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Subspace (also sub space), in the context of a BDSM scene, is the psychological state of the submissive partner.

Subspace is a metaphor for the state the submissive’s mind and body are in during a deeply involving play scene. Many types of BDSM play invoke strong physical responses such as extended adrenalin surges that can cause exhaustion. The mental aspect of BDSM also causes many submissives to separate themselves mentally from their environment as they process the experience. Deep subspace is often characterized as a state of deep recession and incoherence. Many submissives require aftercare.

Physiological Processes

During the scene, the intense experiences of both pain and pleasure trigger a sympathetic nervous system response, which causes a release of epinephrine from the suprarenal glands, as well as a dump of endorphins and enkephalins. These natural chemicals, part of the fight or flight response, produce the same effect as a morphine-like drug, increasing the pain tolerance of the submissive as the scene becomes more intense. Producing a sort of trance-like state due to the increase of hormones and chemicals, the submissive starts to feel out-of-body, detached from reality, and as the high comes down, and the parasympathetic nervous system kicks in, a deep exhaustion, as well as incoherence. Many submissives once reaching a height of subspace will lose all sensation of pain, as any stimuli causes the period to prolong.

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FetLife Groups

Subspace/Subdrop - This is a space for subs and dominants to relate their experiences with sub space and or sub drop. What was it like? Did you forget your safe word? How did the domme keep you safe? What caused your drop? Any and all things related.

Sub Space – What it is – how to get there – How it feels.

Sub-Drops, Sub-Space, A Safe Place For Subs - This is a safe place for subs and lovers of subs to tell stories, ask questions, share, support, converse, learn, create.

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2 responses to “Subspace”

  1. heyerdahl {DNR}

    Thank you for posting this.

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  2. Natalie

    I’m a start up submissive I have found a master who is willing to train me I have discovered so far that I am a true sub and I have learned my hard limits and soft limits I’m really looking to find out as much in formation as I can x

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