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When I am with my Dominant overnight, I get to sleep... (max. 2 choices)
- in his/her bed snuggled right next to him/her. (71%, 42 Votes)
- in his/her bed but chained to the headboard. (19%, 11 Votes)
- in his/her bed but at the foot. (10%, 6 Votes)
- on the floor in the same room. (10%, 6 Votes)
- in my own bedroom, slave quarters or separate bed. (5%, 3 Votes)
- somewhere else entirely. (5%, 3 Votes)
- in a cage in the same room. (-20%, 2 Votes)
Total Voters: 59
Start Date: March 9, 2010 @ 12:54 pm
End Date: No Expiry
Which do you believe is the most important aspect of the following three in a D/s BDSM relationship?
- Trust (63%, 220 Votes)
- Communication (27%, 94 Votes)
- Respect (10%, 34 Votes)
Total Voters: 348
Start Date: January 29, 2010 @ 8:39 am
End Date: No Expiry
Of these, what book would you MOST like to see reviewed on Submissive Guide?
- The Submissive Activity Book: Building Blocks To Better Service by Shannon Reilly (32%, 35 Votes)
- The Compleat Slave: Creating And Living An Erotic Dominant/submissive Lifestyle by Jack Rinella (16%, 17 Votes)
- SM 101: A Realistic Introduction by Jay Wiseman (14%, 15 Votes)
- Separating Fact From Fiction: The Life Of A Consensual Slave In The 21St Century by Shannon Reilly (14%, 15 Votes)
- It's Not About the Whip: Love, Sex, and Spirituality in the BDSM Scene by Sensuous Sadie (11%, 12 Votes)
- The Ethical Slut: A Practical Guide to Polyamory, Open Relationships & Other Adventures by Dossie Eastone, Janet Hardy (10%, 11 Votes)
- When Someone You Love Is Kinky by Dossie Easton (3%, 4 Votes)
Total Voters: 109
Start Date: December 29, 2009 @ 1:35 pm
End Date: No Expiry
Should Submissive Guide participate in e[lust] post carnivals? (http://elustsexblogs.com/)
- Yes (82%, 9 Votes)
- No (18%, 2 Votes)
Total Voters: 11
Start Date: December 2, 2009 @ 9:35 am
End Date: No Expiry
Could you be in a D/s or M/s relationship if LOVE wasn't part of the agreement?
- No way, I need love in my service. (72%, 131 Votes)
- Maybe if it was discussed beforehand. (21%, 38 Votes)
- Yes, love isn't everything, my calling is service. (7%, 14 Votes)
Total Voters: 183
Start Date: September 17, 2009 @ 10:35 am
End Date: No Expiry
How Frequently Do You Negotiate Your Relationship?
- Once a week, month or year (regular basis) (39%, 24 Votes)
- When things start to go bad (23%, 14 Votes)
- We don't need negotiation (21%, 13 Votes)
- What is negotiation? (16%, 10 Votes)
- At the time the currnet contract ends (5%, 3 Votes)
- Every scheduled special event (anniversary, birthday, etc) (-4%, 3 Votes)
Total Voters: 62
Start Date: July 18, 2009 @ 10:37 am
End Date: No Expiry
What Does Your Collar Mean to You?
- It symbolizes the commitment between my Dominant and I. (54%, 101 Votes)
- It's more important than a wedding ring. (26%, 49 Votes)
- It puts me into my role just before play sessions. (11%, 21 Votes)
- My collar is like an engagement ring. (7%, 13 Votes)
- The collar doesn't have any value to me. (2%, 2 Votes)
Total Voters: 186
Start Date: June 9, 2009 @ 3:03 pm
End Date: No Expiry
How long have you been actively submissive in BDSM?
- Less than 6 months (24%, 50 Votes)
- Less than 1 year (19%, 39 Votes)
- 5-10 years (17%, 34 Votes)
- More than 10 years (16%, 33 Votes)
- 1-3 years (15%, 31 Votes)
- 3-5 years (9%, 18 Votes)
Total Voters: 205
Start Date: May 27, 2009 @ 10:40 am
End Date: No Expiry
What type of relationship do you participate in or would like to have?
- Dominant/submissive (47%, 103 Votes)
- Master/slave (35%, 77 Votes)
- Daddy/little or Mommy/little (6%, 13 Votes)
- Husband/wife (4%, 9 Votes)
- Domestic Discipline (3%, 7 Votes)
- Other (3%, 6 Votes)
- Head of Household (2%, 3 Votes)
Total Voters: 218
Start Date: April 30, 2009 @ 8:01 am
End Date: No Expiry
Is submission in opposition to feminism?
- No. (88%, 68 Votes)
- Yes. (8%, 6 Votes)
- I don't know. (4%, 3 Votes)
Total Voters: 77
Start Date: February 24, 2009 @ 3:14 pm
End Date: No Expiry
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