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March 2010
- Stress in Play with Predicament Bondage
- What I Think about Underage Experimentation and Submission
- Are You Cheating on Your Dominant With Your Ex Dominant's Memory?
- SubWise #8: Serving in Public - Participation Request
- Teach Yourself Belly Dancing Using YouTube
- A Collar by Any Other Name...
- Diffuse Extreme Mood Swings Before They Get You In Trouble
- Submissive Chat Night 3/9/10 8PM CST - Free Chat
- Review: The Submissive Activity Book
- March is Question Month
February 2010
- Regaining Submissive Mind-Space Through Ritual
- Check out e[lust] #8
- Novice Q&A - February Edition
- Introducing...mrs. K
- SubWise #7 - Romance
- When it is Okay to Top From the Bottom
- CANCELLED! Submissive Chat Night 2/23/10 8PM CDT - Oral/Genital Service
- Make-up Application Tips, Tricks and Tutorials
- Introducing nan {SL}
- First Playtime Jitters and How to Arrive Prepared
- SubWise #7: Romance - Participation Request
- What NOT to Share on Your Online Profile
- The Gift of Submission, Or Is It?
- Chaos incarnate? You've got to be kidding.
- Where I Pick Up New Views
- Are Discipline and Punishment The Same?
- My Submissive Code of Ethics
- Submissive Chat Night 2/9/10 8PM CST - Free Chat
- Processing Pain and Being a Masochist
- The Myth of a Slut
January 2010
- Review: How to Be Kinky
- SubWise #6: Myth Busting
- Submissive Guide is Looking for a Writer
- Novice Q & A - January Edition
- Domesticity: The Bathroom
- Submissive Chat Night 1/26/10 8 PM CST - D/s Relationships
- The Beginner at Play
- SubWise #6: Myth Busting - Participation Request
- All Tied Up: Rope Bondage
- Lactation Play and the Adult Nursing Relationship
- With the Stroke of a Cane: Enjoying Caning
- Poll: What Book are You Most Interested in?
- Up in Flames: The Basics of Fireplay
- Exploring Impact Play: A Variety of Pleasures
- Submissive Chat Night 1/12/10 8PM CST - BDSM Play
- Let's Play! BDSM Activities From a Submissive Viewpoint
- The Top 30 Posts of 2009
- Exploring BDSM in a Guest Post Feature Series
- The Impact of Velcro Collars on the Symbolism
December 2009
- Happy Holidays
- SubWise #5: A Year's Reflection
- Review: The Surrendered Wife
- Is BDSM the Nerds and Geeks Club?
- The Ins and Outs of Fetishes
- SubWise #5: A Year's Reflection - Participation Request
- Donate to Submissive Guide
- The Roundtable: Money Handling
- Submissive Chat Night 12/15/09 8 PM CDT - Free Chat
- SkylerPet's Helpful Holiday Hints
- Chat Night Transcript for Speaking Submissively
- Can You Separate BDSM and Sex?
- What are Dress Protocols?
- Domesticity: The Kitchen
November 2009
- Best Submissive Blogs List #2
- Why You Should Sign Up for the Submissive Guide Newsletter
- Submissive Chat Night: 12/1/09 - Speaking Submissively
- SubWise #4: Favorite Scene Memory
- Review: Erotic Slavehood
- The Roundtable: Chastity
- Curious about Me? Listen to the Interview!
- Sub v. Slave: A Second Opinion
- SubWise #4: Favorite Scene Memory - Particpation Request
- One month into my first real time D/S relationship: A Training Review
- Open for Questions
- 5 Ways to Express Your Gratitude to Your Dominant
- Submissive Chat Night 11/17/09: Negotiation and Common Sense
- Submissive and Slave: A Personal View
- How To Help Your Dominant Recover From Play
- Using Contracts to Negotiate a Relationship
- Winners of Gift Certificates!
- Am I Submissive?
- Write About Your Favorite BDSM Play Activity for Submissive Guide
- Scheduled Maintenance 11/8/09 for Redesign
- Best BDSM Fiction for Hot Steamy Nights
October 2009
- Review: Protocols: a Variety of Views
- Submissive Chat Night 11/3/09: Views On Protocol
- SubWise #3: Ease of Obedience
- The Disposable Relationship Mentality
- Time is Running Out for Your Chance to win $100 Gift Certificate!
- The Roundtable: Body Modification
- Submissive Chat Night 10/27/09: Dating and Online Dominant Searches
- When Protocol Becomes Boring
- SubWise #3: Ease of Obedience - Participation Request
- The Many Layers of Sub Space
- How To Start Your Submissive Journal
- Chat Night Transcript From What is Service Talk
- Living as an Emotionally Healthy Submissive
- Is It Submission If You Like What You're Doing?
