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Lessons in Submissive Speech Paperback – September 6, 2019

by Luna Carruthers (Author)
4.2 4.2 out of 5 stars 232 ratings
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As a submissive, you may not know that there are a variety of approaches to the way you handle speaking to others. You need help from someone who’s done it all before and can show you how to speak demurely and with a humble attitude. In this book, I will give you the tools you need to learn appropriate responses, how to address people and submissive speaking skills for a number of common situations.

Learn and Develop Your Submissive Verbal Skills!

Do you get in trouble constantly over how assertive and aggressive your speech is?

Has your Dominant asked you to demand less and request more in how you ask for things?

You can learn more humble, submissive speech with a few simple lessons!Lessons in Submissive Speech takes your interactions with Dominants, and others to the next level and it’s perfect for you if you are:

  • frustrated that your current use of language makes you sound bossy
  • focused on understanding how you can improve and enhance your current power exchange relationship
  • determined to learn more about speech protocol in an easy and unassuming way

By the time you’re finished, this book will have helped you:

  • Be less assertive and aggressive in your everyday speech.
  • Learn what slang and impoliteness can do to your interactions with others.
  • Understand how to apologize… it’s more than “I’m sorry!”
  • Build a personal or relationship protocol around addressing other people, interacting with service persons and more.
  • Explore how communication online is a whole different world.
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  3. Publication date
    September 6, 2019
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    6 x 0.22 x 9 inches
  5. ISBN-10
    1089312768
  6. ISBN-13
    978-1089312765
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  • Publisher ‏ : ‎ Independently published (September 6, 2019)
  • Language ‏ : ‎ English
  • Paperback ‏ : ‎ 97 pages
  • ISBN-10 ‏ : ‎ 1089312768
  • ISBN-13 ‏ : ‎ 978-1089312765
  • Item Weight ‏ : ‎ 5 ounces
  • Dimensions ‏ : ‎ 6 x 0.22 x 9 inches
  • Customer Reviews:
    4.2 4.2 out of 5 stars 232 ratings

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Luna Carruthers

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Luna Carruthers is the founder of Submissive Guide, a leading alt. lifestyle community focusing on practical knowledge to help submissives of all variations live their best lives. Luna embraced her submissive nature over 15 years ago and loves service and protocol. She is active in the local munch community in Iowa with her Dominant husband.

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Submissive Guide is dedicated to helping submissives understand themselves and the service they wish to provide, from bedroom to domestic, personal assistant to pain play, and everything in between.

In 2007, we started Submissive Guide, a community and knowledge resource for submissives from all walks of submissive life. We focus on common sense advice and information to bring submission into reality for many.

The site is a self-guided mentor to novice submissives, with a learning program of sorts, tips, and information on how you can improve your personal submission with or without a partner.

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Gian Singh
5.0 out of 5 stars M/s 101
Reviewed in the United States on July 25, 2020
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Everyone should read this book. As soon as I showed this book to my Master it was added to the reading list for all members of His household. This is spectacular. All s-types should have this foundational understanding of submission.

That said, I'd like to see a more thorough delve into the fluff. The erotic way you can elaborate speech to sound extra submissive. The sort of apologies The Marketplace makes Chris Parker out to have in his arsenal. A sort of 201 book. This felt to me like "something everyone should know, and if you're an s-type and don't then you're new or...yikes " rather than something I might give to an experienced s-type.

I'd also like to see a note in there about how eloquent speech can be both beautiful and standard but is also a classist ideology that doesn't always apply.

Overall, excellent starter book for a desperately important topic.
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Nafeesah
5.0 out of 5 stars Great read!
Reviewed in the United States on April 21, 2018
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Concise and straight to the point. Easy to follow along and some really great advice was offered. I'd definitely recommend this to anyone.
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Shannah
4.0 out of 5 stars Good basic starter book for subs entering the BDSM world.
Reviewed in the United States on May 15, 2019
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Easy to read, not overly wordy, and some easy to incorporate examples. I hope she writes more on more advanced examples.
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The technician and crafter
5.0 out of 5 stars Lifesaver for submissives
Reviewed in the United States on August 31, 2023
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A lot of people that are submissive and are new to the culture of things are probably unaware of a lot of stuff in here. Very hopeful book.
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Crystal Marie
3.0 out of 5 stars Beginner Level
Reviewed in the United States on October 29, 2020
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Very simply written. By the description I was led to believe there would be more about etiquette. However a great book for someone just diving in.
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Mary Chapman
5.0 out of 5 stars Speak Submissively
Reviewed in the United States on September 18, 2022
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This book is just great!! It's small but packed full of helpful information for any sub looking to please his/her Dom/Domme!!
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Mullanphy Lane
1.0 out of 5 stars Should be removed from Kindle publication.
Reviewed in the United States on March 29, 2023
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Lessons in Submissive Speech is not what it purports to b

Pros:
1. It is a short easy read. I read all "100 pages" in under 15 minutes, and I am not a speed reader
2. It has one central theme, respect for others, that should apply to vanilla as well as D/s relationships

Cons:
1. The few tips about how a submissive - or anyone else, for that matter - are things everybody already knows (not that everybody or all submissives actually practice such respectful behavior when speaking with others).
2. No pages in the "100 page" "book" contain more than 1/4 page of text, so a reader only has to get through 20 or fewer pages of actual text/content. Many pages are simply title pages with fewer than six words on the page. Shameful use of white space to pad what should be 5 or six pages of material.

The author preaches respect throughout the pamphlet but shows their readers none with their deplorable construction and lack of information helpful to a submissive. Absolutely the worst quality - in page construction and content - of any Kindle book I've read to date. The tome should be removed from Kindle publication.
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MzShayMarie16
5.0 out of 5 stars Astonishing and Brilliant
Reviewed in the United States on October 9, 2019
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A humbling experience for sure. I’d not realized until yesterday how rude I may come across. Thank you for the most valuable lessons. My favorite book so far.
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Peter
5.0 out of 5 stars How to speak respectfully and humbly
Reviewed in Australia on March 28, 2021
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The initial training of a submissive/slave often includes submissive speech. Although speech requirements may relax later in the training period, at the beginning it a training focus. This book should be given to all submissive/slaves starting out on their chosen path. The book is filled with examples on different topics, from how to ask a question to how to apologise. At the end is a useful section on how to talk to a Master on- line and in chat rooms. The book is a must for Masters as well.
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1.0 out of 5 stars Still haven't got it
Reviewed in Canada on September 16, 2016
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I haven't received my book yet! I've been checking the mail everyday. Please resend the book😢
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Noëlle
3.0 out of 5 stars interesting tips
Reviewed in France on April 20, 2013
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This book offers a nice insight of leather union dynamic and speech is part of everyday life or of some special occasions, to be read by like minded people
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Anonymous
1.0 out of 5 stars As informative as a LuLaRoe flyer.
Reviewed in Australia on August 18, 2023
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I can't believe that I, a 33 year old woman, paid money to be told how to use "please", "thank you" and "pardon me".

A utter triumph in banality.
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