Write a summary of what a book about your life as a submissive up to this point would be about.
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Would you like to be in his arms or at his feet?
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Our Dominants teach us so much about ourselves. What is something you’ve taught your Dominant?
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Ideally, what are you seeking in a relationship? Has that changed much as you explore your nature, and if so, how?
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I hate being a sub because…
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In the beginning, did you ever wonder if you would lose your sense of self somehow in your slavery? Has that proven to be the case? Is that still a question for you?
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When are you most aware of being owned/submissive?
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What advice would you give a new submissive just exploring her submissive self?
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Are you a stay-at-home submissive? How did you adapt to your new routine? If you aren’t stay-at-home, is this a dream of yours? Why or why not?
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What book, movie, or website most influenced your first impressions of what slavery was about? How has that changed as you started living as a slave?
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How do you maintain your focus? Do you have a specific ’slave mindset’ you strive for?
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What have you discovered in your service that you never expected?
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How do you define strength, and do you see yourself as strong? Is slavery unaffected by the presence or absence of strength? Could you see yourself submitting to someone less strong than yourself?
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What is your definition of a service submissive? Is this something you strive for or attain or is it a natural part of your being?
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How do you handle stumbles or wrong attempts as you journey down your own path?
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If you are a service submissive without a partner, how do you negotiate sexual service?
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How do you juggle work, family and submission? What is the hardest part?
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Do you ever have submissive immersion where you have times that your role is more pronounced and you do things very structured and organized?
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Are you in a Long Distance Relationship? How do you keep the feeling of submission alive over the miles?
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Are you a quiet obedient submissive or is there an element of playful brattiness in your dynamic? How does your owner encourage or enhance who you are?
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Do you ever find it difficult to embrace your nature in today’s society? How do you balance it out?
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Can you submit when trust has been broken? Can trust ever be rebuilt?
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Is surrender something that occurs all at once for you, or in stages? Can one be partially surrendered?
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Do you ever find it difficult to embrace your nature in today’s society? How do you balance it out?
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Do you have to ask permission to do basic needs like eating, drinking, or going to the bathroom? How does this enhance your submission?
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Read the following essay on Sub Frenzies by Mistress Steel and comment on your own personal experience.
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What would you tell someone new who is starting a journey similar to your own?
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Are you into pain? Is it a service you offer as a part of your submission? Do you believe you could be trained to take pain as pleasure?
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Do you work outside the home? How does that affect your dynamic? What do you do to define your work mindset from your submissive one?
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From a Submissive’s Bill of Rights: You have the right to be loved and to love. Anyone who tells you that love doesn’t fit into a D/s relationship has never experienced the fulfillment of all it truly can be. Submissives are by nature loving and needing of love and have every right to expect this to be a part of their lives. It takes love to bring your submission into full bloom, so don’t settle for less.
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You have the right to be proud of what you are. Being a submissive is nothing that should ever bring you shame or feelings of reproach. Your submissive nature is a gift and should always be a source of pride and happiness.
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Does your owner assign you writing tasks? How have they helped your submission?
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Is there such a thing as a “true” slave/submissive?
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What is the essential core of submission for you?
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Is patience valuable to your submission? Is silence? If you do incorporate these into your practices, what lessons have your learned and how has it helped you?
