel?

10 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything, Beginner Basics, Video Posts
The Chase is On – Communicating Openly With Your Dominant

The Chase is On – Communicating Openly With Your Dominant

It’s hard sometimes to open up and talk about what’s going on. Yes, it is much easier for one party to just assume that the other party knows what’s going on when in reality; they don’t even have a clue. How is a slave’s Master to know that the slave is struggling with keeping in the mindset they need unless the slave speaks up?

11 comments Posted by tequilarose | Posted in: Beginner Basics
Fictional Stories of Male Submission

Fictional Stories of Male Submission

I have read several hundred fictional stories of male submission and here are my favorite stories and authors in no particular order.

6 comments Posted by ted_subby | Posted in: Male Submission

[Video Post] Too Young for BDSM – Responding to the Questions I Get from Underage Persons

At least once a month I get an email from someone that is under 18 asking very important questions about BDSM and their curious interest. Here are some of the questions and answers I generally give these persons.

4 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Beginner Basics, Community, Video Posts
Is Age an Issue with BDSM?

Is Age an Issue with BDSM?

I am 66 years old and just entering the life of a single submissive…Would my age be an issue do you think?

Comments Off Posted by SehAnru | Posted in: Ask Anything, Views & More...
Why Do Dominants Insist on Being Called Sir?

Why Do Dominants Insist on Being Called Sir?

Was it a matter of respect the Dominant thought they had earned? Was it a matter of protocol? What really was the issue behind not wanting to say that 3 letter word to a Dominant?

22 comments Posted by LadySneak | Posted in: Rituals and Routines
Fantastic Submissive Videos for Learning and Growth on Kink Academy

Fantastic Submissive Videos for Learning and Growth on Kink Academy

If you can’t get out to munches in your community or conventions held around the world the next best thing is a website focused on kink education. I have nothing but praise for Kink Academy and the quality educators and topics that they cover on Kink Academy.

Comments Off Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Beginner Basics, Newsletter Archive

Common Pervertables Around the Home You Can Use for BDSM Play

Pervertables are everyday common items that can be used for kinky purposes. Starting to build your toybox can be as simple as rummaging through your kitchen or closet. Here are some ideas for your own toybox.

10 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Play and Sex
Discretion in the BDSM Community – Anonymity and Personal Privacy Concerns

Discretion in the BDSM Community – Anonymity and Personal Privacy Concerns

How safe are BDSM groups for people in high profile careers and the risk of being exposed? It’s a valid concern for anyone that seeks outside support and knowledge so I thought I’d share with you what I had to say to this person.

Comments Off Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Community
A Day in the Life: Tlbsab

A Day in the Life: Tlbsab

This is a guest post for the Day in a Life Series. Thank you Tlbsab!

Comments Off Posted by Guest Author | Posted in: Beginner Basics
A Day in the Life: DarlingDoll

A Day in the Life: DarlingDoll

This is part of the A Day in the Life Series. Thanks DarlingDoll!

3 comments Posted by Guest Author | Posted in: Beginner Basics

The Best-selling Items on Amazon According to What Our Readers Are Buying

Today I spent some time digging into the purchases of BDSM books and have compiled the following breakdown of best selling books and some odds and ends that surprised us.

2 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Views & More...

Overcoming Frustration and Anger as a Submissive

Frustration is a normal human response. It can get out of hand and escalate to anger if not handled well. As submissives, we seem to deal with frustration more openly than others in the lifestyle.

16 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Mindset
My Top 10 Low Cost Gift Ideas for Your Dominant

My Top 10 Low Cost Gift Ideas for Your Dominant

I know I don’t like asking for a large sum of money, even if I say that it’s for a gift for them. So, I find ways to do gift giving within a self-imposed budget. Here are my ideas that might work for you too.

13 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Views & More...
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