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How Do I Let Him Know I’m Committed to Him?

How Do I Let Him Know I’m Committed to Him?

How can I tell my partner that I’m not going anywhere and am interested in a long term relationship and possibly marriage?

Leave a comment Posted by Kayla Lords | Posted in: Ask Anything, Beginner Basics
31 Days of Submissive Journaling – Day 1: Introduction

31 Days of Submissive Journaling – Day 1: Introduction

This is the table of contents for the 31 Days of Submissive Journaling Series hosted in October 2016.

7 Things I Wish I’d Known When I Was New to BDSM

7 Things I Wish I’d Known When I Was New to BDSM

There is always time for a bit of education and knowledge before exploration. It can keep you safe, it can make you more aware, it can keep you safe and it can be fun. What 7 things did I learn that I wish I had known a LONG time ago?

Leave a comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Newsletter Archive, Personal Growth
Create a Transition: Moving Between D/s and Vanilla Lives

Create a Transition: Moving Between D/s and Vanilla Lives

That wall between your vanilla life and your D/s life is hard to climb. Kayla gives you a great tip of a transition routine to make it a lot easier for you.

Leave a comment Posted by Kayla Lords | Posted in: Ask Anything
How Do I Manage a Long Distance D/s Relationship Due to Deployment?

How Do I Manage a Long Distance D/s Relationship Due to Deployment?

I’m new at this, he’s a dominant. But he’s leaving for 9 months deployment and I don’t know how to do this long distance relationship.

8 comments Posted by Kayla Lords | Posted in: Ask Anything
I’m Afraid of My Long Distance Dom

I’m Afraid of My Long Distance Dom

For fear of angering him I submit and abide by this punishment, leaving me more stressed I have fallen in love with my dom, I am not allowed to call him by name. I feel I m pushed up against a wall at all times. What should I do?

3 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything, Relationships, Safety
I’m Worried I’m Not Enough for My Dominant

I’m Worried I’m Not Enough for My Dominant

He’s in love with me as well but I’m not so sure that I’m what he needs anymore. His need for his sadistic ways to flourish are being held back by me. As his submissive /slave, is it wrong for me to decide this for him? Tell him that I’m no longer what he needs. Or do I sit back and watch the man I love, my Master, struggle internally?

1 comment Posted by Kayla Lords | Posted in: Ask Anything
The Top 5 Tips for Vetting a Potential Dominant Partner

The Top 5 Tips for Vetting a Potential Dominant Partner

It’s never easy being single and knowing you want to find a Dominant partner adds to the mix of things to look for in a partner that often narrows the pool. But with these 5 tips on selecting Dominants, you’ll have a better understanding and hopefully renewed inspiration for your own dating endeavors.

Leave a comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Newsletter Archive, Relationships
Help! I Can’t Wear My Collar at Work

Help! I Can’t Wear My Collar at Work

What do I do if I can’t wear my collar at work?

7 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything
Trying to Make a Poly Relationship Work

Trying to Make a Poly Relationship Work

All three of you will have to communicate open and honestly about what you want and what you need. You’ll all need to have an understanding of what your relationship is and what it isn’t. You’ll have to negotiate the specifics of what works and what doesn’t so that you’re all comfortable.

1 comment Posted by Kayla Lords | Posted in: Ask Anything
Learn How To Trust Your Dominant Partner Again After An Affair

Learn How To Trust Your Dominant Partner Again After An Affair

Your partner cheated on you, but you want to repair the relationship and restore the trust. How do you do that?

3 comments Posted by Kayla Lords | Posted in: Ask Anything
Ask the Readers – Looking for Signals During Play

Ask the Readers – Looking for Signals During Play

What signals do Tops look for during play that display to them that you are having a good time? Come share your thoughts!

1 comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything
Where Can I Go to Talk to Someone about Submission?

Where Can I Go to Talk to Someone about Submission?

Finding submissive support groups isn’t as hard as you might think.

1 comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything, Beginner Basics
In a New Relationship and Self Conscious About My Body

In a New Relationship and Self Conscious About My Body

Here are a few tips for moving from sweating over this prospect to looking forward to sharing your body with a new partner.

4 comments Posted by Mrs. Darling | Posted in: Ask Anything, Relationships
Are Dominants Supposed to Act This Way?

Are Dominants Supposed to Act This Way?

Kayla helps a troubled submissive in an abusive relationship.

1 comment Posted by Kayla Lords | Posted in: Ask Anything
Balancing D/s: Needing Permission to Go Out With Family

Balancing D/s: Needing Permission to Go Out With Family

Some advice on balancing a d/s relationship and family.

Leave a comment Posted by Kayla Lords | Posted in: Ask Anything
Power Exchange While in Addiction Recovery

Power Exchange While in Addiction Recovery

The holiday season is hard. So hard sometimes.

3 comments Posted by Mrs. Darling | Posted in: Beginner Basics
There’s No Size Limitation to Being Kinky

There’s No Size Limitation to Being Kinky

The other day, one of my friends on Facebook messaged me and asked me if she could ask me a question. Of course I told her yes and then she began to furiously type her question to me. After I read her situation, I asked her if I could reply later. I was in class [...]

12 comments Posted by tequilarose | Posted in: Mindset, Personal Growth
Ask lunaKM Quickies: Where to Blog About Submission, Submissive Meditations and Opinion on Minors in BDSM

Ask lunaKM Quickies: Where to Blog About Submission, Submissive Meditations and Opinion on Minors in BDSM

I am brand new to the bdsm lifestyle and also a writer. I wanted to kind of chronicle my experiences, thoughts, and feelings on my journey. Can you tell me about any free blog sites that allow for erotic material? Blogger.com and WordPress.com allow erotic material as long as you mark the blog adult in [...]

Leave a comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything, Beginner Basics
Ask lunaKM – How Can I Manage Sub Drop in a Long Distance Relationship?

Ask lunaKM – How Can I Manage Sub Drop in a Long Distance Relationship?

I’m sure you have addressed this… But would you be willing to give some advice on sub drop in long distance relationships? I have been with my Dom 7 months and he is wonderful, amazing, and perfect at after care, but there still is the emotional sub drop after play. Thank you for any advice you can [...]

2 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Beginner Basics
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