- Want To Win $100 Gift Certificate from Stockroom.com?
- Rescheduled! Submissive Chat Night 10/13/09: What is Service?
- Top Ten Books on Holiday Preparation
- Chat Night Rescheduled Due to Technical Issues
- Submissive Journey Weekend 2010 Registration Now Open
- Service With Grace
- Help Submissive Guide Raise $1000 for NLA-I DVP for National Domestic Violence Awareness Month
September 2009
- SubWise #2: Advice You Swear By
- Review: How To Get the Spanking You Want
- Should There Be Clear Definitions to Label Yourself In This Lifestyle?
- ATTENTION Graphic Web Designers
- Chat Night Transcript From Sub Space and Sub Drop Talk
- Exploring Your Place in BDSM Play
- SubWise #2: Advice You Swear By - Participation Request
- The Safety Disguise of Safewords
- The Challenges of Being Kajira in Today's Society
- Submissive Chat Night 9/22/09: Subspace and Subdrop
- Strengths and Misconceptions of Kajira
- What It Means to Be an Owned Kajira
- Tasks While Your Dominant is Away
- Here's Looking At You
- Would you like to get a topical newsletter sent directly to your email on a regular basis?
- The Roundtable: Gorean Lifestyle
- Don't Assume Submissive Means Sister
- Spread The Word about Submissive Guide
- Assualt is NOT okay
- Add Cons, Classes and Events to your Training Resume
- Nonverbal Ways to Safeword
- Now Available: The Spanking Series in E-Book!
August 2009
- Another 7 Things You Can Do Today to Improve Your Submission
- SubWise #1: Your Personal Submission
- Chat Night Transcript From BDSM and Sex Talk - 8/25/09
- The Basics of Negotiating a Scene
- My Submission is Better Than Your Submission
- Review: The New Bottoming Book
- Submissive Chat Night 8/25/09: BDSM and Sex
- SubWise #1: Your Personal Submission - Participation Request
- A Switch of the D/s Lifestyle
- Using Playtime Check Ins Wisely
- Add Your Reading List to Your Training Resume
- Reader's Response to Addictions
- A Lesson in Control with Self-Punishment
- First Meetings Done Safely
- Coming Clean: Admitting Your Disobedience
- Finding Domesticity In You
- Living with Kids While in the D/s Lifestyle
- Juggling Daily Life and Submission
July 2009
- Dating in the Lifestyle; What's the Big Deal?
- Submissive Guide Town Hall Meeting
- The Roundtable: D/s with Kids At Home
- Handling an Addiction While in Service
- The BDSM Checklist that Will Really Help You
- Where Do You Chat?
- 21 Websites to Help you Start a Meditation Routine
- The Many Faces of Submission
- Dressing for a Play Party; What to Wear
- Announcing the Winner of the 2 Book Contest
- Personal Hiatus: Death in the Family
- Submissive Guide On Twitter
- The Meaning Of Collars [Poll Results]
- Submissive Guide 2 Book Contest
June 2009
- Where to Buy a Collar Online
- Why BDSM is Not D/s
- Donate Your Old BDSM Books to Submissive Guide
- Review: SlaveCraft
- Poll: What Does Your Collar Mean to You?
- Banishment as a Form of Punishment: How Do You Cope?
- 5 Ways to Bring Out Your Dominance In Bed
- The Behind the Scenes: A Dominant Character
- What's the Difference Between a Lifestyler and a Player?
- How to Give Good Initial Interviews
- Introducing Kink into an Existing Relationship
- This Collar, That Collar, Your Collar, My Collar
- What Type of Relationship Are You In [Poll Results]
- When You Can't Get Away: Follow Up to Submissive PMS
- Submissive PMS and How to Deal With It
- Nurtured or Natural: Submission and Abuse
- Know Your Manners when Visiting D/s Friends
- Accepting 24/7 D/s as Real
- Sub Space: The Ultimate Frontier
- The Roundtable: The Secrets to a Smooth Bikini Shave
- Dominance as a Slave Training Tool for Better Submission
- When Submissives Go Wild: Sub Frenzy
- Can I Be Abused in a BDSM Relationship?
May 2009
- Just Wait Till Your Father Gets Home: Telling Your Family
- Do You Answer When Submission Calls You?
- The Truth About Orgasm Control and Denial
- Recommended Reading for New Submissives
- Maintenance Spankings; Why Do It?
