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tequilarose

tequilarose
Tequila Rose is a full time slave who recently relocated to Germany to be with her Master. She has been in the lifestyle since her early twenties and continues to learn more about the lifestyle and being a slave. She now spends her days learning her new language and wandering the streets of Dortmund. You can contact her via email: theawesometequilarose@gmail.com

Articles

That Don’t Impress Me Much: Why You Should Not Withhold Your Safeword

That Don’t Impress Me Much: Why You Should Not Withhold Your Safeword

If you don’t use your safeword, you could be in for more than just an overly sore backside. A safeword is your lifeline and your partner trusts you to use it if you need to. TR shares a personal story where playing with no safewords went wrong.

Leave a comment Posted by tequilarose | Posted in: Beginner Basics, Relationships, Safety
Book Review: The Big Book for Littles by Penny Barber

Book Review: The Big Book for Littles by Penny Barber

The Big Book for Littles is really great for those who are new and exploring the little or age play dynamic. This review is a quick analysis and shares why you too should pick up this book if you or your partner identify as a little.

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Submission Isn’t Easy-Nor for Your Convenience

How hard is it to do something that your dominant, the one person you love and trust completely, has asked that you don’t want to do? Tequilarose shares her thoughts on the sometimes struggle to submit.

9 comments Posted by tequilarose | Posted in: Personal Growth
BDSM How To: Wax Play

BDSM How To: Wax Play

A fantastic little how to get started with Wax Play! Important points include candle temperature and what you need to get going with your own scene.

A Lesson on The Importance of Online Safety from Kitty Thomas’ “Tender Mercies”

A Lesson on The Importance of Online Safety from Kitty Thomas’ “Tender Mercies”

There are a lot of risks that comes with meeting people online. Tequilarose shares a lesson she picked up from reading “Tender Mercies” by Kitty Thomas about online safety and abusive situations.

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Book Review: Broken Toys: Submissives with Mental Illness and Neurological Dysfunction

Book Review: Broken Toys: Submissives with Mental Illness and Neurological Dysfunction

If you are a s-type who suffers from a mental or neurological disorder or both, tequilarose can’t recommend this book enough. It truly is one of a kind and full of great information and perspectives. Read the full review and decide for yourself!

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7 Tips for Handling Holiday Stress

7 Tips for Handling Holiday Stress

For many out there, the holidays aren’t the most wonderful time of the year. Take a look at 7 helpful tips and tricks you can use to overcome stress and depression during the holidays.

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The Importance of Being Authentic

The Importance of Being Authentic

It’s so important as an s-type to be authentic. If you want to submit, if you want to serve, those desires have to come from the heart. I know it’s not always easy to be as authentic as we would like, but it’s something we must keep striving for.

Leave a comment Posted by tequilarose | Posted in: Mindset, Relationships
Book Review: The Ultimate Guide to Kink: BDSM, Role Play and the Erotic Edge by Tristan Taormino

Book Review: The Ultimate Guide to Kink: BDSM, Role Play and the Erotic Edge by Tristan Taormino

This is a great book for any dominant and s-type to have in their library of nonfiction BDSM books. Tequilarose’s favorite essay, Submissive: A Personal Manifesto by Madison Young is a must read for female s-types.

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31 Days of Submissive Journaling: Day 22 – How to Manage Negative Comments Without Rage

31 Days of Submissive Journaling: Day 22 – How to Manage Negative Comments Without Rage

Accepting criticism is never an easy thing to do. Learn how to curb your knee-jerk responses and anger to keep your readers coming back and to also attract new readers.

Book Review: Paradigms of Power: Styles of Master/Slave Relationships

Book Review: Paradigms of Power: Styles of Master/Slave Relationships

Paradigms of Power: Styles of Master/Slave Relationships by Raven Kaldera is a collection of essays written by both masters and slaves who are involved in different types of relationships. Tequilarose provides a critical review.

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Learning Your Way Around the Kitchen-Homemade Pizza Dough and Pizza Sauce

Learning Your Way Around the Kitchen-Homemade Pizza Dough and Pizza Sauce

An easy recipe for pizza dough and pizza sauce by Tequilarose!

Leave a comment Posted by tequilarose | Posted in: DIY, Service, Talents and Skills
Book Review: BDSM-The Naked Truth by Dr. Charley Ferrer

Book Review: BDSM-The Naked Truth by Dr. Charley Ferrer

When Dr. Charley Ferrer stated that she is one of the world’s leading experts on BDSM, I had to check out and see what she had to say about the lifestyle. Here’s my critical review.

1 comment Posted by tequilarose | Posted in: Beginner Basics, Reviews, Views & More...
Fear in Submission

Fear in Submission

Fear can be good, because it makes us take a moment and stop and think about what we’re about to do, especially when that thing we’re about to do is stepping out of our comfort zone. Making the decision to submit, is definitely one of those decisions.

1 comment Posted by tequilarose | Posted in: Community, Personal Growth, Relationships
Dealing with Guilt as a Submissive

Dealing with Guilt as a Submissive

When it comes to dealing with guilt, you have to talk about it. You can’t just shove it somewhere deep inside and expect that to take care of everything. Neither can you throw yourself into an activity and consider it done. You have to talk it out with the person, no matter how difficult that may be.

1 comment Posted by tequilarose | Posted in: Personal Growth
Book Review: Decoding Your Kink by Galen Fous MTP

Book Review: Decoding Your Kink by Galen Fous MTP

A critical review of Decoding Your Kink by Galen Faous. Rating: 9/10!

1 comment Posted by tequilarose | Posted in: Beginner Basics, Reviews
Dealing With Submissive Burnout

Dealing With Submissive Burnout

There are times where I don’t feel like being a slave. The good thing, burnout isn’t a permanent problem.

2 comments Posted by tequilarose | Posted in: Mindset, Relationships
The Importance of Being Your Own Person

The Importance of Being Your Own Person

Being a submissive is a huge part of who you are, but it’s not all you are. It can be easy to lose yourself in the relationship and your submission. It’s important to be your own person as well.

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Feeling Like a Failure as a Slave

Feeling Like a Failure as a Slave

I know I’m human. Since I am human, that means I’m going to make mistakes. Here are some other tips I’ve found that can help when you find yourself feeling like a failure.

6 comments Posted by tequilarose | Posted in: Mindset, Personal Growth, Relationships
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Learning Your Way Around the Kitchen-Copycat Ikea Meatballs

tequilarose shares her copycat meatballs recipe.

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