What role does your spirituality play in your relationship, if any?
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How do you see your future in service?
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What is one of the most valuable services you can or do provide?
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Write down the first 5 things that come to your mind when you think about domestic service to your partner. What is involved in these things? How are they unique?
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How would you define your service? Devotional, positional, transactional service?
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How would you train someone else to serve your owner, if you were ever placed in the position to do so?
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Do you know ‘dying’ skills like sewing, hand-quilting, soap making, etc? How does this improve your service? What skills would you like to learn?
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Have you felt illness or other factors (depression, stress, PMS, etc) interfere with your ability to serve as well as you want? How do you handle those times?
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“To give real service you must add something which cannot be bought or measured with money, and that is sincerity and integrity.” – Douglas Adams
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What resources do you have in your service-based arsenal? What would you recommend for domestics, cooking, cleaning and other forms of service?
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Do you ever find that you over-analyze? If so, does that ever interfere with your service?
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What would you do with your Owner’s collar if they died while you were in service to them?
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Are you a stay-at-home submissive? How did you adapt to your new routine? If you aren’t stay-at-home, is this a dream of yours? Why or why not?
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Do you find that your spirituality expresses itself in your service?
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What have you discovered in your service that you never expected?
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What is your definition of a service submissive? Is this something you strive for or attain or is it a natural part of your being?
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What are you reading or studying right now that could improve your level of service?
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Do you have access to your family and friends or is it limited? Could you- or would you want to- serve someone who restricted your contact with others, or does that sort of control not affect your service?
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How did you know the person you serve was the one you could surrender to?
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What skill would you most like to learn to enhance your service?
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Are you a perfectionist? Does that help or hinder your service?
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Have you ever been hypnotized? Has hypnosis ever played a part in your service?
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If you are a service submissive without a partner, how do you negotiate sexual service?
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How did you meet the person you serve? If you are currently seeking, where or how are you looking for the right one?
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Service submissive vs. Housekeeper. What’s the difference between drudgery and service? What makes your service different than what you can pay for?
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Do you know what a Butler’s book is? Do you use one as a part of your service? If not, do you have a book to keep track of frequent guests’ preferences so that you can cater to their needs and desires each time they visit?
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How do you ask for forgiveness from the one you serve?
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Have you been taught a formal service ritual? Examples include Japanese Tea Ceremony, English Tea Service, High formal Butler, etc.
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Why do you define yourself as submissive? Try to steer away from ‘I like to serve’ and see what other things you have to offer.
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What is your motivation in your service?
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What is your favorite thing about the person you serve?
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How did you first come to know that you wanted to be in a BDSM or service based relationship? Have you always known, or has it shown itself later in life?
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How do you define “service”?
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Is surrender something that occurs all at once for you, or in stages? Can one be partially surrendered?
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* Do you ever fear of losing your own identity or sense of self within your service?
* Do you welcome the idea of losing your sense of self or identity?
* Do you believe it is possible -for you- to do so?
* Do you believe it would be (or that it is) healthy -for you- to do so? -
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Do you have a long list of rules to follow, or does the person you serve have a different style of management?
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If you had to write down a list of service related skills that you have to offer in your service, what would be on that list?
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What is your favorite form of service?
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What personality traits have you found to be the most useful to you in your service?
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Does your owner require you to be mindful or focused in your service? How do you focus yourself?
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