- A Call to Advertise Here
- Cyber Submission and Exploring D/s Online
- Review: Different Loving
- Can Online Training Work?
- Develop Your Submission with a Training Resume
- Should You Tell Your Friends about Your Kinky Interests?
- Learn a New Skill to Enhance Your Service with Free Online Courses
- Carte Blanche - Repeating Misbehavior Patterns
- Submissive Guide Chat Room
- Do I have to Like Pain to be Submissive?
- Etiquette at Play Parties
- All Female Submissives are Bisexual and Other BDSM Myths
- Daddy/Little Girl Relationships: A Personal Look
- The Roundtable: Open Marriages
- Best Submissive Blogslist
- Show Off Your Positions! [Day 14 - 2WBSP]
- Altering Positions [Day 13 - 2WBSP]
- Stop Fidgeting! [Day 12 - 2WBSP]
- A Grand Apology [Day 11 - 2WBSP]
April 2009
- Worship and Obedience [Day 10 - 2WBSP]
- Offering Your Body for Service [Day 9 - 2WBSP]
- Offering Your Neck for Collar [Day 8 - 2WBSP]
- Serving Food and Drink [Day 7 - 2WBSP]
- Attending Your Dominant [Day 6 - 2WBSP]
- To Bow and Curtsy Appropriately [Day 5 - 2WBSP]
- Rise From The Floor With Finesse [Day 4 - 2WBSP]
- Gracefully Lowering Yourself [Day 3 - 2WBSP]
- Standing at Attention [Day 2 - 2WBSP]
- Learning to Kneel [Day 1 - 2WBSP]
- Two Weeks to Better Submissive Positions
- What is a Play Party?
- 7 Things You Can Do Today to Impove Your Submission
- Handling Guilt from Mistakes and Punishment
- Pet Play and Human Pets: A Primer
- A Single Submissive Packs a Toybag
- Two Dominants
- Am I Normal? Exploring Normalcy in BDSM Relationships
- Readers' View on Polyamory
- Structure with Rules
- Identifying Fake Dominants and Posers
- Why the Word 'Training' Confuses Novices
- The Value of Checklists
- 4 Things to Look for in a Mentor
March 2009
- Learning to Apply Makeup
- The Emotional Side of Sub Drop
- How to Give a Romantic Bath
- 10 Helpful Websites for the Busy Submissive
- Review: Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns
- A Great Example of a Slave's Rosary
- Finding Your Spirituality In Service
- Stereotyping Submission as Feminine
- Mapping Out Your Ideal Submission
- Collars
- Do You Need the "Luck o' the Irish" to Meet that Perfect Dominant?
- What Is Polyamory Anyway?
- The Roundtable: Polyamory
- Helping Your Owner with Deadlines
- Helping Your Partner Become More Dominant
- What is a Mentor?
- Leaving Work at the Door: How to Find the Mindset Once You Are Both Home
- Is Submission in Opposition to Feminism?
- Real Life vs. Online, the Battle for Understanding
- Your First Munch
- The Importance of Rules
February 2009
- Rituals that Work from Those that Practice Them
- Balancing Depression and Submission
- The Novelty of Slash Speak
- My First Blog Award!
- What Is Slave Training?
- RACK: An Alternative to SSC
- 10 Red Flags of Bad or Abusive Dominants
- Online Encounters and the Danger of Blind Faith
- Ask For What You Want
- Learning Your Wants and Needs
- What Should You Do When Your Wants or Needs Aren't Met?
- Recording Your Completed Training
- Poll: What Training Would You Like?
- What Your Defining Moment Means to Your Submissive Future
- Thursday Question #5: Defining Moment
- You Aren't Doing It Right - Dealing With Criticism
- A Submissive Approach to Safe, Sane and Consensual
January 2009
- Help! My Dom is smaller than me!
- Thursday Question #4: Playing With Others
- How to Beg When Asked
- Caring for Yourself After a Scene: Self-Aftercare
- 5 Ways to Recognize Topping from the Bottom
- Thursday Question #3: Online Dating Services
- Recording Your Training History
- The Differences Between Bottom, Masochist, Submissive and Slave
- Creating a Daily Cleaning Routine
- Thursday Question #2: Healing Marks
- The Importance of Journaling Your Submission
- Expressions of Wants and Needs
- Basic Manners and Etiquette
- Thursday Question #1: A Look Back One Year
- Importance of Needs
- Submission By Choice: Learned Submission
- Finding a Compatible Partner in the Lifestyle
- To Safeword or Not To Safeword
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